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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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6 X# E Y- }9 G0 T# b% f+ Q' dThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?") V1 W0 k; Z# c( t4 I6 r
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How are you?
4 R6 v( o! x( B4 h5 xFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation." W' M, ^& q% E$ Q! V, S H, p$ q
* E1 l; s7 h# y5 f6 r: U0 o( PNot bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.- e/ A& k6 P: j0 L0 |2 f) D ^( S
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.9 }. M- B! |$ Z
0 P* b3 q: D9 v" S. xGreat! How are you doing?" b" r* J& k; t
* K/ [+ l. o' F) X- h6 ~1 k2 }! YThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.2 L6 \4 Q& k+ \ k- ?' |& ]* }
& l: l$ j7 n0 q7 ^" w1 GI'm hanging in there.
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9 I ?: P. D9 s7 {7 xThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.- y# }# ^# u5 M: _
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:% |$ | c/ |1 F2 p( x
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B: I've been better.
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+ b) }% b9 C7 d: ]A: What's wrong?# k# j) q- r+ L5 v" P% Y
: J2 J4 a- I1 A4 p4 h1 MB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.4 c* j7 C- o6 O# ?- G
% U2 z" {8 h: t( ~7 o( a7 ?) K" BHow's it going?
" z/ R* v$ l& Q1 a) ]This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"7 b4 w% D9 {8 U+ _6 V
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It's going well.
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5 X. F2 Y, ~5 IThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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- _1 G8 y: J: l, V* h( {, K) QWhat's up?
' Q6 j, s, B! \$ \' uThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:0 d% Q1 J% }9 U# Z' {! A
4 z! ]8 g0 x. b9 ONothing much.0 B1 p+ Q! `- j' ~& d" m
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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7 B' D! n: D: pNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.7 e) f/ R9 Q- N
; M4 y) u! j3 n5 r* _- U1 H8 _0 LOh, just the usual.
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$ S0 n2 o6 K, J$ lThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.4 _. y: G7 w& |7 J' T
# b5 C# [- o% {/ |. O7 YOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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9 c. n+ L/ x% f( [You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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- l/ z$ ^4 ^" q; l' \% r" a2 }What's happening?
3 F& b$ j* J! c4 ^( R8 KThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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