Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

  G9 Z7 D$ H$ h; u  zWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
/ ?1 E- \% ~: n6 E) ZTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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+ o1 a  x1 g6 H7 {* U! Q' M! f8 f3 _& a2.        Speak up when she’s good
/ E8 R- T2 A5 H2 ], GIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

3.        Stay one step ahead
% y; c9 \% `/ g0 v& E. iLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
4 y. g' v  E# a) m& M7 h+ X
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
0 H# E7 b8 l! gTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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