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. r3 o$ X7 F |: ?, w4 \~SOMETIMES~
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- C6 j: q% H( t1 p7 a7 D, I) RSometimes people come into your life
6 ?; [& l# P4 K# s3 _+ Q+ Hyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
1 Q2 ]) A+ Q V( V( Fto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,% t3 y6 i' ?; D- ^4 C
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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; Q k; w# E4 K$ d: @8 ?+ iYou never know who these people may be0 \4 E' F. T7 m: j
but when you lock eyes with them," E0 V! h3 S6 [1 M3 f
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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0 E7 u' J% t" I$ _5 MThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!+ y: F4 h3 k* \4 p1 ?1 {2 M6 J7 Z
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
9 F2 X+ }/ R/ F1 q4 `Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,) t3 R* T+ Q* i+ N% h
' c. }( b+ P. c$ e* @The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
/ w a2 U7 E$ c& Q) H3 M8 Q! mSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
5 F, U2 F7 F/ U! ^4 m: {/ s, ]Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,, @+ k% m" N8 g: [& r3 K% P/ l; S
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.# h/ z: a& M) j) z4 }+ d& s7 @
The prayer you sent up has been answered. n/ ^# {' E- `: Z2 J
And now it is time for you to move on.
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" `! T0 m7 u9 ?( d) M2 T0 \Then people come into your life for a REASON g2 P+ P* O" T- k3 U
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
- Z3 q: [2 v3 vThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
: R2 }* S+ t8 Q z4 FThey may teach you something you have never done.9 e( R, p0 D1 q: v
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.5 u8 k) j6 \1 E# O' s
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
/ l3 D0 [& X6 s( }% WYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,- C d7 _2 L- f Z/ u9 B1 ]+ |1 a
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life./ M9 ?' L+ X4 N. S8 f# N& [
Everything happens for a reason.
, h! ?) D# W$ [7 v6 o' j+ f3 T2 MNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
1 w- ~3 e9 U" R0 _6 w: `Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,: z3 M$ a4 c C1 ]; }- b5 T; _# k
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.- ~. P3 G* ^6 v3 x
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( H7 a- P& ~1 eIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,6 ?! e$ t* L3 t' {
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
( P7 Q0 m, }) O; y: xIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,: _. {) \# n- l M: p0 e/ \$ X! v1 K
for they have helped you learn about trust! ]; M- I" d$ r, g7 m9 M
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
$ y: N$ C+ j$ F( i; r! b" ?If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
0 D0 i; {* v+ k* q& w- F9 ?' G! GTry to love them back unconditionally,0 a5 f; W! |$ G( P
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
# v; f; ~4 M1 {# T0 H6 Hthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.! g; | L- \5 H6 C9 [4 ]
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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' y/ c3 F0 B r7 h& a0 X# _! ~and a time to every purpose under the sun.5 v5 c* g( n, ^. f- L7 k
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant," ]8 |6 p+ k4 S, X: G5 }
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
5 ]. m4 X2 f$ fGod's grace is as a healing hand.! `6 y! D" m+ c- b# {. B) z& R
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,4 _% z: f* d K" w( E# g+ r
the warm memories and love for those we have lost" |6 x# b/ f( h# v8 z
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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