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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee3 |6 B7 L: M' T6 x k
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in $ m- i* h9 O7 N
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of . [+ M0 [& Z: C7 j5 I
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front + M- f: \ @5 @8 {, f+ ^- v
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " S; ^+ q* D/ ]4 E
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
7 ?1 L @9 _ c, R+ e+ l' k; e> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.1 m* e4 y o4 C7 r
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 3 O7 ?0 r4 C% q1 T; ^* M3 N
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between + d( e" M" q$ ?* d4 p
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 r: D6 Z# H2 n3 j
> agreed it was.* O! m' Y6 R+ e
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ( K9 e, {' A) ]
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
: J8 x4 q! Z8 u% [8 Z: [> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and % o. A0 t- U1 s$ t- ^
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 6 a1 ~! Z1 ]& O: ^5 {( B
> space between the sand. The students laughed./ e; u) r0 [+ ~1 n0 v% w
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
; d0 {4 E6 O0 e+ O> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
i- O7 m# t5 |. n9 q> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
9 Q+ t0 l, U. y9 F1 b5 Z( d6 J* }> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
( f* b* x1 c( v7 H3 [+ m> remained, your life would still be full.4 C0 T j6 N& k* s: K
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5 N$ j0 \6 b" P6 p' m> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
3 z8 ?/ D0 X$ f I> your car.. O, F/ H- P( n- p7 o) W: ^% O. _
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$ e% h' l6 |9 N% ?> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into " v* A, H, Y1 z$ @: D
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
# y) M6 M3 P5 | v> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ) Z9 f5 y+ o2 W0 Y' P9 I
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are $ E# l" [1 p! t X$ [. ^
> important to you.
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8 O$ Z0 }, i0 n, c> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend & t9 \' d# I2 y I) g& u
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 4 Z4 v( c; t. Q" P
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- z% f/ I1 c8 N0 G g) T# z> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
% o" g: z1 b0 A/ v: d> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
# b+ a% _3 \/ `( E0 J7 D# j> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
A; f2 e8 y: q2 b, g) ~3 e1 u> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked." D( ]" d- ?7 H8 N! W+ s
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& M. M- E/ ~' k. W, g" K2 P> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, , }( K+ j+ |0 _& S; x
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."' C+ w8 n2 R; K* ^) ^/ u
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