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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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) A# D. y! U* d- T# V/ l: ~* mThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.1 _; w4 J- `$ J6 K5 C5 @
" l2 e/ j4 l9 IYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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3 f6 [. [4 X7 _How are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine"./ y5 U. y0 ?* [
. l' T( @' x* M! H. BFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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W' M4 j" n, _3 aVery well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language. \" i$ |- O1 Q- _6 t, T
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Pretty good.% T& s% ]1 ?1 g6 O/ k
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.- g/ p* }2 p' Q5 ~. v& I
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.! B+ G* O* O1 m' Y
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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8 V6 `) Y* q7 T+ E* ]1 N. @I've been better. ]0 |3 f, ^' ~" q6 F: i+ d0 ?
7 ?' A3 D8 |6 d8 z3 ~) F8 aPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong: N! ]/ L. q3 F/ i2 F2 z' P( V
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A: What's wrong?
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5 O! u, W4 a) k) d( F/ CB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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$ ]3 u8 E1 h vHow's it going?/ ^% G* M. T& }* h$ \' W
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.3 S$ V$ c9 K4 H- X' s
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"5 J6 e; `# G( X: w$ n" G' D5 A2 ~
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 6 n. F) p/ V5 \6 F' ^
8 B9 E6 B8 O1 E9 e X5 a& ^What's up?
3 \2 B9 l) Q: B( A$ I$ t* QThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:+ R% s( H" b4 j( X) X) y( l1 b9 a$ F
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. U, \; X8 b6 @9 d: }% `This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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- C ^$ i9 u* M6 G* LThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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; Y# o' p+ _9 g2 x) b- JNothing.
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9 |* B$ R4 |! Q& rThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.9 p- E- {3 ~8 C3 z' v5 D3 [
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Oh, just the usual.; ]* X0 n! C. h( Z: [
- P3 }4 V V2 l( DAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.! l- U( ?1 @- y" D; l
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
1 @* b/ o, D9 G& \This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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