The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to . g# |) d. O4 |+ X! Y- l/ zfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear & o. Q% [7 M+ O+ `* mthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what & ~9 {# J- k2 l5 q4 ayou're going to say next or worrying about what others will ! l! f, L* p: E/ ithink of you.* f- [$ N. Z8 O
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first % _, k _7 z: y/ N( G$ u j( Dnames:& @0 p) m9 n* V+ S x
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. # v; n" I( `( J6 f8 d2) The second second: Don't think about what to 0 l+ T& C. _; `) c: Asay—listen for the name. % b. d9 t& h& d2 d& m+ H/ k. c0 n3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.) d9 {% [! Q7 j8 _. V
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know B4 B8 E# ~2 C; n+ ~% R0 z" c1 O
with the same name.: x* \' C9 B4 \$ K+ K
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the! V3 I- v+ S2 r: H Y4 @
end of the conversation. 5 J! K3 h* b1 z, T& T$ G1 w2 w: f+ k8 ?) z0 W% F9 j: ]% C
---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>