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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。0 w* q( ^7 H1 Z- {( v8 i
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
: [0 D q9 a; e$ h+ x# i0 b* _> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 4 y. i: l& s% A; I
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ( ~ M# M$ n+ d
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
Q. G; O9 H7 d> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.+ B s" c+ B7 a2 \) A- ~" ^
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar + l( W' |: _6 q% v
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between & r. j, \$ n- l1 |: X( _7 m# k8 m
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( V, j" f5 W: B> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
2 c; S. K1 _/ c) k> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar / J; H0 Z g' Q" N4 ]4 k- g
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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; k) s; \" v1 H/ `) Y> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and Z6 g1 R' c+ A: _7 k" o% e: j7 w
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty , q+ X7 C1 V" R7 Z" V5 k. j0 W
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
d4 ]4 c$ G( }> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the + p% [$ K3 B) q8 X
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
1 v5 `+ _2 m0 Y$ \, p> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
+ X. C8 T% F R$ I> remained, your life would still be full.0 q0 I/ F; Y1 P* P
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1 ~ M7 U$ V$ p. s2 q" D> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and , ^3 u" q. i( K& v0 b
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% ~: E+ u6 b/ I0 g3 T> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 7 L% P7 f2 r0 i+ `! O
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - M) V" A+ v2 z- N% ^7 y3 Z
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
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( g5 P2 @ d7 l, E& ^> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
, S8 t+ {1 c" ]" P> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
! ^9 O$ Z, L% W' T b3 K) R! y> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
, r3 G$ i" G' F- i> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
1 D8 ]% v @9 n6 C. q! k& k> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ; h- L9 x" u/ X( ]
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 0 H7 v7 ^( n' B5 G* x
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, + w9 d* ]# }! }" I7 u
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."4 G# b* P" n S6 g, ?. W: C% O
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0 ~1 B6 j' K( ?5 c7 G) A& O> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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