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~SOMETIMES~$ w Z* q/ C6 }2 ?8 ]: H( n: w- ]
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Sometimes people come into your life" ~ X7 u; [& n4 ]
you know right away that they were meant to be there,/ o: C5 k+ v' J- V" r
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 r) E' |9 e+ f
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.4 q+ S% s( L3 H1 b
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You never know who these people may be+ N: @7 O0 }" z: o% }
but when you lock eyes with them,
* C+ h! C9 e3 {, N9 n5 Z! nyou know at that very moment,
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4 S0 ^4 P; s# d: f9 aThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!. q$ N5 R: X! i+ A: `% X# h
They are there for the reason you need them to be.4 ^! p: J9 ` d/ T5 B- X4 M
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,9 y9 o) Z: o, \3 C7 b; T) H1 A
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
9 Y: E, q6 }: |Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
3 x8 d% I1 |: v# p: D' v+ }( VSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- Q6 f& ^4 U) _7 B: p# _
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,# l1 z% P8 ~7 y5 I/ u4 Q! {8 m. |
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, g9 \7 b/ X+ h) n4 z' kThe prayer you sent up has been answered.; v, n# I+ q. g) }% n a8 D5 N7 }4 D
And now it is time for you to move on.1 V/ Z' V+ s/ I& S
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
) n% I- z9 ^! D6 F2 G; EBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
* m$ ]: }- e- g3 O& c7 r' yThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
. T0 }1 l& B7 w% q1 aThey may teach you something you have never done.' P+ c. a& f) ?7 e* F# ^
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.* h+ K* |& C9 f3 t% Y9 g& }& W
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
& c5 I# j5 \- s+ C; _) O' fYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
0 G* \* r" N0 d4 g/ w$ }3 uPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 V z. N9 }( L/ n9 r. y
Everything happens for a reason.
4 |+ @9 o" `# o6 t1 D6 wNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.; @+ W0 i$ J" O! V( _' E; J# x9 y
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 T! l: P3 `# |and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.; F1 e! a1 ~$ i' X" u* O8 {
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L8 V- ~6 \. y' T6 pIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
* f _) b2 A+ a) M3 |3 {% y% U4 MYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure," r6 c2 A' o$ F+ S1 d& m& D8 y: n
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,- T6 P+ w0 _7 H& V5 C
for they have helped you learn about trust
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# B& Y3 s9 \( n- k* n# `If someone loves you, express your appreciation,/ O( B# Q6 S4 p% z- X
Try to love them back unconditionally,
+ }0 C$ C" v2 J" qnot only because they love you, but because in a way,) r! R! ]/ M) U, l
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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# j- F* N( A7 vThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,6 W& g. u$ H; s0 ^3 E( h! x
8 v4 b; \$ p/ u% u( z. y* ^and a time to every purpose under the sun.
: t* i" V C, L6 U% i/ ?5 d' ]A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
. O2 |: K5 k/ aand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
4 X; h2 S: Q( l+ `' C5 ~God's grace is as a healing hand.
# j6 i" Q' B% y! O+ g5 k1 t$ u ~As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
# ^& h$ z8 M9 S Pthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
7 l" f& k; Q/ K+ j/ `8 G0 M3 Wwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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