It's fine to have one. ( n9 Z- V5 p8 b2 H4 u; d4 lIt's fine to be proud of it.# r2 z/ H& R" U% g" \9 l
But please don't whip it out in public and start waving it around,: l# z! }! C" t$ h( |; f
And PLEASE don't try to shove it down my children's throats.