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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
/ Z, I' ^6 j" c6 Y7 o) _# C> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
* }7 @- l+ b5 Z" m! u> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 1 G9 f: Y" X t/ H
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front / c2 d+ Z1 ?7 d3 H3 _* @$ K
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 9 O- f1 q% ?/ P, M9 ]' E W! K
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
( `2 u$ ^7 R0 D. J> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.; ]4 W0 H) |' Q* }9 D: j( w$ k
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1 y' k: F4 |9 v& s; ^+ h5 c/ {> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar : e1 V* @) E" U6 z% l5 `9 K
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
e8 O/ h& C4 |# {$ B* R) ~> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 5 e$ y) r& Z+ T8 E1 l
> agreed it was. \0 v4 j, y* R
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8 z c1 S7 G8 _& {, [> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
. \! y: N8 m" Y" f/ c9 Z> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
- o/ j8 d* t; C; V* Y& d> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 d4 K- d. T9 q/ u7 E. x
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# y9 Y$ N% O) c$ S8 g) {" _ _> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + h' [; M8 B4 y9 s
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 5 ~; t" C" E5 X
> space between the sand. The students laughed.2 G& l# ?: X! Y2 q0 z$ W1 o
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to # `" z8 C* C) w8 J2 W4 A
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
9 ]4 W3 ^- b' |- N: g> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 3 b# [/ c2 f# n9 G
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they . v+ F! A, P A) P
> remained, your life would still be full.( Q& w: Z2 [' N* s$ u
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' I% n/ u0 U& e) e! A i5 J B# H> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
4 F. v# {- |2 ]- b: S" t> your car.7 s/ l. l1 W8 _8 {
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
6 [ b$ ?1 j( ^4 W9 `> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the & G7 n' E+ b1 E0 r
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
( t$ K) x" r( V+ F. J2 f+ |> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ]+ [/ b) R( T8 @1 n
> important to you.
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2 ^# M+ ]; {0 T> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend $ ?; `$ Z# I* b; q/ }9 z
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
; t9 x) |9 z" R> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 5 {3 r+ W/ m2 M7 T
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and : d3 {7 @8 C% F% C1 X) q7 H
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
' s& E4 a5 n- e4 E0 p# s1 M! _> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.") g" G& L/ u* ^: E( U* i
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1 C# ?% W% _5 V3 E" O4 s> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 1 ~. _8 Q, E+ y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 a8 O8 ]! j+ M- Q
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
" o3 E0 p+ ~2 ~# L! x> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."- z7 K* q9 G. W9 o) G
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0 I+ j- ?" @0 G1 S- @% v> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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