Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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" L4 F" l! P: l* a3 N( M- Z5 @While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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. U6 H" J8 F2 m1 h  Q$ A  X1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
8 T5 M# o# Y) [9 [Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

8 S4 `& N3 ]. P: U* S. w2.        Speak up when she’s good
# @" ]: @# ^1 r. QIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
- N' _! G: e- l2 O% hLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

4 }4 g8 f* q7 P) iWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
2 a$ O2 Q. v; J( i1 _" f* |5 }
# q9 N9 k* z$ N4 q! {( l# o  b1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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