7岁的小男孩站在屋子中间边扭边唱:“你快乐吗?――我很快乐!”表情做痛不欲生状,还伸出一根手指头愤怒地指向天花板。看看,连小孩子都知道:快乐和痛苦、愤怒往往是联系在一起的――这世界上已经很难找到最纯粹的快乐了。 a m& m G- s" H8 H( i $ f% d9 Z3 U# N U1984年的盛夏,童年的我在天坛门口吃塑料盒装的冰淇淋,大概是3毛钱一盒,上面还有2-3个葡萄干,那叫一个好吃啊!20年后的我,对人家很认真地说:“我不觉得哈根达斯好吃。”时事的变迁、年龄的增长,我在生活中已失去了享受美味冰淇淋的可能。不知道是该怪冰淇淋厂家的偷工减料,还是该怪自己的味蕾失常,那凉爽、细腻、香甜的精神的愉悦再也不会来。现在不会,恐怕以后也不会。 4 @. D+ Y0 G% v0 G1 Z$ L7 @ y; y, m# R9 k
“你快乐吗?”恐怕很少有谁能够毫不犹豫地回答这个问题吧?如果把问题换成“你那些股票都抛了吗?你到底想不想结婚?”,恐怕就要容易回答得多了。8 r( F* ^- m1 i. ~+ j d
Originally posted by 悟空 at 2005-6-23 08:19 PM:7 T' M* h$ h, H7 n% T( p
我毫不犹豫地回答我快乐因为我不买股票还因为我终于结婚了:lol::lol:
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I am not happy because I have to work; well I was unhappy when I stayed home full time either.$ W/ t+ f; P C' p' O# C
Originally posted by OliveOil at 2005-6-24 11:24 AM: 2 |6 k- u/ g+ Q3 W* z8 tI am happy because of my family. - R/ Z* Q9 a% {6 i- N* S* Z 8 A) |+ u5 C+ [* X9 X( y2 X; MI am not happy because I have to work; well I was unhappy when I stayed home full time either. $ ?' w' k; w9 V$ J6 w D4 p' W% Z" }% g: J" j7 x3 z% f
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我和劳工约定,前半辈子他养家,后半辈子我养家。他最大理想就是当家庭妇男。
my hubby thinks so too! One day i said to him-how about i going to work while u stay home as fulltime house-husband? He answered without hesitation-why not, i love to stay home, remember to make as much money as possilble; you are my bread earner!!.... Faint! :mad: 4 n `4 D: p5 J/ q3 |+ U5 } F$ [! a6 ], N
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Originally posted by 三思 at 2005-6-24 11:40 AM: . z* c) A: o8 S$ r我和劳工约定,前半辈子他养家,后半辈子我养家。他最大理想就是当家庭妇男。
Originally posted by 子菲鱼 at 2005-6-24 02:18 PM: 9 J" Z& r9 V- c0 @my hubby thinks so too! One day i said to him-how about i going to work while u stay home as fulltime house-husband? He answered without hesitation-why not, i love to stay home, remember to make ...
Originally posted by 子菲鱼 at 2005-6-24 01:13 PM: " f' D" l2 q2 F5 `' \6 |Money may not buy happiness. But without money u can't be happy, that's for sure!
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