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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee7 U9 v' L9 F: U. U8 j/ j1 |( s3 G
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
3 n9 Q1 A1 I6 I! n> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
9 u1 m/ y" _+ ?> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and % [' M, n9 G4 y. x- ]! Q# Q
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 8 e3 B- D& B% q$ e9 I; ]
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.2 X& P# o7 x9 Z n( e% H0 v( c
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. Q. O ~: X( J> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
$ H8 y1 p1 N. J: X' F7 X> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 5 m {! d. b. N. B9 F4 D5 W
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They / ^ N( H) Z3 n' o2 U
> agreed it was.+ \* q: Q7 X1 r
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% H' X+ z1 V6 V5 n1 R* K% o4 J> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of $ g, n: u5 s0 b/ A$ z3 k
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
3 W2 ~( S6 n9 n" D0 R" ]7 i> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 D. ~6 b ?: A9 \2 b/ c8 ]5 y
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6 q3 p& J$ }0 y4 R> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ( q4 K9 f3 A4 R- p& p
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
* R- [' Y# K1 T1 ^> space between the sand. The students laughed.8 v' P) Q& a- |0 x6 Y6 p
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. ]1 ^, }0 ]) H& [! S> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
1 W' I) N3 ], E" |0 {. }" W9 ]> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
- W% o& y/ s( @3 U- r4 t7 f* M+ l> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends + ^9 _7 [! p3 F; P3 L
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they - R3 f- i7 ?/ |. {4 i$ H7 p
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and + d6 d5 ]1 L( A3 t' O6 o4 i
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
7 k' X0 l r+ V> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the # S/ r$ C9 |9 z* b4 O
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
; G/ F# w( p- |! I" N8 ]$ t> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 7 I9 [( H$ J; n0 p) v' S
> important to you.2 j: E3 r6 T# Z5 o: C1 j- U
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend * a! |3 S6 x; A6 d
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
3 i! m. G, h1 z, c, k4 Q> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 9 k' W3 j3 b$ Y
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
/ n' |7 X- L! b6 e! R> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that . \' \. |8 ?3 \9 f- |9 p
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."; _% n0 [8 s8 |8 S0 g/ M$ ]$ `0 y
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$ Z7 d5 F+ B, k8 g* ~) P% [# q, d> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee $ R3 H: b8 Q9 J" Q8 Z8 h/ y$ N
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."* @8 T* O& x* \2 T
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, ]6 X1 ?2 f! n* f> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 2 T5 N1 K3 A6 }% l/ C O) \ s
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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# |! ~; b- |& D7 O- A> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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