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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.5 S1 [/ @! I# T( P! e S' I% |
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7 ?! M2 }1 k: x8 x: W8 BThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
1 N n5 G/ y @& L( Y, q& }" OIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
, z' A! d2 t7 \* SAs the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.* U- p1 j, M; d' g& }3 l- A
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