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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.# Y$ w/ `2 Y/ [% e& _
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' U+ }$ X8 T% w3 |( {/ n* x3 NThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. 1 K% [/ N& ~6 H6 |& m5 F: x
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 4 a7 M5 _/ |& P
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.8 h; Q X6 F) c. M) S- E
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