Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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2 o, e6 P6 C6 H& {( u! G+ xWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
1 X1 i' B) Z1 ^Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

/ d2 }. g$ p% v5 W2.        Speak up when she’s good
! R: d8 N! U8 a( H. H8 S1 `& s6 vIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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4 J& G/ Q- d( l# L4 Y" [3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
! e; ~0 a8 ?& mFrom no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

- ]' j# J9 O) b  S$ i2 _9 W1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
/ @2 c8 j; W% Y: c% k$ O% R* ?Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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