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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
" Q9 D9 @, B- h$ W6 OAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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4 V5 @5 ?& y8 l+ cAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual " v& f/ q7 g' N; o# ^- F
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 5 ^! ~* z- N2 Y% r4 g, R% }3 q
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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; H- i! Z8 U: Q; ~. G5 N"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. ; M6 h" Z$ m% N- ~( y
/ N" S7 D1 D% j"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
& I( E6 u; V" Qroom or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
& u' {4 J# ]- L' nI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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6 A6 i7 [: f$ N4 E3 M' GIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new " |# b( E6 y% r) G8 z
day and all the happy memories I've stored away.
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Just for this time in my life. & s+ ~$ `/ k( l1 Q6 b1 S; ^
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. : \# w& L E' d% n t) g
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
3 ^8 b L K+ o2 A3 vaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
2 R& r% x. R; f/ ?0 DI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1 k$ l: W' y, w. O* r7 n 1. Free your heart from hatred. 2 L7 Z" r# Z- u2 F. N9 `. O5 C4 |
2. Free your mind from worries. " g% v% J2 q) g, _
3. Live simply.
2 q) n3 @7 M! y! M/ Z9 G 4. Give more.
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