Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
9 v! A, h: z1 ?them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
think of you.
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names:
" D. B6 ]; ]: h1 ?  R: h5 V1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
say—listen for the name.
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
with the same name.
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>