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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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nursing home today.
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Q5 p: Y) m9 CHis wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
) W1 h/ K0 M- A3 }- ~: c ~After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, * X& T$ Z6 K) b1 P1 U
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 9 j3 j1 v& y- v# c3 o) s5 P5 J
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having ' O- b6 a0 R9 I9 f, M
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." * y6 p& E9 m7 L* q8 v8 A9 {9 z
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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% J9 ~, _, S* n4 Y q7 F" q6 P"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my $ I, x6 l% Z* _
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how 8 J: o( B: O9 y5 f7 n
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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+ Q! j0 C# G5 SIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ' {; n7 T }& ~* i. s0 R
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I / `/ T2 y4 x/ ?! ~# { j8 g
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed ' ^0 a( Z9 I! Q! W
and be thankful for the ones that do. 7 M( h& m, g$ o$ x+ _
: L& D2 r$ g( S0 |7 W8 MEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
' `1 ]' [% w' p6 n; Cday and all the happy memories I've stored away. 9 g3 h/ {6 E! d+ j4 H+ _: D% @
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: Z% p% j% e+ C; POld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. 0 n5 y5 y6 U' |9 E6 x0 P2 Y- I4 O, y
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
3 U# W! h3 y( _" L1 C% Paccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
/ Q% t1 u2 f" S3 K* QI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 1 V; _, \2 \+ z% t
% T& a& g( M' n2 v( c3 s D9 ]6 N 1. Free your heart from hatred. 3 N5 b* C# Z+ R) l/ x: G
2. Free your mind from worries. - l8 m; D; Q: p& b* P0 ?$ |' V
3. Live simply.
1 f& C }& i# _# c ` 4. Give more. - I0 z6 X f* R: V3 b/ I
5. Expect less. |
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