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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
( H+ n! N5 g, k: Y> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
7 Q6 Z# z+ @- w2 q> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ) t' K3 x5 s# `. S
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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3 D% D# M) }; V! w& i7 s$ m1 F> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front , L& f5 c0 {5 p4 j& [( g9 h- y
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and K# J; j6 z8 x) D3 K- F
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then $ f- \( L A* F# ]
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 6 ^8 D) G2 z+ I' C9 H6 ~3 |! K
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
" \. l, A, ~, t/ Z2 d% N> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They " r$ c7 i: O6 v3 |
> agreed it was.
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K) q! o A7 {' h6 X9 f> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 6 f3 G _$ T2 Q# [3 ~
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ) I5 X: m6 m( E- h1 j
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 |6 ?" Q: u# l+ D+ l( S0 Z
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
$ `( D2 v/ s" m" l# C5 Q> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
4 ]; I6 G# ^" N7 C/ c# \> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
" B2 w% J8 m, C/ B> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the $ w2 z; J5 `! {3 z% `( g
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
% D! \: P# Y2 s9 n# R! N9 k> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
- {! |' z7 ^1 s1 h* l8 R> remained, your life would still be full.. q8 k2 Z" v0 n( @* b$ O
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
" W& z6 N F! w+ j. D4 C+ G, m> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ' a( U" g y& |7 t* t# i; L1 w
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ; L; u% f) y4 t$ m/ t
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
, s! F! j/ c5 G3 l" ~& K> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
$ h6 q5 X8 x. B$ ^> important to you.
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9 ^2 \& h% j8 V4 ^" y! B2 f- M% h( ]> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 9 Z9 ~* `( @' h2 p
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with % _; Z \8 |, o( O
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 3 u- m% _4 Z( y& b
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
$ B% Z8 T5 a' A/ U4 V> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
G) e5 v+ [9 B' G0 C> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."9 B) V0 X- \# \
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% v7 c7 a5 t' c> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 7 O6 P4 ~% Y8 n
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
2 P) p D" j3 j* S* m2 v. D3 f9 }0 |> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."* E- Y6 e( R. }; B4 R+ s
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7 g* q2 C. x2 }- ?> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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