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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to8 D% V$ W1 d+ S: `6 K& N! [
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear& A) K" V- |7 ~+ F: p/ ` Q
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what3 R" D* w0 c/ s' j. F) b h3 ^/ k
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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; G S( h& Q2 w9 {5 b% k- vUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first- R, B$ G8 ^, _( s0 d
names:5 m7 K) T5 ~( ^0 n! K9 X
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
- ?6 } p( i$ G# K- ~2 a1 \4 S2) The second second: Don't think about what to
% P" k3 v3 V0 Esay—listen for the name.
B) N. l: T3 P6 |. z% @1 K7 z3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
9 A8 L6 F) m, q, h6 k+ m4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know( k5 F; u' M7 E3 l
with the same name. T7 F7 S& G" S8 Q5 }
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the' M& B: _9 p- k- [4 o, V% H) V
end of the conversation.3 y, Y7 {+ u( ~& k4 K- j
* R3 G+ k# _2 v6 J& \---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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