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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 4 T8 Q' N, J; t1 f3 r
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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: ]+ g1 U B1 S) a> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
/ d3 W; ` `6 r- T- b+ q" `> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ( _; G* ^; a1 Y5 C$ b
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
* l& J Z* e6 W0 z. o! [, K* C: |' D> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.$ I" O. ^3 z% Y9 s, o
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
1 B5 c' A% j8 [> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
) f8 q9 k2 b" f1 `) a> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
) v L, W/ U- Z& x" u> agreed it was.6 a$ e" F; x/ x
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 0 ]/ R7 o$ A. ^! Y
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
' S/ Y+ g% ~* n> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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; {% n4 o) s' T8 P3 p, v# `# j' b> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
/ M( a9 ~+ g+ Y8 B> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
8 Q$ X( G" N7 X5 t: o> space between the sand. The students laughed. S" _. B) s' M9 m1 z0 C1 O
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
+ w( |! l% U h> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the % x: g% h% M8 b, K7 t# ?, ?4 l# o
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ' f, R' M) P q; \: S3 _$ b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
; Y2 {8 @3 w; x- A> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and , o3 ^' N. R; N$ s
> your car.
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4 b" W$ @5 H2 r- N# F% P> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
' a" w+ Y) G+ h9 W' Q> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
, g7 V! i, {+ h, U) g> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
" m7 L; S* Q! n, `; _" l" C> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , f* _( s7 J: d3 y2 V9 ~
> important to you.2 B1 t3 f; e9 E/ [5 U/ S
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0 S; D) X: L# `, f X: h' o> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + ?& e; D5 c/ ~: R |
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
4 \6 M# v: g& g( U" a> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ f3 B1 \4 H- h9 W: |2 a
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
* K4 }7 Q7 m& i* T> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
( N! L+ f: D) n, Q) T/ H9 @' {& H> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."4 A# Q" Q; @0 V, ?' t
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee # `+ g: G2 G( o% J2 `/ C) |
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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e0 u# j: w2 W& M# t7 \> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ! B: _5 f5 Y C& Z# k( \
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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