Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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# n6 t: m6 x3 s3 V" t, g7 h  l7 _5 s$ WWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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9 A$ Y0 M# s4 [' i# B1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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2 y9 E" o/ g% g1 l3 }, H2.        Speak up when she’s good
2 X- k& \, T  @% ?1 ?+ S/ z( e. tIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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9 y7 w; g3 v8 ?- ?; [3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

9 u2 `$ o" ?" s3 Q$ @* j4 \While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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/ `3 H0 t# s1 |5 x7 i& D! z1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
2 i# i2 i" ?% ?' pTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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