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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
7 b: o: z: Y2 a/ x! e> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee: {2 Q, h5 W- c$ e
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
8 w) w- z7 Z" y+ k# D> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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# i" }7 e5 ~9 H> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
5 Z Q6 G# l) G& R9 |- ~> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
( s) ~4 f* }1 q> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
) X& B1 y* J" n. t6 q9 o8 J> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.; Q) y$ f& A+ w$ X0 ]
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/ i% J }$ c9 z0 S& I. i> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 2 g. ~. P+ Q( L1 w6 u) e
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
2 h7 d$ T2 A. W" G> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
7 y5 M B+ ?9 F> agreed it was.
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9 F/ _0 s5 X0 _+ }, ~6 W> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ' \( Q x: K2 y, w5 I, Q
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
/ ~6 ]( y. b0 m! \> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."2 C8 j7 G& m* w6 A( I z
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
7 n9 j: a6 E5 C4 a3 j> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ! j# A# h H% s |- _
> space between the sand. The students laughed.) ?9 U9 |- C$ ^) K. q( F; c; _
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
" F0 r, O' S0 ]& y> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the * q+ W0 v; H/ ]- u& r$ Y+ E) x
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
7 u5 a7 T U$ p, f> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
3 ?, b1 @. R. U" [* k0 y" X> remained, your life would still be full.# J( l5 r5 a: E4 Y. _3 ]
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and # w" H) q, ?2 W+ i) b2 i
> your car.* l& A& r. G8 r: H! E
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
W) i: _3 m' M2 T/ I9 k> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
8 D1 L3 k0 y: X; U9 r0 x" p> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
' I- h! F% E5 p2 e$ u% h! S> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 9 R( O: a" b. J9 C
> important to you.' ?( d {) S& ^5 ^' i3 w* S: l
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0 Q6 G1 W9 _: o6 g; }' P( B! i> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
& I/ S+ a2 \: U; V9 V# ~2 \. J8 j> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with * o7 J. W( s1 D- N6 h9 v
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to , C2 p% o: e/ t; Z
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
$ m8 T& o x7 H> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 2 V( p9 N; P% K/ P" H) z7 x4 V
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."7 p, p# N! n) V
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& J, v8 v9 Z) H$ V6 x$ L> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
2 e. V! F M! o- `, r> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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$ n; z7 O( E& h* p; B% b> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ( W. Y$ y! u$ @+ t& p( r1 l \
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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4 \# f7 Z6 B4 {0 S> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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