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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED 7 p) s0 I% x9 L# A* i+ e0 L* X% |3 J

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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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- x- }; b9 C# {' t( Xof people he/she hates. , r. x4 D, I( O  t7 b. |
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 1 ^" ^8 L1 W9 E( ~5 ^2 X

2 b2 K4 W$ N: `' @the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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6 Z! ]0 N) |7 w) @1 l0 G, rThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes - z6 p* t4 z% d& x

5 x) d& C# e1 b0 {) g+ qin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. 3 g- g; Z9 i* J7 @

/ S2 a& w) ]7 H5 U* X- H% h- fDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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  g2 u4 K: u! ~7 J8 c& }/ mdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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9 Y/ r' F9 \$ U' @2 x' Wthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 3 S% u5 i$ M' w& W. _& l
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. $ u2 f% j3 m" b. c
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes + i* h8 f7 p6 x2 l1 S
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. 2 x  [7 ^: V* q9 |1 O5 |. j( N* e
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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, Y3 ?+ w4 x9 QThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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# R4 [. C# v6 [/ n' x0 eyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred , m& x: B* W1 w! S

. @) B  J) m& p4 t2 }will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever : `3 m( c  Y  `% i$ v

3 H# o  g+ V/ {1 k! o- p7 v5 {you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 4 o% }  e4 I5 Z7 |! u( V; A8 i

" g1 f/ D" o3 s, b# U" V1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred * x5 ^7 L; J" F( B+ }' k" O0 B
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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# L% G8 r! D* {- E# t/ gGive yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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