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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。7 { B5 q0 D1 F; ~! w
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* j) c' K* b# O- N3 ~
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 8 z' |, }$ X7 G* [% g* c9 H* Z. `
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ; t! I9 E. u$ Q# |9 n, s o( Q/ G
> coffee.
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8 E& C+ S, N% J* @7 F& U: M> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front & G/ A9 p3 ~5 f8 i1 _, U3 G
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and - p6 |- ]5 t6 \7 ~" j
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 7 V( T, N' x$ ]: U7 g9 \$ s
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.% o; |0 `0 r0 c D( k
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0 [2 P6 O5 i5 h) |; Z> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar # B3 z4 n8 h; Q
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 9 W* M3 d+ g. N$ \3 M w. M1 e
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 2 U, i% b$ Q, V6 ]7 C' {3 P+ M
> agreed it was.; J) P( {7 p$ |" o& T% |
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 8 i0 Q5 i. l# h" s- C: [/ ]. m* e2 J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar R1 M( K3 k3 i4 z+ F* V/ K
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ) n% X2 j$ [% n1 c2 f' z
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 r3 V" B/ r i: T% \9 g
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to : w2 v( I% {- X
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
1 h2 u. q) a4 X2 \ C6 r> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends * c/ r& M ?1 f8 u6 V
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
[/ f; v' D7 d4 b> remained, your life would still be full. i6 \1 Q5 U4 q1 e6 E8 A( s
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
: N/ `" h. G* y2 I, w% M> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
+ n; i. ^" M; p. P6 N5 N> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 9 D# v# ]4 v& y' v, n/ L% V. f
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
& d8 f& B/ V7 _' B2 j6 R* S> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
H/ A( V6 j4 R; q, ^> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
' Z: d: \- p( m/ a# H R> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to W% _4 j+ Z, Y0 Z, R
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
0 Q: a) z: Q* D> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
, A( j2 h9 {; [" I: b1 `> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
7 O2 R9 f9 S: o/ [; q4 @> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
- u: M- \% N* I' `8 _, Q> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."2 F& q6 `6 ^3 I- m; Q
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. |- s: n7 a7 f# n- W' w> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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