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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
+ N: t4 V& Q c; u5 O" d ~! g> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
1 ~' K& E: v. C& q+ U> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of - D) \7 p; n7 r W& O
> coffee.
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: X a) ~ m9 v5 s9 I- z$ A> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front * q: ^( t- C& B G
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 3 S7 R5 e2 e& U* w6 p: v( W
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then $ a! K) g5 Q* `0 K
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.7 d; C- M6 E4 ^" W! R* C3 L* }
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& q) P# L2 q, `, E. A/ |) y> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ) `9 P# H) p! L3 X/ X
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 5 x% Q4 Y& m8 f" I
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 0 Q" H. B# g8 I. P( c" c1 i/ @/ L
> agreed it was.
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' P% O) a* x) F: }, G; _1 ?> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
. v. n. }7 y& L* R f( N5 ~> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 2 R. }! B9 o+ L/ Q) @
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ?4 [' z) Z _' w( u" }* G" H
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
H* [- D+ f% V& S> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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# c7 S2 L" f" L0 g9 t5 X: Y> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to . W/ X H; w% t5 ~( p2 z7 x7 _
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
) `3 G4 f% l" V> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends # W! r" H6 T9 \4 R
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
4 w; L0 d& ?, @( |) z! l> remained, your life would still be full.
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6 j/ r8 Y" g4 d2 }* ^# \1 F> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
/ B: |, M; i& z& o1 U> your car.
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6 a! V1 B _5 K6 F+ O> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ) V; r3 T Q! _- c7 w8 \) `
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 2 c" U. D2 {+ t3 ]" P; A( K/ u
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
! l! K, ?- p, i3 j> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
$ `8 {! z& m$ c1 [4 ^6 G> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend $ \5 a- @, _5 ^% J- k5 \6 f
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with * o9 q1 t4 l: d( M W
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 5 ~' A( W5 V0 C1 `2 c9 B- v6 M6 I3 Q- S
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and : y% V3 }3 N; b% M2 Z, ^; u/ j+ c
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
. M" a# U: w) N: _# n7 c# \. ^. p> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."- Q" y# v9 q% @+ a
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$ {; B- m" ?% X: U' j* E$ I> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee . d& E, z# E' w( A( y; ^6 I+ m
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."- O2 }; W) x( J, C8 W% U D( K
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9 x5 @8 }% o* Y, s* O> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
: i+ p' v+ d5 ?2 P. ]- U/ W> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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