Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

" Q# N* Y' V7 i# UWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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3 w$ u' T: v$ q# ~* M1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
0 y. H. ?' H& P2 A- Q! Q8 ATry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3 _8 w% y- f2 Z% \) j+ [, J3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
. ~% h0 l& C' j" _2 i6 LFrom no to yes
+ U8 e+ [5 F( U- r$ W: e3 _4 H$ c
4 L; g2 f( ^" B0 d, R4 AWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

! z; V& t" B5 v- W1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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