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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
9 S0 ?# m" j: c8 b4 C+ S> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 9 ^& H# F; j4 r
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of $ z, P8 J) V$ U* z2 w% r( \. m
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* i/ M8 Q1 E: X, z9 b2 m3 C> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front , ]6 s% R+ [" l8 n" E3 L% ^4 `! r1 F
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 1 K6 @# W/ R; w. c
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then . w1 f0 X! C% p! }% ?0 F+ t
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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9 |! u6 J: o. @5 K: D" B> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar / Y, ^+ b% k+ S" m
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
+ U7 n1 I! Q, v; w0 n% N8 v: H6 k% S> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
7 u, T5 F" z) Z> agreed it was.6 ~' Q) f0 \, Z+ ^
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of / D8 v4 Q Z r3 t
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
( a5 h6 z1 I! i: m1 ^. g4 e6 v> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."7 f! @1 G6 b, ^3 B: |% V- V/ r Y$ h
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 5 h, V0 \( @( s. L- a+ ~
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 5 \0 V& N8 S* X( |3 j( t8 u
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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6 Z+ `; v$ m4 b! v! c0 a> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
/ H3 m1 s& ~6 n6 }/ m> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ) V+ o& \* M' W! i
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
+ |5 g0 t4 m" e9 X9 H& X" e> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 2 a d- i2 g3 n9 r. V+ I5 y4 k0 J
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
$ _) z% J8 D( x! P5 W3 U/ N> your car.
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7 k& Q$ [- R2 M6 S6 U0 g' E; ^+ a> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into # g! c4 {3 _" |! a. \- t$ x
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the # D2 a; l* a. t L: j
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy + O, a- c: \( z& |
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
4 v; a, n2 ?4 k- T& s> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
1 S( K$ g& X3 F> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ' x+ v1 U+ |0 M' r5 [
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " f. ^$ X' j. Z/ q) r5 A+ O7 v
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
' o2 O% x" I+ b6 E> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
, A% C# {$ `5 {> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."2 p9 v( `6 c' M$ P
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4 ~9 Q0 J$ S: G2 H D> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee $ i* q# V; y& Q8 \3 f; u
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."0 @9 Z: V8 ?. o" K) ]. m
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 6 a( R- _ F! m% u8 |0 ?
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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