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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。0 z( c( c9 ~# I% L
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee {0 q' O) b9 ~
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in + q5 u! C8 Q7 c* I* A: C
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 0 R% e, ~$ X: { c
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front & T: U- k8 Q% m
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and + m; E% D& o( K' n+ r8 d
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 0 t1 o) {8 q2 r( q$ b5 Y
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar , H: I3 v) N4 N% e0 t
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 8 u$ Y; p1 n" E$ O- B
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 5 N% Z1 y# x& H7 y
> agreed it was.* W& P% C) c* o- K8 X
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + i3 B, R N9 s5 l: h
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
4 \. d$ N M) m( Q0 ~> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 J# ], \5 Q! q7 H8 B
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
" i% E: q% z+ Z a4 |> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
- v/ J( R- K( N" C1 u8 S> space between the sand. The students laughed.3 z& ^* D2 G0 u# c E
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* \+ Q& K; |% `> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
V% b+ x( Q+ p1 B5 n y2 q! ^4 E> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
( E/ U8 L& Q" a8 O. C7 K> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 3 j! l: B+ n. P) a1 N
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
7 S: }" f7 j9 D( j. D1 C9 l. x> remained, your life would still be full.8 v7 v' z5 _# r$ i- B
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
4 f/ _; a9 n9 k/ L> your car.' M" Y# Q7 U- v, U4 H# ^
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 6 S* w2 u+ N; Y% u0 D
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 6 G; w5 L- y( p; F
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 0 Q" a/ q1 z1 Y B
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are - N1 L, e5 O! e! |
> important to you.5 C, B5 l8 r. d4 }6 Y7 `
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
: G7 G& t6 e1 p- T9 {" w> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
/ C3 H( c' M7 a+ C> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 1 V5 N9 a4 @& @* {8 x8 ^
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ' r) s q0 Q; z# M5 F
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that . p5 ?3 C3 s/ G: `' g d: ^) T
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
( u% ?+ J9 ?7 q3 `1 U9 o! M> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : H7 k* [+ j8 [$ [
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."/ k7 b' l/ K) c
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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