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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 $ ]9 u+ i+ I. M9 I  @; w: k

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# i. s: z" ^- W8 i4 q; w今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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On Children
2 x6 L, y* M9 `8 a Kahlil Gibran
1 H2 l" y8 L* Z, c# g+ _( e( C0 CYour children are not your children.
( B8 D; k7 M  i5 O# o9 IThey are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
& V* E* {3 ?" m% a' e: Y) ?They come through you but not from you," A- z, a% D& R9 m7 Z6 c1 ^" p) W
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
8 B' w% P3 X2 I8 RYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,( h8 E$ y3 o' o3 V) z" H
For they have their own thoughts." l: ^" }, @& c9 `
You may house their bodies but not their souls,; V* V% K/ B8 R& ]
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
7 s0 B7 X& d  v2 U, V( Q0 ~- Twhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.( h! n9 N- o; _
You may strive to be like them,
* P& w7 R2 ?* F% h. Z' q$ P; Qbut seek not to make them like you.
, G5 Y! p) i& ^/ O; aFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
+ G3 F5 Y% B/ R( m. M" v% RYou are the bows from which your children- y3 r' y2 \' }# l2 C: s" |, r
as living arrows are sent forth.$ Y/ j& q) t" e  C0 n7 D
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,% D, v" U; `& z3 M; P! C$ m
and He bends you with His might
9 C- L7 b9 M) v- u( a3 h2 H4 Pthat His arrows may go swift and far.
3 @5 M$ q( V/ x& N% ~6 S9 m, hLet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;- h% d' h4 w4 ]- b7 o3 J# ]7 ~6 [
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
% g8 b& S' E) ~/ i6 f6 o; H. iso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。
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0 I# ?0 r! w& x: H5 b你的子女,其实不是你的子女。2 Y, r/ s- \/ \9 R0 o) ~) s
他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
9 r* q: f/ q- R; w. f他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。! {: c' L% K+ [7 q1 R
他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
. W% |0 P3 _0 F4 ?$ r9 G' P你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
$ X; u" _$ w) d因为他们有自己的思想。: `! k% z2 B% W# T/ O/ ^
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,
" O% t: @9 J: l因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,4 j! J  |; K+ |# L4 [" U
你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,# s( {6 ]: t/ S3 O. \- ?
却不要让他们变得和你一样,0 T9 ?3 y8 C3 i. f. b3 y/ r% D
因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。% t5 c! ?. D8 V% {7 F
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。8 j) d2 x( A- w
弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,+ m2 |/ h6 y* G, z8 C
它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。  H/ B4 y1 K, y( B
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
( D  G6 D' c* s因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
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鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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