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Sorry, I don’t see a correlation between my statement and yours, so to make myself clear: ' N" |( R& R/ R. f0 g0 U0 O# y 2 B3 C4 ^. }8 MIf you’re spared from tedious household chores merely because you are the main income earner, it’s only a privilege.0 l- V: ~8 o: I7 `7 V
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However it becomes a right (more or less) if you can earn enough to spare BOTH from those. 5 m; h# F$ \* g) ~% A$ n% \: p
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You can’t value homemaker production by her implied opportunity cost alone. Not from the perspective of society as a whole, anyway. 3 B) ?2 C+ g0 H- Z4 T6 E7 T+ O, I9 @3 g" C m0 @( c- Z1 I
P.S. when did you piss off Sumash? lol.
我也带了三个娃,一开始也申请了老人过来帮忙,时间久了,感觉婆婆觉得我不工作,好像她儿子养着我一样,其实我自己还累的要命,还不如出去工作那。在家不光照顾孩子,还得照顾两个老人情绪。后来一咬牙,自己带孩子,不依靠任何人。半年后送老人回去了。我几年下来,孩子长大了,感觉生活轻松很多。我和你不同的是,老公下班就看孩子,从不叫苦叫累,倒是经常安慰鼓励我,要坚强。. a, L5 i4 _( G
如果选择做三个孩子的妈妈,你一定要坚强,依靠别人暂时解脱体力上的劳累,但是每天的精神压力也很难受。自己带吧,有苦有乐,看着孩子长大,累点怕什么。关键要让你老公知道你的付出,辛苦,要让他理解你,只有你两个同心了,在大的困难也会抵挡过去。