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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to" l& V$ ?0 c" G+ v
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will& q" S3 q6 c; V- z
think of you.1 n+ D# [) t4 w
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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& k6 s9 [0 l, u* |, _) R1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.5 q: C( l3 X U+ @, t
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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+ i" Q' r4 s, U% o# d3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
8 }2 {: M# W. X( A" \' q4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know! V5 j/ v6 F0 G% U! |% m( A
with the same name.5 A- R- a- \- c' s- c
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the K- O s( d' s1 v' A
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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