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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
6 C: Z3 U8 E3 k2 ~8 T> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee( a5 S; I8 ]7 N7 b9 Q
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in " G8 M0 C& ^. [; B* u
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 1 J- I( [% Y/ q9 Y8 H' |
> coffee.
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* X- a) k! R9 X( M6 u0 d3 A% T> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
' Y. A( R5 p$ t0 t Q5 e# E, F> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and / [% b8 {% q" c$ m
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ( k* _) W- \0 b2 h: @
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.2 e: f* Q3 e+ W( ~
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6 X/ A, _; D( l' O( M> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
+ y; Y+ ?- _3 N' D/ X' u2 k$ x> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
1 ^% k% [- L, ~/ o. p: H> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
+ m% b% y3 W* D- b. q# r- J) f6 } f$ u2 X> agreed it was.
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$ u, a( D0 Z( q9 s% V& h> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
( {: q E" I# |! [> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 6 V' @) E% L4 e% W6 `
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
: r- L7 }! [0 V/ L" [. _> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 7 [4 K0 S1 x0 i0 P
> space between the sand. The students laughed.6 }( b; ^6 W3 y
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
* i/ I) X: x6 [; c9 B7 B: A> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
m, Y6 J1 e7 G; p- u2 N% o> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends . ~$ L4 R; [8 ^$ H C
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 6 R1 V& A( w" k" B3 i3 l* j
> remained, your life would still be full." m1 ~1 ~! W% h. c2 E
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m; S& e7 `% n2 f* M* a> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
0 j! b* i( T7 l4 d( }* _> your car.6 @' q5 G0 b) p, Z4 @& k2 I
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into . O- F# Q& O: B& y
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the $ e+ B( N4 ~0 C
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ) U% _$ P- ~5 |: i7 p
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are & U' [, [4 Y- @$ S
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
3 o9 {/ a& ^. d7 g4 }> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 6 R, F9 ~8 U' Q) H# x4 Y5 ~ d3 ~
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to # U* M1 u3 |" J& x) Y" f, f
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 6 v, a+ m% O2 D8 X
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
k* k% _& @0 ^8 T6 J1 X9 k' f> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."& a3 P- L# z, T: T, t# D
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. X. ^" @4 w6 T H! a9 O1 }' ]> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ' o$ o- H0 {& a+ B+ D
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ) I5 i, b% a7 b \( [- p
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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/ l! P/ d* Y6 G2 S> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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