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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
$ X2 F9 z% D* |& V; T$ q! _% \> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
& s0 a: d F( k, y: s x+ w> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
2 B! `2 a+ B( L2 D A5 r> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. b" J: K9 p6 d% I. H! C, u6 y> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then {. a) G( \( V5 f r- v+ a
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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- t7 ?! t( {% [" }3 x- U* {> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
+ N7 N0 I u h) {> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 6 h( t ~1 S& S1 c- T4 g1 k
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 G" A/ O+ T0 z r/ }+ B4 J' a
> agreed it was.
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9 r- R* I$ Z% ?8 [8 ]8 m> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
& `* A e# M' z# L. P( b> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 5 @6 `' K7 d9 }8 K, n3 v9 N4 u6 j6 i
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ' u8 u3 @9 `1 m& S
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ' Z0 @( X3 `* H% \+ h& z, l/ J. @' d; O
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
: P9 y% s+ U6 D% @9 h> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the & J! h! W) H! V/ K# {
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ! G/ [% e' d" ?5 K0 r; a
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ' j; x8 J/ G E, C" v$ Y6 P+ B
> remained, your life would still be full.4 @0 Q4 i9 K1 \5 G1 A3 L
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6 \& Y4 ?2 X* u6 {> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
( D) Q* R' Z7 G& D x5 X> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % K6 [5 u4 f0 E
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ! }. v' m' W5 ]( ^! m" V) X
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy / Y0 e8 ]! m6 o, }3 _' C3 U6 E
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
7 R" T* f" E# f+ l$ p: c$ _> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
# H7 O5 R; s7 k6 n; q, x> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to * L2 J1 [' J/ r7 W2 C1 b$ q5 o" v
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
% r3 g) U+ I9 N0 b1 l; d& q' q/ S/ B5 S> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that + U" @' j( l% k0 P$ l
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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7 z8 E: O0 ?2 U5 p/ Q" R> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 6 p- H- h4 z* r
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 2 e1 i6 X- n2 I
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."4 _. F; H9 P$ ] X# f" C1 c9 X! e
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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