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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee3 M' t' _; [8 J- Z+ y# T k
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in . ?9 w9 u! P5 c2 U7 s
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ( U; |# f! B1 g: ^. U) L
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
: C. k' \5 o9 }% e4 U( a> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 5 u( h9 y8 n; G' j
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 3 b- ~$ _6 f, j% {
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.1 s+ L% y4 l W" R
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
- k8 |' u% f# |8 I> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between & o, T- L& |( r! d# i
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They / O& t$ \& Q; `" p4 f+ T: f! ?
> agreed it was.* Z' b9 o0 F) \ \& m3 P% x
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; A0 a- x3 @2 N> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
8 f9 Z$ b- ~+ I; a5 m( s, z> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
2 A& S: y% T4 _> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."1 I6 ?- T- p4 d; |
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and & [9 O9 m( y- o; v. W) h
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
8 T8 v5 u5 D6 S. z' `> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 0 H; F6 g* L8 t& x$ v7 O
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the , ]$ A; P0 k3 s8 V8 j
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
6 W0 I# |- {3 a* H> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they " |* C% ?2 H! F
> remained, your life would still be full./ k* m0 a8 r- U! _# y, |6 m) h
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1 y6 Z; Q4 p. U+ C9 S1 ?> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
2 X" g6 T" x( f0 b, U> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into + E9 B; K0 o: i( n
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
& L) E) ^- Z" v# _( |+ A# U> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 1 }: }& M7 e7 O3 l# ]
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
6 G% k9 }7 [9 _4 F! w9 l: u. H> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
3 ?1 t8 E# X |/ \. M. C> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
! b# a2 e) b& `; B0 j8 m> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and , B6 y9 O. a$ Z" r& g
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
! `9 N+ s$ D+ V0 Q> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."4 ~- b9 A3 O% l# w- v% L! }+ c
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9 _( g8 i4 K3 |1 J( t, l> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 9 D' |1 S6 b: @* h$ W, j. a! n ^6 G e
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."1 T+ k: `5 G! r9 m) j/ l# v
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 8 o# H1 u! D2 Q; z2 H/ _( [, i
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."4 ~: _ J) o5 w h2 q
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3 j3 y( o2 @/ m/ b> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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