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One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
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I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.; `3 F$ E4 ?# I& d! T
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His name was Kyle.; i; m6 H, L6 G
7 ^7 k* m8 i/ S* X4 T% A8 HIt looked like he was carrying all of his/ `8 G& ^0 d( r" H( S7 `: U2 Q1 Z+ E
Books.
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I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?
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He must really be a nerd."! K4 \$ ]+ w- N
; E1 {5 O1 [" q& d6 jI had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.3 W" S- t- x, F/ f& c
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As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
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/ s+ ~4 |' x5 a B! Y# V; VThey ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.- V! b) U' N9 Q. P- c1 e: s
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His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.
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He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes, B) k; s! p. L! X6 a
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My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
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+ c: Y5 F1 {( O* M+ {As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.& M1 o8 d) j% [9 K/ ], L: ~ J" z, `
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' ^! t j: S4 |0 U) n% o6 G1 h" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"
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There was a big smile on his face.$ e3 { e; n) y3 h2 M3 h/ o H
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It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
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+ i- |" Q7 y o: x9 [3 GI helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.
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0 ?4 v7 _! A5 t6 l- {As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.* v$ U5 U) l' t) M9 \( b1 s& Z
" W# h8 E3 ^2 `+ e% i3 r4 T7 VHe said he had gone to private school before now.& M8 u4 U. q1 ^! f
$ y2 l* o: A; F3 RI would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
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We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.5 ]* i& E9 A8 V! D7 A, _1 T
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He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.! v) B% N5 l4 j6 x9 w
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I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.
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/ h; Z2 ^9 A( u7 O: pHe said yes.
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We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.* Y; G8 P! ^' ^, n
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Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.5 S$ K3 x" E" C- Y
3 E$ b- U0 n! ?: }/ Y6 }I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!
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" He just laughed and handed me half the books.
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' d3 k- R5 F# `! _4 h- mOver the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
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When we were seniors, we began to think
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Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I
4 J1 k+ g% z+ k: u4 zWas going to Duke.9 j9 l8 r+ E/ i# ?2 x6 k4 f' ^
/ ? U. V4 j& }1 nI knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
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+ H( P6 e# |/ [+ u0 iHe was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.
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Kyle was valedictorian of our class.
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5 P* I3 l/ _: s! S' SI teased him all the time about being a nerd.; w+ p" ~8 R+ i' j/ N$ E
/ ~8 U W& H7 n7 G2 x- O! m# oHe had to prepare a speech for graduation.& v) h, W3 G& O& ?& j* @0 x; ?4 J3 }
/ T, L. A% n5 o4 W, v! {I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak
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Graduation day, I saw Kyle.6 ?$ z9 j3 m* D- O# z! R6 z
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He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.
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, X$ q( o& }( M* _He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
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' L. m; D+ ^8 [4 D8 A6 ~2 }5 _He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.& r( w S% B- k$ ?" f/ `: y; l$ s9 R
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+ l2 O0 X) l" Q d( HToday was one of those days.
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I could see that he was nervous about his speech.) }5 N3 _* l& ~/ {3 h/ i
! R5 A2 M: g! A& Q) }" Z3 ASo, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"0 ]/ X+ @& v7 j( w7 F6 X" x
) d- M, a4 S7 ]! |5 _7 ?; y7 l8 R: dHe looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.
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) Z* L h7 d2 J"Thanks," he said.
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2 t" J" |1 u7 ]As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began& T+ A+ k* M4 c9 D# ]2 V" A4 ^. D
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"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.% j0 r8 Q. ~8 y3 m U
' O& o" [( x# X4 _: [Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends.... @7 l) L; q4 d1 J2 F9 j" l
. q$ h0 ~& I# t+ d ^( ^I am here to tell all of you that being a% J4 n" N3 ^1 [) V& ~' a
Friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
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I am going to tell you a story."
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I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met./ R9 @, _, M; ~& w' r: M( G( j" b
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He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.' Y$ ^8 ~4 x, |1 |0 _5 a
6 }. G* O7 u( \" nHe talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
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He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.7 w6 i: }7 b; Q
: r# a: Y! a( m3 l7 I- Y. V"Thankfully, I was saved.
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`$ w7 R: Q; X+ k8 qMy friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."8 r+ W7 F6 z. w" O8 g
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I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.) Z; z+ Z' k- h9 D* A9 o) e. d
/ t, b) D. d' GI saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
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Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.) p! C- j% z4 D: W, ~2 H. U" e& K
; P; e& H6 }: v0 m( lNever underestimate the power of your actions.# Q; k2 j1 i( ]7 J
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With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
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For better or for worse.* w N6 a# w# T E. J6 f
/ W3 ^# M2 V) j/ X* KGod puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.
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Look for God in others.
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You now have two choices, you can:) s7 }5 a3 ?. q5 z. w% I
8 o6 n2 I+ {( s P6 \; z8 L b) W1) Pass this on to your friends or2 _" h* U: {& w3 q1 D
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2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.
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6 i# f# h1 i: F% k0 TAs you can see, I took choice number 1.5 r* q& ^; ~1 j9 `" \6 _' f
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."
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There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.6 [6 q' R$ z$ h& j r( u: S
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Tomorrow is mystery." ~, U+ r! K, f# c
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Today is a gift.9 E5 x5 W; D% c# h; [7 r/ I
9 o4 M& J( \8 F1 mIt's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
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Z" ]6 H: ?! I* U2 N$ I3 ?* UIf it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends. |
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