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6 G1 w2 C% V* s7 P8 @How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.9 v' y4 e2 r3 Q* V
9 M7 L6 @1 d( F% S1 W0 c; k# DYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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. a$ m' l# k8 b& x* }% E! nHow are you?4 Z- Q% d+ Y( f# c% J* I
Fine.
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: j" v! E; X3 H, u8 UThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".; n1 c9 [; Z6 g6 ^! ^, @
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Fine, thanks.
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9 e! c( W/ x- s" ]6 z% AThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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3 d6 |8 x& T4 Y/ O0 ~+ TA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.) Y# m3 I! u$ {8 M. ^" U2 B; F
M* F/ \! d$ R/ e7 CPretty good.
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/ F/ j3 |% W! N/ H' @7 q4 xIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual. g/ @0 P" j- h6 Y; p9 v
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Great! How are you doing?
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5 u3 L# |2 {0 b$ Z3 Q7 b3 RThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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/ H" {/ l7 P/ rThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.0 @3 ~- V2 z+ K0 k: j
: y6 F: O' f9 Q* X9 MI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?/ _* |; q7 O- b) }) z9 z
7 z( G8 U& w) T4 M) O& [B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.5 j: v4 j1 ]& T- [
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This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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+ y! T: V$ }3 jHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. 2 N7 c$ D5 m2 v+ f2 z; P
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?9 Y8 _1 N8 N* _" P. L. W
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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. U6 H9 _; p) S% o% n, g1 ^3 d4 ~Nothing much.' ~% h! v/ _" T
- f+ d- R+ F5 F* k* v+ yThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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* `6 `5 L7 \) y2 S) \8 n1 x# SThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common./ f) H& _$ m# r
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7 V( p+ O) ?2 B l% WThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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# f( D# ]- X" z8 U4 o$ `4 q9 rOh, just the usual.) _- \+ V$ Q4 ?
$ l& m" q; T$ y- B0 W& q; CAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day., [0 D- A6 t' V z$ F
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Just the same old same old.7 H6 b1 R) {0 g0 F
- |, i9 W( q) t. j" Y8 g) ~This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.; z. O) y; h9 A7 R% p2 ^8 d# g
% _. e% n- }. g0 {( Q* ?Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!' G; c! @" Y5 P! t+ v; g
$ b! `& m3 [; w7 R) EYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
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