I had a lover

man888

原帖由 在家闲着 于 2007-2-8 23:02 发表
Use my LG's word: you cannot keep your dick in your pants, you cannot help it. On the other hand, you very down to earth, that is why you never thought of divource. I think this girl probably in  ...

Not very clear what you want to say. But you are right, she is in China, that does not mean there is less choice there. There are much more men in China than in Canada. Not sure how you got such a conclusion. As for HER thought of coming to Canada, that is for her man, not anything else. But unfortunately this man is not worth her love.  I agree with you that she will go over it and start her new life. Thanks for your comment!

Dr.Evil

看了楼上诸位的回帖，只想说一句话，
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' T% [  l; Z  c+ e2 E“人性使然”，BUT， right or wrong, Who are we to judge?

在家闲着

I do not believe love very much. But I know she wants to come over Canada, that is why I said that not much choice over other. Because not very many people can come over, and can marry her and bring her over here. If it is not in such situation, I donot think you can take advantage of her. I think in Canada, nobody want you beside your wife. (sorry about that)

飞镝

原帖由 海上花儿 于 2007-2-8 19:09 发表
  ]) H5 @9 Y# `& p. i: h& q9 Q飞兄有所不知啊，偶所在这滩上遍地都是又单纯又精明又有风情的女人呐！而且还都是小女人呢！
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偶只是觉得，如果没有性，美的就是美的，丑的也就是丑的。但一旦沾上了性，美的就会变得丑，丑的 ...

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7 w! m4 [* j; b, s我们北方人，性格里好像更多一些忠厚、木讷、朴鲁，对没有字的良心契约更看重一些，所以有时候看起来好像更好骗一些或容易犯主观性的错误。但是.....

在家闲着

I am a woman, I donot want to marry Chinese, I want to become a real Canadian. Friends and relatives are all caucation, have a life style as Canadian. Most Chinese here, their friends probably all Chinese. (This is the explaination for nobody wants you but your wife. I donot know you, I donot know you are good or bad. Please donot take it personal.)

man888

原帖由 在家闲着 于 2007-2-8 23:36 发表
! }9 Q5 w( s# s+ |2 rI do not believe love very much. But I know she wants to come over Canada, that is why I said that not much choice over other. Because not very many people can come over, and can marry her and br ...

hehe, your reasoning is good, but not true to me. I just came here for a short time and I am not sure yet if I want to stay or not. When we met, I had no idea that some years later I would be in Canada.  Sigh...... Who knows why she fell love in me？Maybe as a friend mentioned above, sex can make a person mad. But you have to admit that I am a good man, at least to her. I do not mean sex, I mean I care for her, I do anything for her. We love each other. We live like husband and wife, unfortunately only "like". You bet that I want to marry her, but am I qualified? What I can do is to make her happy as possible as I can.  Sigh......I admit I am too small and impotent in this world.

wli004

原帖由 海上花儿 于 2007-2-8 22:23 发表
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哇，有人要断背．

海上花儿

人不像人，鬼不像鬼，看来“精彩”不是让你一般的受不了哈！
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偶有个小小建议，改明儿去买一个鸡蛋给你自己，再买一个鸭蛋给你的LOVER。

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* D6 T) r) y4 w& o+ \$ M* V, L你若要拜佛呢，除了祈祷她找到一个她爱的、爱她的好男人以外，最好也祈祷一下那个男人是没有处女情结哈！这年头，好男人不多啊，没有处女情结的好男人比例就更不高了哈！

man888

原帖由 海上花儿 于 2007-2-9 00:01 发表
人不像人，鬼不像鬼，看来“精彩”不是让你一般的受不了哈！
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6 ^* `+ h- {- M+ W8 q& l偶有个小小建议，改明儿去买一个鸡蛋给你自己，再买一个鸭蛋给你的LOVER。

0 d) S7 d# d+ n' F. O然后呢，把鸡蛋往你身上从头到脚滚一遍，鸭蛋呢从头到脚在她身上滚 ...

8 A+ L% T. R% ?5 D你好象有什么地方痒得难受哈。要不找几个黑人弟兄给你解解痒？

man888

To 海上花儿

你好像很有经验啊，讲一讲嘛。不要无病呻吟，说不到正点上。不会讲道理，讲故事也行。

Dr.Evil

好了，这样弄到人身攻击就没意思了。

在家闲着

Ok, how is your life right now? still get along with your wife and 法克ing her? very curious!

man888

原帖由 Dr.Evil 于 2007-2-9 00:11 发表
好了，这样弄到人身攻击就没意思了。

还是博士说的是。那个什么花什么人啦鬼啦得瞎说一通，让人气愤。

man888

原帖由 在家闲着 于 2007-2-9 00:13 发表
3 S4 J3 ]* n; E; o; dOk, how is your life right now? still get along with your wife and 法克ing her? very curious!

No， As I said, I am impotent. If were Ok, I would find a woman who wants to Canada to f uck.

海上花儿

！！！？？？

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在家闲着

I see, i am getting understand you. by the way, how is your marriage.

在家闲着

If i guess right, your marriage already died. The only thing left over there is a piece of paper. You are suffering more than that girl, but you feel comfortable about you find self-esteem from her.

海上花儿

！！！！！！

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man888

非也非也，小妹所言差矣。如果我爱你，就要满足你的一切要求吗？比方说你想让我死，我会去死吗？不过当然你舍不得我死了。我死了，谁和你拌嘴去？  
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花妹妹，你怎么反应那么强烈啊？义愤填膺，还是和我的那个她同病相怜？
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2 h' k# N7 w/ r; k, E! l) d* {# p想起她，我确实愧疚，我刚才说了，不是我不愿娶她，实在没有那个能力，在这方面真的很impotent. 至于好上了，确实是荷尔蒙作祟。不过我不是那种有很强目的的人：追，追上了就想法甩。
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古人讲得真对，只是没有切身体会，体验不到名言的真谛。现在翻出来与兄弟姊妹共享：
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在家闲着

原帖由 海上花儿 于 2007-2-9 00:22 发表
  _1 a6 O, V% b$ b; W7 e6 c3 d你配谈她是你的LOVER吗？爱一个女人，不是爱一个女人的身体！爱一个女人，就要给她所要的，你给她的是什么！！！？？？

6 K6 L! j/ e7 C) G, N: d. tI think everybody has the right to do whatever they want to do, that is his life. Who care, there is no right and wrong in this world.

海上花儿

原帖由 man888 于 2007-2-9 00:17 发表


No， As I said, I am impotent. If were Ok, I would find a woman who wants to Canada to f uck.

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man888

to 海上花儿
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8 K( }( U! C! l$ C1 V: OVery glad to have talked with you. But it is late, how about going to bed?

海上花儿

原帖由 man888 于 2007-2-9 00:36 发表
4 v' Z, h5 f" x  P" M# L/ g3 j& V非也非也，小妹所言差矣。如果我爱你，就要满足你的一切要求吗？比方说你想让我死，我会去死吗？不过当然你舍不得我死了。我死了，谁和你拌嘴去？  

5 u# A, L5 ~# N* {6 F1 Z% F花妹妹，你怎么反应那么强烈啊？义愤填膺，还是和 ...

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偶说过了，你和她，偶一个也不同情哈！偶的世界从来不是需要同情和被同情。偶要爱就是爱，偶不要爱就是不爱，要说游戏那就是复杂的另外一回事了。

在家闲着

原帖由 海上花儿 于 2007-2-9 00:55 发表

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偶不是哈，偶是从来不喜欢“涮”滋味的人哈，不管是涮还是被涮。

偶说过了，你和她，偶一个也不同情哈！偶的世界从来不是需要同情和被同情。偶要爱就是爱，偶不要爱就是不爱，要说游戏那就是复杂的另 ...

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I think you better busy on your life, otherwise, your life going to be too exhuasted.

海上花儿

最难消受美人恩，男人们多保重！

Sigh，Sigh，Sigh......
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海上花儿

原帖由 man888 于 2007-2-9 00:47 发表
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$ a- n. V% A5 h2 o7 j/ i/ WThanks for caring my...
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Very glad to have talked with you. But it is late, how about going to bed?

别对我那么客气哈，搞得偶七荤八素的！
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peterpan

原帖由 Dr.Evil 于 2007-2-8 23:33 发表
* X8 ~6 C9 d% }6 L看了楼上诸位的回帖，只想说一句话，
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通篇看下来,对于人性有话要说,LZ在承认自己"imperfect""impotent"的同时,依然可以拿人性作为自己的挡箭牌,你喜欢她,你让她高兴,但别的你就无能为力了,这与其说是人性,不如说是动物本能,雄性动物在繁殖期也能做的同样好.人性中还有叫责任感,忠诚,执子之手与子谐老的闪光的一面,廊桥遗梦里体现的才是真实完整的人性
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"校园民谣I"的插图中有一句刻在课桌上的话,"唱一首歌,爱一个人,过一生",不知道LZ是否曾经有过这种誓言的时候,这样的生活虽然没有那么"精彩",可是很踏实

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海上花儿

飞兄的话偶觉得是有深的道理的！

海上花儿

皮哥哥那么晚还不休息啊？

海上花儿

偶对楼主这帖非常感兴趣，所以就回帖了。偶对您不感兴趣，所以您也不用对偶感兴趣。
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