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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
% ]3 N5 G: Q# g6 e> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in $ I; h; Y. X, v' f3 Y" d4 X* z+ C
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ( A$ y* e( G' S m q5 d
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
8 `/ ~7 f$ z5 S+ q0 F; ], f7 ~9 A> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 9 t, }" Q4 V- @4 Q8 P9 P2 `/ o& N
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.# s- e; M( B+ s' g2 w
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# p' {, U. Q S1 [2 n6 m> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
2 X; [, u( B& U! Z> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
8 `" U0 g% w- ]9 c> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 U; h, P! l$ ^: B6 t
> agreed it was.8 ^. M' ?) S8 z
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
) o- H H- |5 s* ?5 i9 H- f> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar $ C) ]( E( F8 h
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes.", R+ ~/ Y8 n( P
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ' O% ?" ]. ?0 T3 Q4 [: H9 N7 a- M
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty k3 C% e2 N C4 e" O6 g( ~4 V
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 0 A" K* p* V( E8 M+ f: f7 i8 q# p
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
2 U! m% B5 p" e> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
. N( d5 E* h" z' P> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
6 F# M$ K% O: F2 T# b q> remained, your life would still be full.& M0 g1 f8 [: `
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! @- W5 Y) D2 u# C) j$ Z
> your car.
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1 I( V2 U, f- O6 q" U/ E( D> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into : }0 c1 I3 v7 L, Q
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the # _ j2 S5 M& a. T
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
, E+ N: e/ P; P* M. J4 L% d/ \> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
- _. _( y" G8 n/ E! @. N9 A7 U> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
# I5 x/ n3 O) ]) i7 t; B! G" S5 y> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 8 i, A+ A5 g2 ]: a" c5 F
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ) b* `1 h8 G2 G( A# M. ^
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 3 C4 X8 q6 V, X' W
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
0 Z2 t9 B" I8 G* _" ~& T% R> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.") H' t- ?* x0 H
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" c/ S% p/ [7 U" Z; w, L: Q& D> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
D! {9 F3 w6 b- D> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."9 Z; f; O5 f( Q* y+ a* e: k
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