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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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7 G5 R6 ?( V3 N. ]$ jThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?5 i1 I0 X6 ^( k9 E) f" |; b5 q
Fine.
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" ^+ S1 G9 X8 G+ I$ GThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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! Q' V8 i# K- q9 C) B$ \- fNot bad./ x6 @' `0 U: w0 t9 J. [( c
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".0 Y8 w9 \, d) j% N6 E, ^ _
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Fine, thanks.
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$ \" U5 z" f7 y3 CThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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7 Q2 H* Z8 F; e4 wVery well, thanks.
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5 P: z5 c' T2 f T/ XA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good." D6 u/ k- i# ], R! G1 V ~1 s
. ^+ P; j- Y. P6 @- d X3 zIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?: C- X; J# N. t1 l: [
" {7 J- i( s5 A5 r- ]% q3 BThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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; r0 u& P$ {( P5 `3 X* p0 EI'm hanging in there.
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% P9 r; b% v. t4 I! I5 y* U6 `2 DThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.* M) O7 {, B5 X" V, y
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: How are you?9 r$ W2 M& g6 T- j+ |" O' _5 j3 T
2 Y( Y# ?. b* b( R, }% g" A( b5 NB: I've been better.
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1 o. ^$ {8 ^- L. `4 P* DA: What's wrong?
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' M: K& w- u6 b( f6 c/ i& XB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.8 k8 E3 a& f2 ?( S
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How's it going?
: a N% s) n& ~4 P$ S \This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"9 F, m( ], {; v! y: f* ~+ R% ~+ v. i
6 h/ l4 N) x, PIt's going well. 1 }2 ]& e4 w( K( g) E3 a2 C
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 7 P; x$ h3 q4 m* ]3 N/ a* u
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What's up?
5 \% d+ B& m# hThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:7 W: y2 P4 t9 F( y% a3 u2 Q
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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$ V0 }- j+ Z4 h0 u1 Q! Y. M0 zNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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! N4 M9 w( I* Q# t6 d' iThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.) }8 o5 Q' ^ I% A
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Oh, just the usual.$ W2 X: q( w1 d2 V8 Q% q8 j
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.4 j1 |/ B, ?, W) K$ k
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Just the same old same old.# R1 V8 U. B$ o0 e' S
9 R, J# b4 j9 n* D% tThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it., {5 s' s7 o) d7 K& c
. u7 ~* l9 o' U8 W# x/ s- cOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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! U3 x0 Y6 k* e+ R. k9 b [( d5 }You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?# g4 ?" W3 m8 A# I4 t4 ^- `
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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