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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. ! P8 y% Y2 K( G3 G! n9 P
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, ! e5 K! [( D: r
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. ' H/ q& n) b1 D5 u' s: ]
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 9 Z/ e# m( Q2 }& B4 V/ S' C5 `
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been & P) h0 I; s- o9 g0 D! ]- D. o% v; x
hung on his window.
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7 v# i4 E$ B, `; x7 v: L+ _# ]"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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7 [3 h7 V6 Z+ l" J" e& _"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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~" M8 }& W' c* A+ f% O( xEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new 9 B& r; Z6 h, W9 h6 g1 i
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life. 2 }$ O" I J6 `; t0 y# ~% N! ^
( P) [* a& W+ @+ S6 R6 I" w8 mOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. 4 Z& A3 F1 R6 [; H
( k6 Y# Y1 K1 {9 @6 q0 b- }( z# P$ ?" ]+ RSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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7 Q; M" ^ A$ B" H, ?# q( ]1 D 1. Free your heart from hatred. 4 V" P6 T9 \1 X! R' t5 k8 C
2. Free your mind from worries.
/ y- K! @ `. q 3. Live simply.
; F6 U6 q' P+ A 4. Give more.
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