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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.) b4 |+ r+ L: b4 E+ o$ p
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Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. 5 W, Y; d4 r* }7 O" @
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
' p; b# R2 v, c' l. G/ h& Y9 x7 Z: c" @As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.
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