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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
9 D S7 {) ? D6 b: G> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
5 Z7 i( Z( o" O8 d> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 7 U3 ^2 j+ w1 K, c% m9 c2 M
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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; p: s T( d& w1 Y> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
- W+ c' J1 h+ y/ {+ v5 z> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 5 p3 U# {1 w8 \
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 1 Q+ ]2 ?0 N) {/ K7 Z( C
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.! E5 W6 Q' ~0 I5 {+ C% K
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7 z% Q7 @ T* C; F f% @> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
# r. j5 F0 ^9 K8 k( {> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between - Q, Z) }/ Q0 d3 ?% t( o6 e7 c
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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2 i) X0 l- U1 Y8 x- Q$ R2 s4 `6 ]> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
3 r; d( f9 [- v6 L( l L> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
4 V# X: `* j. J> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and - I+ n/ W$ X2 X4 S' f# J
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 5 b: c1 F# w2 \3 [: R
> space between the sand. The students laughed.+ z4 q4 G5 A9 M. Z8 G8 X: P1 [
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4 X1 u: R: k% M9 c> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
1 J: ~) g4 r1 U3 Y! W3 i> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the . a- C( D$ \8 Y; C! A( j, F. R
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
N- p" d( p$ S' s> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 3 ?7 a8 b+ Q3 @6 z+ `. E4 Q* X" x
> your car.
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& q* Q' w+ b+ q4 j% u> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into w, v$ J8 q& [# R
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the * i& ]. u; G. @2 n% `
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy : X; i$ }5 N( n- q, l- U: U
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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4 r5 V V3 B6 p. E' u, e# `> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
1 ?3 R: W# y7 v; b) q> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
. T9 f0 u. I% P/ t> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to , q& S# _ J' l" ~# _% Y2 @
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
* ] q2 J+ X' {1 X8 A) K7 C7 g) `> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that . V A5 l5 ]2 {& P0 F4 m
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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0 i6 K. Q) I- c) j' W m> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
7 m3 {8 s4 I1 i2 w ?8 C/ M% G> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."& a4 u8 L( T; W8 g
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 8 U- |' L, i% }6 ]7 k6 @# c
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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5 D0 S! z6 O- B1 h/ I6 Y> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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