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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
2 ^# z4 ?& T J6 u% p. U7 Z1 @ g> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee+ \0 {2 \# W; _% S) n
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in G/ a0 g' T8 y# r
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of " r0 F9 t9 a' Z# X7 ? k
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* y4 J# m( w! ^> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front & D( J2 [9 {( E
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 8 d% `% W3 X1 |3 r$ u0 [
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
- S4 q! u4 n* J& i> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar # V3 @$ }' v5 g2 n( n+ a7 _
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between : T4 R+ B7 P7 J$ G% X; v: y
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
# _% O1 M* X% {# c/ @7 M> agreed it was.5 _* ?3 B9 ]1 ?. ?8 p
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/ Y/ M8 l1 I4 N( j> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ' L) o% ^2 h3 i6 h' A0 U( h
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
8 B# K3 E; b" Y9 K% }! U) o5 L> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."; N4 w8 o+ ~& b! h7 ~1 J+ O/ ]
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$ w/ r+ {/ ^6 O4 \! l6 ^ b/ k( [> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
& a h' R5 X: N% O( n8 U> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty # p3 |* J, d4 \; I
> space between the sand. The students laughed.' C9 v% p! O; @. r6 }9 K
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
3 ^" ^5 }2 v2 o, f4 p3 Y> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ( [4 T0 T& w. w; L4 _* Z+ ?- v" p7 Z
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
7 o1 m; w; K0 g' {6 Y> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ! D" j- O: f% W" [/ w
> remained, your life would still be full." {2 B. |7 F# T
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: ?6 a3 B, l M! ~- Z& j% n2 S> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
6 _* J( k8 m1 K+ }7 W> your car.1 T2 n1 X$ f2 Q2 q* H" a
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
% y+ K$ U1 ^8 z- q. N> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the n) E( P, M: f4 s5 C% I! r- `
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy + W$ \) y6 V% h% _9 J T
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 4 x: s/ B# J8 J& m0 a
> important to you.( ]: t6 ~' k c( \
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4 o5 f4 j/ R# G" G> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ( D' \. |) f' L" p% v
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
( `) {+ b D7 _& {1 k5 F3 @$ w n% ~> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
. q0 {0 }9 t4 l$ y1 h> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ; n# Y/ J6 r) k% }1 @
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ) k' B% [* d& r' C/ P
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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4 e# H: H$ H% ~# n5 @' R> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
: n& w9 ]! W$ o0 F: H9 }& X" m B> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."5 ~. W. ~. p* b3 {) q
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7 e; @# S8 i! L/ e3 t1 }> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
b' a0 b$ c8 z& p/ N* {> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.", Z2 N' Z5 b2 T# ` A
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( R* J1 |6 d( V5 D: U2 a) K> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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