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本帖最后由 SheJing 于 2013-2-6 13:24 编辑 ( y( K% X7 t) V7 ^
三思 发表于 2013-2-6 12:26 ) U6 l1 b5 r( P, x
答案不是更显然了吗? 成功的成因很多,你不需要名牌大学成功,但是名牌大学的成功率会更高些,我们做家长 ...
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名牌大学的成功率会更高些. I agree. A university degree is often touted as being a prerequisite to a good life and a high income. Thanks again for stating the obvious. 2 E# _: z- o4 [5 S& R. S$ v
) C5 J9 ~- [+ d. Z! W# V6 b% O我们做家长的,当然希望孩子冲着高概率去了。Damn right you can only HOPE. At late teens they'll make their own decisions. Your time of running their lives is over.
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My points are:: F' ~& R: q( Y- C# W
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- Academic performance is merely an indicator of potential for success.( g9 f8 w7 m' G8 \4 v$ q
- Academic performance does not indicate insured success.
4 M+ Y: d: d) N9 s3 X- Academic performance is not the only indicator for success.; y6 z& V: V& b0 }
- 名牌大学 is only helpful if they've got what it takes to survive - talent and dedication wise. Otherwise they will just crash and burn and leave with a lowered self-esteem.6 y6 m, C+ o5 y$ A* m* `5 g3 U
- Parents don't have the right to decide or to mislead their children on whether they want a high profile/stressful life, or a mediocre/peaceful life. If the parents want to show off or to compare, use house, cars, jobs, penis size, anything. Just not your children.
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