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$ b( }# [6 Q- J7 A9 y! PI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
7 `6 O1 R8 u+ b7 g/ H3 RHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ! a- F- c+ b; t. G% L5 w! M1 x* [
for youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
# r3 K7 o+ S4 v" Gwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young 9 q; t4 c$ l5 Z, s* N
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
, ?7 E9 J; ~; @& ~$ Lto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training + u3 x5 V" ~9 N1 \) ?" d/ k
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
- w! s# h$ h( E5 O; ?9 E. LWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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7 L g0 d4 l/ C& s0 w) A'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
! q% l! a6 n/ `9 r' x: Lowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 3 ?5 V9 d0 `' G. Z& U) T1 d
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 8 C, w% P* X* v8 X7 [
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
A7 z4 v3 A \: U9 mhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. : B* d1 x+ C8 q/ z% w6 Q
4 q" r: b$ Q5 h4 h! i'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 3 n- [& }! T/ w" S4 [3 x
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. ' e( O6 E3 m' S& f' Q. o
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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3 V+ A2 v& j8 h6 A" T( B8 M'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, . L7 k1 c4 @7 C# {' M; b+ ~* C
`Why did I receive an F?' 6 `, \' x. X5 H. g) \8 |/ S
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
% W2 [4 x) p; F0 I; ~You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. ! T/ L# e0 E6 t- B' b0 Z" k
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 8 w( f5 k9 o2 Z! Q5 O: K" o
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to ! C+ `" V* a% C5 q* `9 H' [/ ?" e
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 2 \) X- ~2 n- }* k9 b* T
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
# r) E( L s0 M6 C1 r# q/ y; X) Preconsider your grade.’
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/ J( V: |- a% J0 D p'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father / k1 ?5 Y& k& G$ \, y4 N/ h5 f: M1 @
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your , Y7 P" y! r1 d4 y% K# K1 Y0 E
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same ) p8 D8 N9 l" S
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll ! K; ^% Y3 l' i
keep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story , r/ d+ o& Q- G4 L
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
. c. l" C, S" D. kmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
$ V( s; k) v) q- A5 xfireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 7 y& Z# f# F* ?7 h
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
6 e' c5 {+ X5 s- Q. dWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this % f q' |% Y* r
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ) y/ x2 l' o$ n$ K
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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