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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
9 w9 \& b/ W: F7 ~, [5 T/ t> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in * f$ G3 Y, I: d% L% M
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 8 y( I- _# l5 g+ u" u; ~
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+ q: h% h* C% m& l3 p; e' F3 D> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front $ N+ x: u, r$ u, l* ~7 F* @0 ?
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 1 \' p/ M8 g! a. K6 ]/ W: d; \
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
" L+ m' B1 O2 L0 c> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
: O' ^6 G( D* k: Z- k% B> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between - s% M2 q4 [/ H$ g! R3 T# ]5 ?" o' ?
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 2 Z' ]; r0 {: {/ o2 c; t- X" A. i
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 5 [1 e; @( H% h* N# D
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
% B( e5 d, V- U$ j9 c9 p) `# ^> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
5 P1 C2 o- S) D. f0 j x& I> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
6 m" w' `( m' c7 T> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 7 ]+ `! u7 g3 f$ s
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
3 N+ }5 Q% F& s' ~7 l, o: l2 J> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends / J4 e/ H- R/ d7 ^# r( y# F
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they - V; c* w8 z- h6 |6 \8 o& N
> remained, your life would still be full.
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2 Z$ r1 N, ^9 ?) Y1 _> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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+ t6 w9 H- b$ z5 N- Z> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
4 r7 j( N" y7 z3 ?% K2 p! G> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the % n" ?+ L& ^7 \' \
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy , G+ A: k( _2 @! m- N5 a; s$ N
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
: ?! q2 i* v$ K Q/ A' U> important to you.
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4 o- O9 S: W9 ~8 N$ `' P> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend * |! q9 g/ @3 p5 H" h# W
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ l9 H* ~7 L6 ?0 q, T& G> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
$ k: L! B9 E! K, e4 @- x6 A$ S> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ; m9 d/ e" q- [4 k. X7 s+ a. z
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 4 J# U$ X) X, j, v' Z
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand." H3 l% P+ G6 ^8 ?+ |) U# F
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/ f1 C8 V; K a8 Q2 Y$ X1 H8 n; u> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
+ a: W- w8 K; j) S9 K- b> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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" S" C% d- c, w' K) i- g/ M> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
6 e+ x5 ~# U+ {> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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