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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life; A1 ^9 |) Z5 K/ u2 V- i5 C
you know right away that they were meant to be there,# _* C& V) X0 d/ C4 ~+ m
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 }' x6 q; a H7 A# o
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.: r4 U, I; N- R
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You never know who these people may be0 A. @ X" h1 p' t8 H
but when you lock eyes with them,; O( N& A7 Y! l7 H8 D- r- O* C6 q
you know at that very moment,8 g; }) S' E. D
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
3 F( b! S. K/ s5 ?They are there for the reason you need them to be.. M+ o* F% h6 e: n ^4 M
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.4 d7 a! z8 [. K! {% }% X
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.5 ?5 x. U# C! S9 X
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.2 p- z+ _: o5 _
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% X; B% ]* J9 _1 P& BWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,0 G# Z2 g# u, Y2 M5 j
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
5 k' T7 J8 w1 p5 _$ h. M" IThe prayer you sent up has been answered. Z% t5 |) A2 b+ ?% b6 ~( ^( R2 o
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON/ P7 p+ `% c1 v; j0 N2 y3 T: c4 X, F" y
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.8 d* o! R4 u+ `1 `: Z! Z- Z4 L4 W
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.3 u* i/ D) M7 ~5 W
They may teach you something you have never done.
. v! U0 Z2 t% b1 u9 L8 ?They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.2 \6 i. K# z/ T2 I5 O# o4 H/ Z3 D
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦" N) Q) H3 o/ ~
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4 W% x1 e8 F% h1 d5 q2 Z: zLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
3 } V: E- R' m% R6 ]2 ZYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
6 N1 g L; }9 s& K# |, kPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
' T0 [8 {/ g' E5 P# b' ^0 T4 _Everything happens for a reason.6 m. g# w. N3 g
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., o! o( ~2 T1 g) C R5 M
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
$ O8 Y& m, S' Q* P3 Qand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.+ W q4 D! y5 s- s: ?3 w) `5 W8 P v$ z
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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0 x1 P" S5 [* W3 T8 e8 q3 u, r& @If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
2 I9 K0 Q$ h! E( n+ H* N7 Qfor they have helped you learn about trust, z7 u+ A- C7 S' |2 b9 K' M
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart./ {* E# e- s& q
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
& H/ l6 q1 i6 a9 A, o8 kTry to love them back unconditionally,
- q* i! f. a# W" m Z" |% e r/ `not only because they love you, but because in a way,
4 j8 F5 G& g7 _. B2 E& L7 lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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3 O( l1 @ O! v T0 V8 i: fThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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7 Y- E! u% b3 M4 ]' X W7 h1 l" zand a time to every purpose under the sun.
5 t% U) B7 u( N9 H5 bA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,7 ]# Y9 @' ~" ^4 |7 W ^ S/ G2 S
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
; Q- ^" Q2 R) r( Y" ?4 `, JGod's grace is as a healing hand.: @$ {3 Y" z) ]- v! D8 Q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,/ z9 D d4 N# S
the warm memories and love for those we have lost, v- [) K% ~3 j F9 P1 z4 Z
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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