妈妈们，你们会怎么做？

PTL · 发表于 2006-10-27 12:55

前两天宝宝要带ＷＡＬＫＩＥＴＡＬＫＩＥ去学校玩，小朋友当然都很喜欢玩了，她们班上有个女孩子（是女孩子呢）说给我玩，要不我就ＰＵＮＣＨ你？我闺女也老实，就给她玩了。回来跟我说。你们会怎么做呢？
反正我是告诉我女儿下次她再这么说，你就偏不给她玩，不能贯出她这毛病呀，要不将来不就被她欺负住了吗？你就也吓她说＂你ＰＵＮＣＨ我，我就ＰＵＮＣＨ你＂，结果我们家丫头也老实，第二天那个女孩又这么说，我女儿说＂我和我妈妈说了，我妈说你ＰＵＮＣＨ我，我就ＰＵＮＣＨ你＂，天呢，幸愧老师没听见。不过，那个女孩从此真不敢在和我女儿那么说了。

让爱住我家 · 发表于 2006-10-27 13:05

我觉得做的挺对呀。要孩子学会自己保护自己。我们总不能跟她一辈子。

三思 · 发表于 2006-10-27 13:07

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PTL · 发表于 2006-10-27 13:21

谢谢,以下转载三思的贴子

Parents of both bullies and victims need to wake up and deal with the problem. It is no longer okay to ignore bullying as just part of "growing up."

Here is what the experts suggest:

If there is a problem, deal with it. Go to your child's school and find out what is going on!
If your child is the victim of a bully, the experts agree that the best thing you can do is to empower your child and teach him or her to be assertive, to stand up for him or herself against the bully. Some experts recommend enrolling your child in a martial arts class, not necessarily to teach your child how to defend him or herself physically, but to build self-confidence
Teach children to ignore bullying. Children who have a positive self-image are better able to do so.
Teach your child that if bullying gets physical, he or she should get help from an adult and that it is not a sign of weakness to do so. They should not respond with violence.
Tell your child how to respond if they are a witness to bullying. Children are being taught in schools that they should not be silent bystanders. Reinforce that at home. Make sure they know how to support the victim, not the bully
If your child is bullying others, help him or her see the effects of their actions. Work to increase your child's ability to empathize with his or her victim. Work to raise his or her self-esteem and help him or her find more positive ways to resolve conflict.
If you can not deal with the bullying by yourself, enlist the aid of an expert - a school guidance counselor, pediatrician, or child psychologist. Do not ignore the problem.

[ 本帖最后由三思于 2006-9-21 19:07 编辑 ]

PTL · 发表于 2006-10-27 13:24

所以我给她送去学抬拳道去了，就是为了让她学习保护自己，更重要的是提高她的自信。她不是一个有攻击性的孩子，不先动手是我们给她规定的原则。又健身又自保。不过，一个一年纪的女孩子可以说出那话着实让我吃了一惊。她们班男孩子都没有那么野。

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望明月 · 发表于 2006-10-27 14:24

原帖由 PTL 于 2006-10-27 12:55 发表+ L/ u) {' u* S( h9 [: Y9 |: B& K; o
前两天宝宝要带ＷＡＬＫＩＥＴＡＬＫＩＥ去学校玩，小朋友当然都很喜欢玩了，她们班上有个女孩子（是女孩子呢）说给我玩，要不我就ＰＵＮＣＨ你？我闺女也老实，就给她玩了。回来跟我说。你们会怎么做呢？! w0 g7 O- x+ C- f) L* B4 Q( _- d, g
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做得不错!

Lazycat · 发表于 2006-10-27 14:49

原帖由 PTL 于 2006-10-27 12:55 发表
. {! H- U- { Q' @前两天宝宝要带ＷＡＬＫＩＥＴＡＬＫＩＥ去学校玩，小朋友当然都很喜欢玩了，她们班上有个女孩子（是女孩子呢）说给我玩，要不我就ＰＵＮＣＨ你？我闺女也老实，就给她玩了。回来跟我说。你们会怎么做呢？5 [) ^' T3 t" ~; ~- u& y7 I
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哈哈, 你的女儿真是够可爱的! 不过我觉得你们做的很对,

坚决支持!

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