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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
7 v, u- t1 k& Q- Z6 B> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 9 B- V0 F, O7 x2 C- }
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 8 J' Q$ K1 R0 Q, l s4 B( l7 ^
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 6 ]4 {2 e p# j; c# H/ W+ r& ?
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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" F# [, y* l9 c$ @( c4 B> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
# B$ K: H* A; {6 o> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 2 K+ z! N" b" z# k
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( C+ c, A0 e; P& j2 n: I/ c) F> agreed it was.+ ^! X* j, s3 u c% {% Q
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
: M! n( I9 _% K+ T* k> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar / k- c, K v5 c1 u1 U g% W4 C" L
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 q1 i/ M1 Y3 Z+ w6 e: |! ^+ N; q
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/ G! z. [1 m( _" |> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
+ m2 v1 e; O5 ~5 ?+ P> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
' D' E6 @: b+ A" {> space between the sand. The students laughed./ y( V: J- P; q- u8 J* J
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 5 b6 F6 Q! z% n4 V6 ]; G* [
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 4 P# L- C ~( T8 V% f* z C& S
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " Y8 y0 y( z( e) d6 U p: ?
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they & e9 N% @+ h" C% j, U
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and & e' y' J! W3 T
> your car.$ _, E* Z: Z: O/ l4 B4 n/ s
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
! n$ w L5 ~* {# P* @7 y1 F! z> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - S* ?1 l- @/ t, }& _
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
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> important to you.8 K7 e3 r- X, q, ?; d5 V
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( X: r2 L* J: x4 R, ~9 C) Z$ C> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
) A `' k) O9 s> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 7 [, W) f( l0 n+ K. M
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- Y5 Z# w/ U: `. O3 ]5 c4 Z> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
$ L5 `* k- g& D3 _$ C$ k> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
3 c% `0 K' N) [> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."5 D8 X2 I# X L& [
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. k0 {, @$ u7 F. N. x1 _7 j7 p> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee , \+ g5 y* P7 N2 l! U+ ^3 D3 B
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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2 r: @" i2 H1 e3 N6 D$ M4 `> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
" K5 h; \- s+ K9 U8 K& N9 o3 x/ w> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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: V7 S# E0 Q& w4 |* L7 c> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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