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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
( p u# ~/ J8 J- w- f: U4 ?> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in : A& _/ o, H+ @* z, A, y) N
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of . A! g ~( Z, G8 f# ~! J0 s7 X0 D
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2 m: Y* k5 _" S> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ; ]7 b! I1 O% z3 R/ j1 Q( J" K5 m
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. [6 Z+ h5 _3 J+ D5 \& d> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
1 m& X' {# Y3 L, h> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.' A1 d$ ]# G: U
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0 a- q" g% K" c: K% C> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar - D) O* d" c* I& Q* T# b& l
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
2 F- ?. S9 S0 t3 h: T" r> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They G+ d+ r; h+ \2 j7 R; I
> agreed it was.
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4 K& E9 S" A$ d" l' M; H( t> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 8 ]5 U3 i! q) R3 M! E0 S! z. Y# `
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 [) z- v- y) O> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ) T2 w1 v) v3 B
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty * j' m; A) M0 }' Z6 d2 H
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to . ~2 i4 {6 T# [4 w7 f' w# X2 `
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 8 ~* W/ |! i3 |/ j5 @5 v7 v% H
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
# U( N4 R8 a* \6 s5 M> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% R7 U% ?5 Y7 G3 M- `> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 1 q; }$ S/ B1 }$ C/ Z2 V) K. _
> your car.9 L( L# j% t" t4 M0 N/ Z& A; {# o
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2 @ H) `; m* D1 |6 a m% {% {% H> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into " r9 s7 s. n/ [- B/ R1 C; y
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
( w6 @% r4 K z- t> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 d) v4 S& c, T0 F> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are * \) ?6 M5 |' H' T3 ?
> important to you.
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/ g, F- Q$ x, @: L- k7 d6 V7 l> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ) C1 d9 h( {0 q4 {9 Z
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
) H; ?* e. |" K: B> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
+ V1 U+ T6 s( z) u> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 3 d8 T4 P z# i3 ]* k1 O
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
8 x: k6 O% s5 Z+ w- k; `> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."& s" ^; S/ Z0 K3 k8 B
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 3 h* P- h/ @$ ]$ R7 o7 j4 D. A
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ; I5 k# r4 b) j+ a2 l8 J" y9 R
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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: q4 N. S% h9 c' b> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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