Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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) C+ a8 z  L, A; |* }3 tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

2 R3 F- b; a' o; ?1 X1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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% k2 X9 j$ }) T' f3 Q  M- d2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
* I# v& Z. v% @) w& A& x6 c
& B: T- t4 O) f$ k2 U* t) l5 KWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

8 N8 y2 s/ C6 N/ a" J1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
1 {" y5 _. ?/ V2 Q. cTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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