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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 " t. f% q' t* }
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 # ]0 v# s& S& m7 [
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 + }" V' k$ a# x
/ x9 H4 c0 Z k2 ^/ [, ?There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. 4 n5 j; D; r' Y L3 ~# J
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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" c. R2 T) ]. f* n$ p- rA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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