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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
- M3 Y9 W+ g! _& y# D9 T/ |> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee( @. W: q1 `. n
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 4 i, ]6 M% g* C, ^0 ~' o
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 4 w5 |* @- t1 W
> coffee.
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2 h7 c9 ` l% G0 Y: \- [+ Z> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
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1 \$ s- L" \" \> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
6 H) D4 `9 ^. ~/ K7 U> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.9 h8 c, E4 ]3 i8 J# G; o
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1 [- Z; U, m3 d3 A) k0 S> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 D+ k U5 Q7 r7 [
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between , Z B9 n3 i5 a& L2 k* ], _) {
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
# W9 r/ ^! p+ }1 R> agreed it was.
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! A' c" d2 T3 o: M> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 1 G2 R$ S. v. q* j6 V
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar % u- O) q* M# A0 w1 j$ Z; o/ M
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes." T m. V) ^7 g+ q
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" P" s. p0 h) F x j> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 4 X' t- k* P C3 u3 ^+ H& E8 j9 g3 l
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
) ^# l1 u5 [7 v( z/ ], ^> space between the sand. The students laughed./ g: [/ Q8 C$ Z$ M
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to : C3 n t% I/ Z' Q7 @: c$ I( d
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
& X, ^! d! B( d: W9 E6 i> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends + J/ `) `7 |/ p) z' w. J" e/ ]+ b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they , l7 o8 c7 U! j( a" y2 d' D
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ) g+ f- K) Q! b X+ O
> your car.
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^2 Z$ K- \; \+ i7 u> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
. d! p( M6 ]& B> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 1 O. V( ~, |% T$ Q
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
! a: z" ~8 o2 {& P7 g> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are : h4 H8 f) A& D3 v' w0 b
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
# k3 a9 ~/ U- t% [, h> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
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> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
- T9 Z5 [$ l; }. s3 _- C4 z- s> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that " o7 Q3 K" d. T1 b' W1 Z3 g0 o7 g
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."+ A4 O+ h$ m& N. [
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ) T4 @1 r# q3 Q# I. ]' T
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 6 @( U3 {4 W& ^: d
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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1 K3 l. c8 Z6 z$ R& a# V2 @> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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