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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
7 @1 W& I+ f4 \& K* u% }> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
: O* s* e8 b1 b5 W: v: f> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ' x9 L) f9 a9 P8 ~0 o$ [8 E
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 1 _- m# h* S7 y
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front / D% T) X& f( v' ~) @" {* {
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and : K( u" c. k4 p: x4 M: M/ G
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
+ t: v+ y( i- B> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.' r* n' l* A3 p+ A
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- T; [ W7 U7 ~9 L0 i# N+ j; U> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
% }9 e6 h6 c& ~3 U% Q, }* U> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 3 C0 k2 Q8 D- D" }$ q% R2 [
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 8 p1 o( c0 i- V( r- c( ^4 W
> agreed it was.. F: S0 Y" n7 l. v, A, @5 x" [# ^
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of * L+ g4 _1 S$ i
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar $ S% w8 a4 Q/ S
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."; X( C# L/ a. R; T( o0 F
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 0 Q+ \+ [6 f: k0 m+ r
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 1 t, K, ]4 s3 u1 o `9 F, Z7 B
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 6 k7 E0 h. N- y: x
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 6 x" Q. e0 f# X( H7 O) Y" O
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
8 q0 S6 t: C% [2 ^1 t. k8 V> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they % @6 `4 w0 [+ I& l7 a& f: P* _
> remained, your life would still be full.5 T: p$ {/ ]5 j2 w1 l
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and # ^: u7 M5 B. Q, A
> your car.
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% t9 ]$ i- S2 z) K. Y> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
, n, Y/ \% U, d> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 7 w3 ]& |" L* m( A- G7 z! Z$ v( J
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 k" J* l! x/ _8 A W+ e' v/ H> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ) [) L! i" D0 R8 y( d& P5 U) v7 u
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
# }! e" ~( ^7 p- f# J c> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
( A7 @( d; I: C9 [> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to + i# O5 q3 m* s3 J: D
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
" J+ q1 ~9 M8 L6 }$ x> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
+ H* Z2 F8 {$ f' ^, X* [& ? z> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
8 M+ _- e/ A9 j6 P4 U/ \ G/ d> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."* [! H2 y( l2 P: C% o
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ' T) [3 A* K- |- x, [% {
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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) b. [- A$ N8 o. k6 W3 X' N> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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