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From no to yes* A- \; b' T5 k2 }# `
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you. To cut down:
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1. Replace “no” with “yes”) Y5 C _9 X! s3 v& k
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!” Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.” This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.8 L [0 Q' e. W7 [1 Q, B0 [
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2. Speak up when she’s good
5 N& P) u3 [% y o* C6 o4 G% u6 |( \5 {If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.: {* u9 j$ y2 _% u/ t' `
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3. Stay one step ahead
+ |/ t8 F- d- r$ sLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling. |
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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41
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