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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee7 X/ ~# ]1 E" m7 Q6 }3 b
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in & C6 a0 Q& ?7 e1 E( l
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 9 Y4 X3 P Z$ p6 z, l2 |- B0 N0 x
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
. \& N2 j, p. b& k7 `( s! j> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
& E2 @# h5 X m: W> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then * C) \" n3 L1 v, e) w
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.7 D9 e/ ]# x( x) J8 D! v
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. G$ C, L; v2 v& ?6 |# l: \$ s> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
8 S. d8 f2 R n+ I# e& M* B2 n> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 3 V: U- w- X* |
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
0 T% D3 T* d9 Y* B1 L' ~> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
4 x- e( K4 t' v: @" m) K. I> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ; K9 ?8 X x; d6 v
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes.". c( P5 E( T! u8 x3 ]; s4 u
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3 T- K+ S, J$ R# ^+ }. a8 x7 ?> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 8 t2 _2 h3 e2 {# ?! e
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
5 X9 w1 y# x! F> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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: p8 a3 b- k! `6 t- ]> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to / F# p& K8 o. q; I- C' o
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
; B8 L) l& H u, p) Z! c4 }> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
7 f- X8 h G5 y3 ] q+ `9 A% ?> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% W6 c, F$ E- q> remained, your life would still be full.; W% v0 O# G: ^/ M6 F/ N
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
C, d \& D# a( E% P+ G0 H, a. A> your car.
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, r3 K# v6 X( L' ~# L P7 l5 K> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
O U5 L; M* }" Z( k6 H( F8 u> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
# z6 R. F# l! @! J7 z! c" k( R> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
5 U {7 {; v( t/ G- W> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , X3 f0 @1 P4 z# P
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/ w' u6 Q) m$ x7 s8 I> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
3 m" ~3 k+ \2 [ M> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with # P- N$ [2 H0 S3 X
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to ' S3 ?/ ~- K1 X/ C: I
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and k/ T. m& K S. e& U
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 5 r# m: G- m6 x2 c7 W X+ Z9 B
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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6 J3 g5 ]& E$ j! B2 R! d) K: q3 H> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee : H5 C' g9 d" R8 w; ^- M
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."+ J5 i8 a0 @# o3 U4 c( }# p; o
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8 _% g* }) b T/ I1 \0 }: B0 D. X> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 0 ^1 {. s* ?9 C* s2 v* @8 a
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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6 s7 ?1 y. F& D- f; r! S> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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