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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
! M! C- w5 ~1 c> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
8 j" n. T8 v% X' n7 c' b> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + l3 [+ K: M% `6 p! M
> coffee.
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) f' F& k4 O1 d1 u> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ( t1 \1 f y1 L* c
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and % I5 m- c; |" f) {( ~+ K! M! ~
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 1 I; m$ S* ? l3 F/ L; T. R6 Y, k( \! \
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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2 U2 l$ N K7 ^8 z3 Y$ P) ]' B> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 4 ]4 g- d" x/ T3 g3 L4 r" W8 B" f! z
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
, W3 Z& p5 }: w4 ~5 v8 o" y4 F: T> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ! J: \! Q9 [% t3 y
> agreed it was.6 z( e6 |: X& K( L+ Z9 G; E
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
; Z2 ~0 J d9 J6 F; w> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 9 [3 I9 o4 X( J2 X
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."& [; p# T; i( F* I. g! q
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& d7 r {' H- Z! z) Y+ w' n# b> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
; L: I0 C* O- C, ~% a" B8 l> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty # w5 W$ P" m, n
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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. f! \7 K) |% r3 ^6 S7 q" Z# @/ {> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
- V# s6 [% d( E1 N2 e( x5 I% n1 w> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
: w4 g z: Z) u- [# ~> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ( L* h" r: C/ H" G; |2 Y
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they , ^% Q+ P6 _6 i) D7 z" A" a( r
> remained, your life would still be full.5 y e; y: V/ H% w
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
( O0 S6 O6 X1 b4 ]> your car.) Q6 j3 L- l2 a3 [2 E' S
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1 B. i. c3 Q% H& N' \4 S> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
$ }' m! G1 R- x! Y8 _- v" t" q> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the + j2 N; j9 L; l) Q
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ; n+ w( y( d4 f1 X/ e' }0 P! v
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
9 }8 \- O4 q5 w> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 7 l1 R3 c& B- _- ?/ [5 B, D* Z: d- ~
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
7 u1 U" @. u @4 t7 g9 l( M> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
7 @3 l: w8 G7 S4 N> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that . ^; R/ [* L. D6 P7 E3 |" U- w
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."' H, ?: E- i5 B# W! L
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. G$ p. L! l/ ?. U7 O$ `> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
, V. A% M+ A! u; B, B7 b> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.". B: ~ r% q& L& b! n
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3 z7 [+ c( X( {$ \> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, " M4 I. B( [, Y
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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; S& z: L' T2 t' R" a> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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