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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
2 c% f% v! X4 }2 R$ D0 \" S! @> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
# W2 K3 p: T* I* e' j! C+ }> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 4 f6 y8 D# ^6 g: z' b
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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! d* @2 w6 m- P3 ?1 H6 e: s& T> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
$ g: ~$ M: W8 t& Q7 E, A- f# Y6 A) j> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 0 T- t* t; y$ o3 h0 B
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
8 N& P8 D! k7 c( y> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.8 H% n: D7 W5 i2 p
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 H- P. ?( J# H( q9 l% m% t
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
$ q5 { q4 Y8 z& c+ ]4 C2 u* y. y> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 8 r9 F! t, ^& R) J _" o
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
/ H Y* d8 }& D+ V: |. ?> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar % i! E* G4 f9 D7 ~' V
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 i1 O8 i, ]: e2 Q2 X+ i! a( X% r
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; r. I2 f& O, \ I! V- Z> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and * U2 f" G2 @! p9 f! C k9 j
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ' W& ^: r1 H1 a% L6 u
> space between the sand. The students laughed., ^$ w/ I& q* l2 ^5 u M
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# R1 e1 G$ ]6 C> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to : t- K# q. ]/ C; V
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the / @4 }7 a: ?$ K- R) h/ Y
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ( T5 b; r' b- ^; ]
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
4 E9 ~6 @2 ^6 C7 v> remained, your life would still be full.( U. y$ e3 H+ C% x! F+ }1 d
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2 C8 }& ~; F5 c$ {% [ V: ~> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
# g- X/ [: X6 J' }4 K> your car.% m/ X2 u& ?0 a7 m4 e ]# }5 s F
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o3 I2 I @" j& D. l! x> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
+ K6 Q* D4 ^- H5 m4 A5 R> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
& h1 [0 N& M/ a% X; _2 Z' c; f> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy * i- Z1 x0 N1 Q Z8 F: o7 a
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend - y9 ~' m' E( k, ~1 ?% L
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 6 z/ f* P; C/ n- u: V+ M
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " N/ |9 V3 k4 F/ O9 y3 z5 Y' c' @
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 7 {. t: C9 S2 l
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
; _8 y* v, T0 c7 X2 F> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."4 r) s5 Q6 y: x6 W0 f
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6 c# U: b K K> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
( z7 L, e1 U7 d6 H" Q' H> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."0 o' I5 K: c0 U" f6 V& Q6 w
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% _1 J9 M5 R, e> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 4 m) p# E6 k) G( O; X( ]9 v5 V
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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