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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
7 G& Y0 d! }* n- \( e+ R) z兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 9 X( r' v' d0 H0 o' _, x. R
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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$ W2 L4 }3 _6 e; C! ?* ^: AThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. 5 `/ M; G, C7 Q& o! E9 o
+ ]: w: A1 {) p i3 X" FIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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! r; n( U6 X6 B J! q0 [: V) N5 l: RA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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