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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.6 f+ j# R# \. d) Q* P1 O9 m, D7 d
; v5 Y% j6 s4 j5 b6 lUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first! D7 F8 b9 H9 b; Q/ H6 \. p
names:2 j, g2 M" O* \
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction./ e3 s% j& e! j) d
2) The second second: Don't think about what to' H: i* s# A9 ~0 v# ^4 A
say—listen for the name.$ k4 {# X q: w
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.( U/ r- S) N+ j) j9 b J9 d
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know8 F. P M6 S& W$ j
with the same name.0 z1 D3 ^5 m- `1 q' Q2 A" Q
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
5 M, f" g6 M1 D2 i' Pend of the conversation.
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& K/ l8 t- k0 M# z3 f---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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