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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
# Z N; Z! h, j8 U2 [7 j, y> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee1 K$ i4 t0 _1 i1 M @
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
/ d& \% W# ?: I+ \1 J4 ?> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of M" V0 R7 `8 Z% w" c
> coffee.
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6 P1 m! N# P, K0 t" U l' K! _> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
& P3 O; r; Y- s3 M0 |> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
@! u$ v7 U7 M1 v t) l5 Y> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ! V* X; M( A0 p4 D3 C! w
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.7 w6 z6 K, r: H; T
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 7 [7 P! ~0 T. ?7 `
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
( A& U2 t0 ~! z% g5 @- Z> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They # F# {2 e, f! B: s) U. g" C" { {+ z
> agreed it was. p4 ~/ w5 S, m
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
% _7 H! k1 j$ N+ b# }> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 4 d7 v) J3 `$ ?3 Y g7 S7 p
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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8 l+ E, |9 j8 E# t> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
" o0 i( v; Y: e7 ]> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
5 }- @5 ?) k+ R' M' U: g) Q$ t> space between the sand. The students laughed.; z$ y( h: y; v7 {0 e
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0 c7 @2 i' Z$ m; l6 B> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
6 a/ f# E; v. O# T> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
! q- ~! D! h. e1 |> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ; F" [8 _& P- x9 W0 t0 J
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
0 g, l! ` \. l# k W> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
I' L7 L ]3 P8 q* V8 ]> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 4 z# Q; I, N, @2 T% y" z' x
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 3 ^& X H( ^0 p D
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ; X( e( F2 x* m, u! w. J' c
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 0 W/ l6 P# t' y0 p% D
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
; E* I# G2 |, R: v" k; ~, B3 y> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 5 W0 t, }' m5 z- ~. q( k6 A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 5 s! ^% P+ w) o2 T
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and $ s, G; n9 {. o/ e! K4 p+ n- n
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
% ? u, F9 u Q d8 ?0 ?> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."4 f; r' q6 d. _2 w+ g
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( O* Q3 C4 l" S3 R> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
% `$ ]1 h; D- O! q8 e9 V5 ~+ A8 |> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, " |8 Y1 D" \( e% ~1 l
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."7 T3 f3 y; }$ j6 z( _
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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