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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee/ ` y: H( G7 b) N5 Y2 J1 J
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
) z8 t! Y3 t! U> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 3 A5 T) d1 m$ i( t P8 f
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 2 ], n6 Q/ \. n k7 [$ s- t! H
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 3 _% y9 z. e2 f; Z9 L+ C7 u
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
0 ?3 w' S+ k4 m; q> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: T3 e/ o5 }# J2 ~
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ! }! M8 E5 {( p4 _0 z! S
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
3 Q+ M/ A' j" I+ m> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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' V4 M" a; J5 O9 u4 K q0 ]> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of / X, Q; j5 ^4 ?1 _0 ?, u
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
& B# I3 V- U. I" w> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ; H$ @4 V9 Z/ j, o
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ' t' ?7 v6 V9 m" ~+ Y
> space between the sand. The students laughed.4 `0 W% a# N+ v
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
' |, D$ w4 D7 N7 ~# y) e9 p- R> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
& Q- O( m' j( h4 N/ s" h> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 9 V. L# h6 h7 f7 b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they & z' @: W4 U3 {
> remained, your life would still be full.
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& c. x, }/ @( |5 c> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 2 M9 y/ i; S: Q
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 4 n. ?! e3 v) X& }
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
+ s) ~) s" r3 R3 t> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ; p$ Z" b8 v3 h$ j8 P3 Q8 c
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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2 a! Q2 H6 E& s9 H> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend $ F! Z: y y; \; q1 V5 F' L
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ f: {$ \" g; v> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 4 H* Q" I, w! v
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
0 f( u x9 y; ~, R' c/ i> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
! e4 B( L) U @( q. M- D% i> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."' y, x' k$ P* S! X, D7 H
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
5 o, Q3 b* J4 ]) A$ x> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.". p# K( c7 b8 X( s0 G1 e4 @
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" r1 X) G: t. V7 Y/ N! V% [' W> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 2 |% ^1 M3 x. |$ y* b
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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