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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# F0 B8 R7 P3 N
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear8 V+ F4 z. _* R3 o
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.. e2 G+ I8 k2 e, `
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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, b: o2 u% E" _2 A8 L3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.5 |( h: D1 L a$ q! _" r( W
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know# n" u, |6 Y2 z" Y
with the same name.
* |6 r$ f, @; \2 O0 J5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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, J6 u0 `" n" G8 _---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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