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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
' ~/ {, ?! _3 G- a, r+ B6 y+ u> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee& P, e4 G Y2 k, x, v
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
1 E+ W% {2 \" c/ F1 |5 c> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front # @% |5 T- }1 o8 U" Y3 b
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
, o3 S$ F w) a q, K> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
2 H+ G% q6 A2 R8 |" Q% X> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar . p9 z2 L/ H* W; Z2 J0 ]! T
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
' g" e0 U4 y1 N> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 7 p: Q* Q0 N; T+ N+ G$ K8 [3 I: O) r
> agreed it was./ m/ |! x6 D( p; K* @
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 3 r& U5 Q+ e: P' z* l
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar , ^0 V) [3 S$ T7 Z
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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5 n2 @! B. ?9 o- |% _ J> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
3 H* q+ q. o$ j> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
/ g7 S5 s3 f9 e7 c> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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& S, b6 J% {. M> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to \- W g# K. g5 W5 _- H4 N
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
. T* \% E0 y% p> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
0 v' g# M8 C* \& y- a! ~* z, s5 {+ K> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they % h5 u) L. X: T9 ]2 e4 E/ P
> remained, your life would still be full.) U; G* c. B3 u5 ]
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9 R! g% n- n! ?' a4 J$ X o> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 0 z% l1 e( Y' s. i
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into " s% v& h2 t7 |0 {
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the . K$ x' I. n% T
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
& P: A( p# l: a* `! o) o/ l3 \- Q' X> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 5 g5 z4 S, i: M6 g7 B1 l3 t
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend & J2 W+ E) n g/ s0 [# Q9 q
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with : O* C- N* q U# s S. d
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- ^. }- E. \3 v4 y. h! H0 f> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 9 |1 u/ A) Z2 c( V
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 2 C; V) A5 r9 J4 _; k* N
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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! B2 f/ b+ g/ f% ~> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
0 X0 @! ^7 `: R; h+ M> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
5 N4 C# A5 A' ]$ t8 T) n, t0 n> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."3 \3 @6 d3 f+ E9 q
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