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( ^9 M- z/ U p4 T+ dHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.. j) V: R( {2 u7 \
8 Z! n( b2 Q0 V( {4 XYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?$ L2 ]; `2 s2 _: s
Fine.
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- A8 R" B% n7 j/ I0 e E; r1 ^This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.( S2 k5 ^5 E1 n; U3 N& K# P
$ x" C9 O* t$ g: ~7 bNot bad.
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" y) _; b" t: o7 x' Z- | \2 P1 WThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".+ N' f0 g4 @ h
1 z: a% D7 S6 T- C U# {# CFine, thanks.
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" W$ |7 t2 T* \0 U7 O; Q" sThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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! T, ?: k; C& c0 T1 m1 rVery well, thanks.
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5 C; B+ ]9 R( N( B$ b4 s kA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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7 q9 g$ K4 V0 Z' IIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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/ b- B3 n K! v, |Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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. k) l' Z# ]' `( W- @% O% hI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.9 i4 A) p; p0 _1 \3 g3 g) K) }, ^
0 o/ C4 C, s1 LI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?3 P" c2 W4 f0 I: [/ A3 n) E- n; d0 f
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B: I've been better.
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8 `; U' Z& q$ s( {1 R3 e. {+ b' zB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.$ m9 q: ~; B/ x; F4 c0 W
6 o* r" t8 Z) t3 M! sHow's it going?3 C. l2 u$ Y( `2 u0 Y( `
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.5 J; y' L& g, s1 {/ x3 I. F
g' b( V$ t2 P) q* ZHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. 3 Y. k0 W ~& s }9 R4 \
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?
, `! i7 ~. U" R+ q$ ZThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:) s; ~# C% h% p: h7 ]% F3 h! n
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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& x" O( a+ k% C1 E4 UThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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; d% d% O7 E+ v( ]/ ENothing.7 y4 u- R n0 K$ J3 r, B
. s* M3 c* _ T) n8 }This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.$ \; D* g9 {" i1 I! a; F
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Oh, just the usual.( ^: o: R; G3 K0 H& o
3 e& l4 g: r. r3 P; C( H/ l1 BAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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1 M; b, \+ c) A' T7 h) fJust the same old same old.* s8 q6 M `# G3 {' g4 I
) H, _! z9 ^7 [% W1 ~* wThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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, m9 B8 B. J' s% f" d3 T7 @Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!% m, N2 [3 N/ i3 N" |8 c4 a
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
) }' J2 k! ^/ `+ L$ MThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.9 B3 c) J2 L- s+ z# w7 A2 r3 y7 k
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