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! i$ }( x' _/ t* [" cI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 5 B: f- k/ z3 A0 w* n
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
1 a7 y6 m( e% ffor youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
$ Y) [) z3 t7 o- gwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
_3 n0 O7 [: {7 P, d7 Hman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable & X+ I' U Z! L; r7 u& @
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
2 ^+ A5 J$ n0 f ihorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
6 e! x! p( X7 k7 g7 IWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted $ ?: j2 i i1 m0 M
to be and do when he grew up. ! _9 Y# d& T+ y2 U% L! J# J
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
0 v0 Q; P. F( d+ \5 T. O9 `( e- b7 Mowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even . [6 ^& O+ m, n9 G
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, . M {2 H P. m& A- C+ c7 n) `, ?
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 0 _; f6 q% b d5 ]" L! D4 i
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
& `. t' \% ^& o- R$ c6 f' khanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
3 L. g( ]* T: K5 D- \On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after ! J6 |% O1 Q' u& E$ l4 p
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7 D% h. d1 n# W'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
3 V2 r' I" S' F0 A: B`Why did I receive an F?'
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% t9 i% J$ F, g3 a'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. 6 P" B, O2 `4 l% @0 F+ W1 C. m
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 6 Q# Z/ u! E. }- H2 ?
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
* P& }) W. F* h' D- U8 _You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
T2 k" r2 q: Mpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
" o6 F7 _, n% r5 _4 V+ ~( g8 Wadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will & y# R+ ~* `% M
reconsider your grade.’
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) G/ z, v- h- @7 G7 x, T'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
( A& B0 u0 n X( f& s! g |what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 7 C; s+ x) r3 O6 i
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same - T. n" k/ _, D* N, v: b9 d* T
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 9 {5 y7 ~/ q' r% B
keep my dream.'' _) v" t, a o/ ` |5 o8 A" z
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story - U9 J8 Z3 H" T' M/ z8 p4 j
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
! Q) r1 y" h a" N, k& ymy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
* V+ a5 y' T( U# _0 ^fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ! e s! T6 ?9 X) k/ m
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' ' ]! K* |% |# C5 H2 o# `( B d% s
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
1 ?% R; @- ^2 Gnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
5 a7 `, ~% r; \those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption 6 T' {/ g8 I H4 u
not to give up on yours.’'
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6 t0 Q- t1 N {) z9 VDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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