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; ]1 Q3 G8 u" ]/ Y0 X2 o! gSometimes people come into your life
( |& n2 h/ G E+ \% |8 f2 |8 B2 Myou know right away that they were meant to be there,; G3 o3 f( j; Y0 ]! k/ u8 N
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
1 T6 o- I+ Q1 g, q5 Y2 g5 For to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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3 r# l+ f$ _3 {You never know who these people may be: a$ k7 V# `2 S: D& Z# z$ Y
but when you lock eyes with them,
: \& @8 n" v! C' h& F/ T$ f Fyou know at that very moment,
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, X- K8 k* @7 m; nThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!9 ^; M) W- Q1 H9 x
They are there for the reason you need them to be.1 I) S+ {+ A% y9 s3 p+ u
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,. s* [" y, H( v1 P- W- a' i2 G q
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end., W C* O" T7 |) O% l) G" {
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
2 C; k: u$ i/ Y1 OSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.* x/ h5 Q* N% }
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,. x/ T3 \# H6 a: h: R' s X
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.+ J) l6 x* g3 i
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
/ }; F" |3 I4 q! K5 FAnd now it is time for you to move on.+ ~& z' v/ ]7 P" }% j) d
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
/ A$ N$ a8 E- |9 x+ O& N5 KBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
0 N2 k1 n5 y" M! N( L: |They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.5 N$ l& `0 o6 d8 ]2 M/ S
They may teach you something you have never done.
. W: Z8 l: S" ?" D1 _They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.7 E, W1 J9 q5 {" w; _. O, M
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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$ C* t4 B& }$ C, cLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:3 a5 ]2 O N6 ]1 G% F
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
" ^! Z& K5 H: Q) y' QPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
1 F! S- J# x7 j5 ?) G% T9 f8 ]+ t' ?; uEverything happens for a reason.
' J/ z) _# A, G# J% q% ~1 eNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
7 O, m8 x, T5 {Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,6 s# u$ {! b1 O$ q5 l( i
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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6 }3 w- D; f8 B aIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! E1 X5 B& O0 T( h) c; }$ F1 [You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
4 h9 w1 z& ^3 l6 I" PIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% r6 p( }6 Q. P, V, G% w
for they have helped you learn about trust
. i$ [/ W) h5 ?% {and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
) S" y9 ]: e/ l) K. l/ w8 i7 kIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 M# L" g6 o) z, v2 Z: U
Try to love them back unconditionally,
) i# \" m( z$ I6 P& b6 C7 enot only because they love you, but because in a way,
" w( E5 c- x F* @& Rthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.7 \! ^ l( [8 r* q; d
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.6 k2 F" }# v3 u0 l. ~
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
/ K/ T; t9 T: t6 a( Y- rand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: ^: \3 [1 E) pGod's grace is as a healing hand.& H, J7 W) X: V& ~& a
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,2 j3 W R8 l9 @/ K
the warm memories and love for those we have lost% s2 g! t( t* s y
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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