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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 2 @8 Z; I8 K/ ^5 k* _ e
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ) S7 b4 _ I4 h4 T3 ]
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$ o* m. q7 ?5 L6 E1 _( J3 {0 L# H( m> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
9 ~0 A" p4 T3 ~7 }# ]> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 7 [6 N& j" k. v. Z
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
5 b* j0 N- k6 t p' W7 o4 i> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.' S$ Q) Q2 y( G; I5 C" b% x
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar , K5 J' F) m/ e `! a0 w* f
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
% K% d5 O" K: q- @( w# S/ O3 F> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 F, }( z4 X: o L
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
0 k$ s' C* k9 X8 V3 c> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 3 s: f, j& y) R3 o: |
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."" w! u" m2 ]' [ [1 j1 @# i2 P
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
+ I" B0 @ b- U+ d, e& y y> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty # @4 ]; y; P J. P0 Y+ `
> space between the sand. The students laughed.6 w/ a5 u* R( o' H0 Z! L
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to " [8 [ k8 V% T
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ) D2 G' h# n- G
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends # q" p$ v. Z& h+ n
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
. \2 R! O5 U" A- V, k4 e! _, l0 y> remained, your life would still be full.* V! x8 X3 R/ a9 L( ^3 l
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f, L: \+ `( {6 F, T> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 0 I0 { n4 a, c( _4 f! o: j
> your car.4 \6 O- P4 y( [, q& [# Y
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % h; R; S4 {# b6 X
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
, q! J: g, {& Z> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 8 `- \* U I- }+ Q$ B
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
% l1 G. d0 X3 o* c% N5 y$ d1 o2 f> important to you.3 H {0 R T6 u; d6 q; `4 ~
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
& g& D5 g0 d1 _. C> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
/ H U9 w) }; y$ E! _! q> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
9 ?2 ~ U$ s; U: S9 R4 X, q> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and / q3 l; i3 G4 f" N' h4 P
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 5 ~8 \5 T: U$ h
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."0 {& @. m1 d0 H& t
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9 v. I9 C- m8 Q4 @4 y1 E> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
1 j& D6 q0 l* U+ b4 Z> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."5 d+ D! _' l" c* a
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% q7 E4 S- P* h2 j! N, L+ _> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ! u$ U0 J7 I& O0 b$ p
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."! W- v# m/ N6 y$ A0 E3 X
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( e5 J/ t- f/ [2 H1 \& K> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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