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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。0 V3 f8 r+ _6 L: H! @6 b
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
% M; M+ |: ^& n4 D$ p/ L _- N> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 8 ~7 f# A2 j" n) x
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front $ C4 c: V: ^/ K. S0 ]
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and : w" C2 B) r" j% N3 K1 l/ f# X; ~
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
M+ G. ]' ^; s' ], e& J+ h> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
' m% F* Q: D% E& L7 e: w7 n> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 2 W' I5 C: z; D2 i, v1 [! ~
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
: @1 O) M: G: g1 P" \. q> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ' p& Q. Y' Y$ @& @! C
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ( Q1 F- }/ h0 B- c! h
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes.". A% c# x, E- P" H% |" P
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
* \7 }! u6 h s& c% E7 w> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 2 Q$ m8 K: }( R# S; l3 }2 g
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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7 k, ]8 O1 U" j9 j& |> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to : P+ t( \, V7 u% p1 E" O- i* @
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the & V, r5 b" |$ f+ J
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 8 B ^! T$ _3 `2 E/ L
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
: T: @- @' O' v4 x2 Y4 b# r0 y> remained, your life would still be full.8 Y/ d5 g8 W2 \# k$ I" L
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
* b1 I& g- `/ u: T> your car.
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6 J! c4 g- c; C( w0 K; I> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
) m" y) X: c* }; i; |5 B> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
1 E! Q+ T i7 F8 I2 ]7 U# L, J! z> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
# B% G* \6 ^9 C; F8 i+ `> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ) v( H% c6 y6 `7 n0 L
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
' i+ G% p! u# h I> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
) u& @1 ?, V; R! a> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
% ?: g/ Y( r# _" M9 u5 c> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
% X) K9 \5 x* i# q5 u> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
! J# y, N9 z9 a> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ! U% Z4 Q w- W" N
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, & b8 m. r% ~ C3 u
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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+ d4 {/ E& P* D> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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