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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。/ S# I; y7 t( v' i% h
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee' b) A6 X' ~5 L& n% k* y- ?0 E% t# M9 O
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
& `3 t4 l* T" P$ H( s, a> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + R" W; N. M8 @( I" A" Y. n9 i
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
4 g% x+ S* B& W: T> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. }4 j; R! R# M( k> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
/ y0 { i: Q5 H; I6 U- t> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.$ u* C9 u( H) M( M9 w) S
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+ @' A _; L3 t, h9 V9 s> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
) y* @# N4 F3 ]* t, L> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
) H; I+ A9 Y, ]# P7 _0 V- y> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 J5 z+ Z5 M h9 C7 r, R7 {
> agreed it was.% b$ D. t' u$ Z) Z' G
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
, m* g! H/ l9 l% N( o' t0 W> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar $ r% S* u r/ L- D7 Z X/ [' l
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."5 y! \! t( r" I* ^% G
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
* N3 H. [! S! B {, q: _> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
' |0 [1 C' b7 V+ e+ [> space between the sand. The students laughed.7 H1 F: k7 Y% d
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
9 T6 x0 {5 ^& K* N; l( b* c6 G> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the + `5 @1 N8 T0 D0 @. @: n5 ~) p
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
9 t8 T5 ]; w4 F j5 j> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
/ u! h3 C F5 @3 A' C+ F( ~> remained, your life would still be full.5 s; B$ F/ y) a/ i$ `
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! y; D+ R3 s( M7 N. h
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % W; K6 M* _% i* X7 T8 F2 O9 ~
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
# t7 \$ S/ ]8 }> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy % b6 w, M" ^( I- N5 e7 C5 x
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are % R7 V6 U, {( k
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7 n1 ]+ l2 B; |) I4 i> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
0 w8 A$ j0 N3 D" ` @" w; _> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ! f% d7 [" }* D
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to , S6 U/ i4 l+ s# h* Y# Z8 u
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and : o z. X" A, M, t% M/ E: i' V
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that " k& v% c: m2 h, |
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."! Q$ M8 V2 [0 x! @
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ( f/ b! p/ p; ?) q5 k$ Y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
/ f! V& K8 G: J- l# \# A. M5 _> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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5 r! O1 |: k ?# _: }> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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