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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to1 ?% s' n, j+ l0 v, X' ~ v
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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2 K* k; f7 J* V1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.2 ]3 y* b! S" d
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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# L" e' p5 R0 t3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.2 k r+ r3 s2 N, V9 V1 Q7 i
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know( u* u# l- N( |. S1 |3 S& E
with the same name.
1 _4 w. A# H; B4 V( y) h5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
8 O% x( R8 L1 |0 E0 i% c$ ?; S$ nend of the conversation.( f5 v" q' c# B. [" R. r0 \
, X, G' B+ T. c6 `2 e/ g. r, m---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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