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Sometimes people come into your life- v# l9 L. t5 q7 s0 x; x4 Q+ S
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
5 |$ M$ U) S p/ W% c4 ^' Dto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
0 O: e7 H+ c$ e0 sor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.9 _) H2 a$ G! p7 i4 L8 D
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( O, E6 ^- w& Y" |0 s# b/ h8 `, DYou never know who these people may be- I( h: |. N) L- _1 A Z& K; j
but when you lock eyes with them,
+ t! p5 V: a! G! W. [( e% [you know at that very moment,
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8 \, b& u. B. X* D6 A+ k: L$ h" FThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!! Q; |; n$ K* q( I" i- Q5 A6 l
They are there for the reason you need them to be.. ~# z2 n! p% I+ D" w
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, v& G3 e ^) S; o
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. d. j! m$ ?/ f, @: k- s" @
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.( Z/ F' k" V0 `& _& A
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,7 T! W" @4 g( P; d) E
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.1 i4 ?9 H" i) C$ {. W) p3 {' u
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& o/ J, k: b) {1 G7 ]3 ?And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON4 N7 A; P% t. }1 P- m) y( @# x6 s
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
; {, p* d! b: u' l$ E" }* {They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 v" R; ~" ^6 [5 L! Y- |8 ^9 SThey may teach you something you have never done.* N- P1 t" n2 C. d! M( Q8 i
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.7 o6 W0 y [4 i; t: h
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦% T9 y7 l) b8 _( X7 W6 g
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
4 q9 H M9 B, K; B& ?Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,! g" N' Z! i3 Y* L9 D, V6 ~
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
9 M; Z4 _9 N1 |5 P( R# `6 pEverything happens for a reason.- N; w6 g' p" x
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ t: y# O. f* `) vIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
- J4 a5 v; @# J% N* }6 V9 V6 wand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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+ {7 z6 Z/ U& B" h# RIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
0 S Q" @$ Z$ Q& t/ QYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
8 S+ Q8 Q; X" H7 @5 c$ p) \If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
0 A! T. ?1 d- M( c& Ffor they have helped you learn about trust
. t- s1 i' W: u& v& I8 N O/ `# r: ~; C* zand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
; B; B' [) r- x) j3 bIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,6 ^6 j4 s' y7 X: |/ u6 B m
Try to love them back unconditionally,% h. f. l n: q: s* {
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ J( p9 G) J& ]1 o) @4 i0 A4 B
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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8 b+ Z# h, n |% w; YThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 q' d6 X( K" d) o
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
' a( ~ u8 X# r# U& OA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
" S$ ]2 Z/ y; e1 e- z, M; S8 Rand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
$ W r1 k+ K% c# w. bGod's grace is as a healing hand.
: b' p& U3 J( `# Z" @/ k) RAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,& g/ T9 g. S4 S% ~4 G7 z, P
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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