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Follow Your Dream
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# w; A$ \2 {9 `+ ~3 b# R7 j) r* LI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
6 k2 t; u- D2 l' c% iHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 2 I3 V0 p( H/ r7 a+ y, K5 ?6 J. }
for youth at risk programs. : I) g/ f% l2 f4 z# J& }2 `
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you ( q7 A& {! a# E5 }# W
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young ' W3 c$ f! [6 y' G6 [
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable 1 B) \4 p: v5 ~9 ]
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
3 ?7 K+ u% v/ }( `horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
6 ~0 R6 S0 D( j: k5 b' UWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
0 p5 z& m3 {5 G- A' C0 g- V4 gto be and do when he grew up.
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% F& f( z M' i# e5 D; y4 \! z( @, b'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
1 j1 q- j' R0 Iowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even # v; M& a1 u3 X! c' B* w# y
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
! A9 u) K! D1 H9 l/ `the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
: q+ o5 `0 D% ? W/ t+ @4 z% J5 k9 Jhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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% S( u) E% ^ K% C; i1 n+ @'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
& I0 u2 G Q, I$ Ahanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. 9 N; a* C! [8 p; L8 A5 Y& v$ W2 S
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after ) ~+ Z1 Q/ [( I# R$ n
class.' 4 i/ \/ `" Z7 m& L: k9 w S
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
$ e1 ^0 l! h, e J4 r. u`Why did I receive an F?'
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- X6 [ [4 M: X. O P'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
, ~6 }3 h; F8 ZYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. ) @- U- m- p* o( }4 ~1 H
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 3 }/ W$ d8 N4 x0 u% |
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
% S) e/ N' I6 S: ~0 }4 W* I$ Wpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher $ l$ m( S) H3 k' n8 e
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will ) t/ `# {, ~/ T4 m& x
reconsider your grade.’ , w; |4 t, j! c# i7 B
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father " \ C7 _8 x& A
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
, K" e: P- z, s. W. X r6 \( Cown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ' h, T6 e+ a0 C1 V" R
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% x5 G, ?& d' {) y6 T, ^* j5 N'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
2 {( D5 }* P4 } S3 o2 Wpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
( V7 i( y+ C# E) m* ]keep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story ! z1 Y0 }) L2 q
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of , j8 y' o& |+ v6 }- u6 ~
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 1 x3 t; y0 _ q$ v% ? X" i+ Z9 G+ p, g1 k
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago + ^9 N ^: y5 s( U
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
8 W" T2 I2 O7 ]3 X1 o9 j9 eWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
- }7 N! R/ a* Wnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 9 R3 }" j9 t+ x' G( }/ q
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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