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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。3 Y4 K, d' V3 J6 R7 g
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee: o y- V7 m2 T( C3 e! m
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
8 Z) ]. I; M7 F+ y- v* ]> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of D& F6 W; k8 X! T1 D
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
9 W5 E. d# G+ j$ s8 y+ I. O, P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
7 h, H# |9 z( F! Y; f> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
: E4 z: V7 ?+ w5 i' `7 m) _> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.+ |0 u, L" X1 Q6 M1 T
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( }7 T) z1 K% e1 V/ }: a$ Y3 k> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar % V. U# Q* D! a+ s
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 7 p- R5 m- L' Y% I3 U
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 ~& J) i4 D5 l4 E! P4 a$ f0 i: G
> agreed it was.: A; h& [0 ]# W# [
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, T F2 i" \; A* Z$ j4 d( U> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
, C) ~ {; U8 k9 Y, G> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 {7 C+ ^% Z0 K f/ m O7 [, }> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 1 d3 }& c# j: @4 u2 F! I
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
9 g6 V7 k" _. F. \8 o. ^> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) }' J' J( j0 g+ z: K2 }
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
6 _# i6 O+ }4 b, F& _> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
" } `% |: G4 o' \$ ]> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ( {1 B; K6 N# m; |4 G. g$ \" `
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
" ?/ x5 K' ^* q& R0 \. ]- e: {6 K> your car.
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O: K: T8 V( Q' g% h9 x$ o> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into $ {' L- _9 Q% G& R( o& J
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
2 F0 n0 {' w) a7 d2 G9 F- `* v> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 _: G& f% ]& g8 {" q> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
& b! L8 a: J9 P/ g> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with - W6 Z' P) |# x+ T- `
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to % Y; X( }7 p4 {, h% i
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
& O c. ]9 [2 \" {4 j> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
* _0 a0 Z- U. |> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."; v. c# ~) B: }( G
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee . ?/ `& u* l& u
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.", D1 @, q) n! M/ q( C
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 7 S f2 @1 u* t3 G2 K
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."1 u* l; T1 B6 M, j% S6 U3 A) M' o
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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