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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
- L( s, R# K% `8 T, i> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
, B0 m0 G# m0 P+ Y> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
4 T. X' _. T4 @6 v> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
1 n5 O4 {- O' l i1 T> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ; d- C: t9 L/ A E
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
% n* s( g, L6 m1 `6 S6 d6 {0 @> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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7 x' k0 h5 I. i: q" O, }1 w3 V> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar / z7 M& Z6 z5 ^4 b$ P
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between d# ^+ d4 B' \( T! z2 J9 B
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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( O; u3 H% y$ \! V0 i! r# ~& U6 z> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + K# b7 K& ~4 c' [ r5 k9 V# m
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
& |8 V" A) g: G# s> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and I3 S# ?. O$ K( L& i
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
; t$ ~" x& C2 J9 Z; ~7 y> space between the sand. The students laughed./ y7 p( |. Z; q3 y8 y/ A
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& |0 V! x. E( y8 S& X/ S> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 7 E& Z' L+ f8 Q( a
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 5 U! a6 ^" q. |' [- Q. ]+ ]
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
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> remained, your life would still be full.$ W1 N7 h+ J5 \* X' M7 A
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
Z5 I9 I( l3 w1 S> your car.
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5 H) f8 x" b* }% Y9 J, ?8 m- D" S> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ! b6 _2 ~; }) X
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
2 k( u( ]: k1 } j# |! Y: V; G5 U> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 2 y' Z# y! |3 Q7 z% h
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ' o+ ?/ D5 l% D% `9 l. w
> important to you.+ H# B) \' g! @7 O: ]4 F8 \3 e- d8 |
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ; W6 \* L0 {3 `, Q
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
, L+ F* `& `( X, G> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to # x4 W6 l9 |9 z4 A+ `( V9 c+ T' O
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and + p; t( {; E. @+ z# a3 E3 L
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that : d/ l) T5 | o" ^3 q
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."$ {% q, R# d3 ^
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7 e( j% w2 q/ n$ z) H! n> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ! C7 @; y' V; ~8 H& _9 q
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."6 Z7 t4 d, k9 O7 W
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 0 A9 Z3 |$ I% u% G3 g6 |' Q9 c" ~
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."5 F4 g9 ]4 F# v- Y$ b
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