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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
5 v9 n X) }; O/ T1 \> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee, n2 W; v/ q+ }6 f# B6 |
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front , e9 q" ?7 _/ Z$ W
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and % [8 \! @1 |6 D2 Q ?
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
6 t( R4 z+ `0 X> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.5 ]3 ^. z, u+ C4 P+ J8 E) }
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 2 t5 x& q& ]/ ?; J/ B, E9 W) X
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between % Q+ T' k% E& R
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
' j3 S' l( o' y> agreed it was.
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1 G R* l( z2 C; {: g+ a- F! l! q> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of / i" p: H. ~+ o
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar : h9 l# r" V) i0 x: S* E& l9 a. ~! o
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."# h( Y/ R3 Q. E. L5 g5 y( S
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$ T5 O: P+ `! [# {) N5 D# y2 E> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 9 d" u0 a( ?9 C' |& C! `6 b( o
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 5 X6 w9 j' X5 B' |( s
> space between the sand. The students laughed.* f, o) W9 M# w: D/ U* l
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# |% |5 A) c+ a+ X> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to # h4 e- K: G/ j( X! }
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
9 @0 @* L5 B0 a+ \; o2 N> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
4 L }1 R4 }" ~8 }3 u> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
. v. ?* L. q& }" l( ]' v: k( T> remained, your life would still be full., j/ u4 E5 q2 N7 y2 {8 b
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! z4 P9 |4 Z, W
> your car.7 r, ]% @1 F$ U* U$ F
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, y: A& g7 H( [; x+ q! U% B2 R> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
1 z/ V- R2 H2 M> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
0 R$ o( T& B {> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
! n. t! V4 v% |> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 6 o7 O1 {" j0 n; a# f, z# @% Z
> important to you.
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% r( Z3 b- B, }7 N `# A> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 2 C. {% S! v% l. A/ N% q$ q R
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 5 q# S1 T( S% i: f
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
& v* s. l4 G; W0 M& E; U; b> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and # F% O& ]! ?; f; a0 e: t
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
+ f' T3 {* n% ~; ]% t6 o; E) C+ K( l* q> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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3 F$ u5 r. N( G5 j: m> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee & k% c1 u/ N$ S7 v1 I
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 i R1 N5 }7 _' f
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, % W& {0 N' y2 f
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."+ l: E& }& W3 S" |$ ]
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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