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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
5 q7 b: d! g( Y1 A' Y> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee4 k8 m, F, K3 l9 s, G# O% _
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in - @( y8 c9 Q8 q
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ) x, h! t5 `# O6 ^. W
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ) i& t; B/ }1 B) B
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
3 C) @5 |+ w! K4 b5 d( k> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
; R7 |9 y+ c) s2 {* J> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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; {2 b6 L! S9 A/ L; W/ z> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 I$ O0 x g! G. S
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ; D. K9 F; q c/ {0 Y% r
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 5 f. R$ n. k' {
> agreed it was.3 g: E8 Z7 R& Q: {2 H7 E4 v
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* I; \) F7 f$ h1 e ?7 P3 K2 ^> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 4 V8 x" X; V! @* i8 ]! q; R
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
- F) G% `. {$ }* Y6 |8 A: P, V> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and # p2 n& n& f3 Z
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) T" ~& n4 g- Y3 f. Z N
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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/ Q2 F [* \( s2 l2 D2 _: F> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
# c' E! l8 K8 Q> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
4 m# N, r. ?/ ]> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends # ]6 F" |9 w/ @9 K# c* u6 {8 Y
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ) @+ ^6 s6 Z' N. k9 Y
> remained, your life would still be full.
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' p0 f# |- Z- z2 {7 F+ c `> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
9 K6 a0 W# ?% F+ Z> your car.3 g9 ~" l! l* Z# M
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into $ y1 b1 _- j* l1 t
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
: B9 P% J* k3 p> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ; ~) {7 S' b# _9 n) K3 w9 w0 t
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
- k- V6 D4 l3 w) E" c+ O$ c( \$ X> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
% {3 k* U$ P% Y/ F4 y8 e1 L+ W- I> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with h" b- i9 R, h" k% r
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 1 _( W) I5 b; \- q
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
7 T( b2 ~7 w3 N; E+ I8 O> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that - c. C$ w4 o8 s7 M6 p' z: u$ @( o) o+ B
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."' S/ w: }9 ~9 _. s$ R4 z0 k( p
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: V6 R! g( q- J: w- P; i! p> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ! o9 X; G, q1 B* E. c
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 P0 C& p1 a1 ~ R" J! `3 b4 |
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- v. s/ d- S: w/ h& E" [0 |/ V> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
* \; L6 O: Y( X> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."& N8 E$ w1 t/ Q0 k8 s2 q
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