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Follow Your Dream
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' j, v: M6 P1 }$ B, @# M( Y- uI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 1 Y* x5 _' F/ B# C* h
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ! a6 E' U! N+ P. A$ e
for youth at risk programs. " o& l5 j+ f2 ]- P7 n
, P8 D1 q" F, E! c& v4 H: hThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
) M4 J0 b5 @7 Q; j. dwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young " M4 n% z3 ` O& C8 T- O; V
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable 4 \2 r9 S# Z, O* W$ V0 ^# h ]
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
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When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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1 Q" I! j. y( s4 ?/ W z; N- P. L8 e0 i'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday $ B3 _- D8 Y9 U2 P$ T
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
. a: k7 R* v9 k6 Z* u% r3 Pdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, . c# a* y$ ^$ D: M& U2 Q
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot ' ^! x7 G J0 G3 E' h& X' l
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
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On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
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" W5 x+ G% [8 x; v! p& p: D'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
Q; x1 Q" _3 ?& ~You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. " o6 O& j2 l% J" k$ b
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. ' { B; F% f9 @" ^
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to & K7 L' ?, T2 ?/ X! A
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher % p7 {8 }3 J9 {
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will : ^& B8 |# U8 r) B+ Q4 S
reconsider your grade.’ 4 r" ?: d0 R) v4 O5 q0 n& c1 s; L. J
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 5 u. A) E; D+ h; R) B4 i) H0 O
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
" {- V6 b* C8 j2 l- R+ Zown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ( P+ h3 C0 X% ^- X
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
4 O4 U- C; P- Z) }' {1 bpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 1 S8 a u+ D) H+ s/ \
keep my dream.'' 6 Z/ X- m* }+ d; k5 e
) I( s6 b/ d1 j: t, e9 ] eMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 0 p8 z$ H1 ~, [0 b2 R2 }6 Y
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of , M0 p3 \; q- n A+ K, L, P" F
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ) x( j: b6 c. a" B4 J7 n
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
6 m/ v7 e" K* i4 Zthat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' . k5 z" j( j# K7 l0 n. |' o% E
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
8 K( T# S0 ]( ^) Anow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 8 ?. Z; b F% m6 s5 t
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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& A7 v, [0 z% q/ c; C0 Y+ f9 ]. YDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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