Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

$ W4 L! t& ~$ n$ G% E, N/ \( {& t4 J' tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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: y, G: k8 P8 s' i1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
7 h9 m7 T: k9 t- X8 q; O1 VTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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# ]* u. Q* l4 B5 Z) r+ A/ R2 Q2.        Speak up when she’s good
. P' d( I! R* S1 _  Y! pIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
5 t6 B. ]9 M$ r& A  a( R7 vLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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, b! Q& z; H2 \! AWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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