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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。7 y* R* v9 \; j% i& Q( x4 K4 B- `% \: x
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee1 M9 z$ a# M4 D4 j; @
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
1 O" Q I9 H# T> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + a) A. V# N8 w8 f* |5 i0 l x8 G
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# g3 V T" i" `> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 3 B" N! c% Q' `; C7 `. C2 s9 W
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 4 [* o8 m, S! x1 F+ I
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 8 A# |! m: M* x2 g2 n
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
# w/ B q, L, n7 r# J> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
8 T3 \5 y" ?$ T( R4 k6 n> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
7 r0 b6 k: N3 f& c* R> agreed it was.# ~8 `. `7 J: D% a! t: o7 G9 _
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ( p$ `% C, z4 f+ j3 T1 f% X& H
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar * G$ ?3 m% F9 b
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
, y4 F7 D4 Z* B5 T, X> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
: ?: \# G+ L: t, S> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
- X# @ n& G1 X' J6 ?/ w, y, u" F> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the & [. g' ^+ ?5 d
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 4 G. |0 U) v$ h* v: ^
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ; H4 y n8 m9 F$ t& `) w3 v
> remained, your life would still be full.
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! U6 P! R, S+ E/ O$ z% e" }> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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, X. o6 k$ J. o+ ?- F+ u- _) ]( J( _9 l> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
. m4 P$ ^4 G# o p: u> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
n7 \* g. ?, C: o' a% s/ [> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
0 [: A' m/ S3 p/ w0 _$ F) i> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 3 y/ a8 B, U% D% ?* M
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. o8 P( q# R* P' Y> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
0 R! O) X0 j9 _; s" [ N1 T2 ?3 N> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ; X( B1 a0 h' g8 t" C: y* N/ `
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 3 C* @: w* @: ]$ f9 x$ R
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ) H' ~6 H. r r$ K4 |
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
8 u8 [6 l! G. x# y5 q0 ?; b" U; u9 ~) {9 K> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."5 x' s3 W! [9 ]) u
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ( p3 f! I* T' O, o8 _: n
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."6 m6 l! v' S! J4 {! S
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 6 J) ?4 D1 r& N# ?% ^" \" _
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."$ {- O& K; r, a* I8 u
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- \/ s, e! F4 \4 q$ Z8 C> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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