The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to 0 Q2 C0 S1 f' i+ y9 X0 rfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear " |% {# z# E8 \6 L D6 R4 bthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what( u4 t' g7 _. V9 p# `* H* r
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will! x* m5 M7 K) W1 r
think of you. ; ]) c: h2 A0 x8 f) {- B8 V! |( Y" ~3 v& _
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first 7 c7 X. k0 ?- l' q7 q7 n4 @names:! E& u# s. ]" Y- h. g
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. . F9 X& j- q; ~8 Q+ N' B @2) The second second: Don't think about what to " E/ ?, ^$ F+ V9 G8 nsay—listen for the name. 7 Y& Y$ j! ~2 Z- `8 n3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. 2 D0 x2 m& q7 r4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know , D/ L$ b- s W) `with the same name. 5 R% \$ x6 |; y4 }2 y5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the0 d% e+ j( j. h# ]5 ]* W
end of the conversation. U% t7 B5 i. V( j0 C4 N3 t 4 ]8 M: U# h# ~---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>