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THE STENCH OF HATRED ) i# X2 [$ {( x* X, y8 ]
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% T; P `, r5 A- M6 zA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic 7 b- d$ C* Q9 F0 a% `" A, @
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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5 O( i2 }# A2 X6 da child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number 9 D8 A& Y, l$ @- ^; h0 M
/ d. u0 C1 p q* |5 iof people he/she hates.
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with $ _$ x; ^$ H) N" D. y0 V
+ c% A. S" m' Sthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some ; ^& x, S' y& t1 N; N
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain & p; f0 O% p6 J7 l( i/ }+ w3 r
& F$ y4 e, D o$ H3 N6 cdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, * r9 R4 C, h5 o' Y$ G2 m+ G2 m
5 _- n( n1 n, ^ O$ V* t$ G) I. Xthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 0 a6 @. c N. ~
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 6 U$ Q; B" B6 ?1 T+ Z8 _/ p
N4 N! r, |* q2 Y+ G* J. sThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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/ |4 H* A7 F0 U# ?; y+ nstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. & w4 M4 N5 w4 Y; m
; P9 `/ J' o2 E1 `Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. ! ^+ c7 N! j4 j- n6 z% w0 I- u7 g
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry ' i! m4 `4 E! S9 l% p
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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& j; Q- W3 T: n6 S) Y: f7 ?you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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2 U9 b- Z# R+ O- L0 V1 g1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 5 |: @( {/ X$ a, g" i( H9 H0 O
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; - `$ ^! g7 k" a8 B7 t7 I
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it is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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