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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。( K. f! q( s. d
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
4 H, V: s4 s" f7 G: L% m> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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: ?+ R9 p1 Q/ O- o% h K> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 5 D0 q2 j& Z' W8 b& P; V5 Q
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and v, Z$ A- y+ ]7 J% b6 ~
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 5 T$ }6 k+ v! w+ @5 |
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.5 [3 j4 l l5 `$ C: R/ f/ s+ s4 Z4 e
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 4 U* i8 u6 s3 Q: y
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between " w: X1 _2 Q# w% @4 l% o7 V5 y
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
* N, S K1 d& \4 a. m6 \5 Y! p: n> agreed it was.. g C o; K3 m' w m6 V- o
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 1 o$ C5 \# j+ f3 y
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
, g( l2 q# [# w. n, m> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."( ~$ ~: ^3 k9 ^( l$ f
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, E; z- C7 C% n7 ]+ g9 D8 J7 }: A> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and , I1 W! [, e X' l7 ?6 N5 o5 n
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
0 H n- {, c J> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
* H$ B9 S7 C- h! h9 H$ I> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
9 E0 r3 \( U# X5 k> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 4 l- v: W# U {
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% n% w$ x. e8 _0 B4 s/ w> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
* G# G7 @1 X9 K> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 8 `+ J. u$ |! `1 T
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the % P8 _4 i& F# J& i- w
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
4 m1 H9 q+ V+ [/ a> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 1 n: h0 i/ } U' m1 @1 k8 C
> important to you.
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: r/ {9 d/ g0 Y. U$ W> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
9 K5 h5 q e" [; e' U6 n! D> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 5 B, |" R9 t3 E8 S/ a& h8 J
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to ; ]% f. ~6 F0 s4 N
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 3 e: y) M* T" o( C5 I2 x8 F0 r
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that / |" p. H. e! U% w/ |" ~& _0 D4 O) b
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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: H4 y. Q) K }. \8 N> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ( g2 v0 ?/ t" N4 H& D; U
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 7 N' j7 Z" M* Z' S. K. a# n
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."1 R& V" L1 ?( ^- ]% S
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+ |- F; g7 ]& W3 i- A. y> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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