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Stop saying no to your toddlers

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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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! l) O! K% F* `/ }% TWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:9 B- E; Z- C0 q1 k1 y: ]. }
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
* D# O6 q, o# k+ J1 |Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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2.        Speak up when she’s good
$ X. y( w: ]( X7 W  m- mIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
+ L- b) I: U: V& d6 k. GLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
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发表于 2007-4-12 16:15 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2007-4-12 17:52 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表 ' n7 H4 P' c9 W! x! ^
From no to yes
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. D6 u+ g! s8 L( p& O& C3 M0 HWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:/ A8 [; M0 g# I. n9 _, _/ e& a
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”2 q! O4 P1 P+ W9 A5 i2 v
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...
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 楼主| 发表于 2007-4-13 07:30 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”,怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案,希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。
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发表于 2007-4-15 10:44 | 显示全部楼层
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