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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
# _8 t$ a+ d+ p> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
" v. j- A9 v0 {/ c5 v( N> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
& P/ ?3 `/ B$ A0 f" r6 c> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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+ K+ S2 c& {& I. a# X/ s( @> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
7 K+ Y8 P8 y% f> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 7 {, l5 T2 n$ o+ U
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
+ P* e0 e, X+ h% Z> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.) l4 Y$ }8 g) i3 |: m) G
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 7 r9 `6 X0 V" U* C& S0 k& g
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
, B( `; G' q) ]> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
+ @- a8 }/ P8 N1 C% {' P> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
+ p+ _: q9 b4 O& C> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 2 @; V. h9 f; t/ R R" f
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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7 C. q ?5 y7 R/ l* H> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
) A4 ^3 X5 t0 i8 c6 \ J% v# b> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
9 a, a8 {( { N# c% @5 V> space between the sand. The students laughed.2 z8 x9 _! G5 ^9 b
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7 g# J4 z" r; u9 m3 ^( {> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
- d6 H( V& G5 {, v& [- @> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
: ~+ B3 j. @, b6 U$ S> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 3 X3 s5 d/ L) K
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% s9 a: n8 Y3 M7 G$ h> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and $ I, _0 x- Y& N# G& k
> your car.
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8 B9 |6 ]$ ^* _+ p> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
3 ^% X( E. \- _ V1 a% w" N8 F> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
+ {6 _/ i$ G9 ?7 W7 |> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 2 |4 s( z6 D* a( l& I# E' b) [6 _
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 1 e4 j' F1 N/ u+ @+ M; W
> important to you.% W/ \4 P% R6 Q; G* U3 ~
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend & n8 C5 E- A9 L" P( A# b
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
0 t/ V7 L, I" t0 F9 q* u! [> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 7 U. C0 I- I6 Y% L$ B$ D+ [- y
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 0 F: S3 g6 ~. s& u2 p3 _7 ^5 w
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 4 G! ^) [+ [2 E9 T5 Y* ]
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."& ?- |( |* N$ s$ @5 o: f% S, u
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee / R% |+ v6 B! h& X7 j% M
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."" D% j% G- ?1 t) Q7 D8 E
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- ~2 t7 |1 `% S1 J: V> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, - u* @0 o. |# }
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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/ \3 h; n7 m: }> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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