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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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7 Y* S5 q6 Y% P" M' f( k, qThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 8 u- Z3 h6 y" Z& P+ Q
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number ; h. {! r6 S( V9 Z) b- X5 J
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of people he/she hates. 1 I2 j# M) Y5 ~5 N3 o* P* L7 i* }

3 f% ^# y( Z+ C* ^2 V* HSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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% I* ~3 A, B( Zthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes 9 U, m/ ]( M* u

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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain & h8 ]7 G/ [( U8 f
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. : P4 j: P, J! r! w; W
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes   ]' M! t  h5 a9 L+ O: v
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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4 s8 S8 N) p4 g0 T' ]having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. * e  g$ w. ^6 f4 z) F: j1 E9 d

3 F! M, G7 H* Z' V4 QThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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0 c7 L$ C5 p; j% U- \9 c  I5 u0 NThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry * f& |  q1 d1 h: N

# i0 h: @0 y% ]6 nyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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3 r$ \0 i6 ~4 \: x; W5 p! o3 \you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just - n9 ~. j* d6 t0 e2 u5 r& o0 q* d
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred $ x6 ]6 I. O" x6 P$ N
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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