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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
# E2 P+ R- P, P> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee: H1 A, ]& v7 \& R4 j8 _: h( M
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in * p1 h7 x: f. \, {) c
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
/ _( Y$ v. r( Q+ [4 n0 o> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) n4 G# [3 u3 n2 I2 z0 X5 Z
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 3 D4 r3 H% e# M- ^8 c& `
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was., O' L+ u" f: m" @/ G
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
' Y8 f% u4 A$ \4 f: O6 u1 Z& ~> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
. ?8 u O- ]! I& N: ?4 T> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
7 _4 w( n% d! y6 \4 X9 _6 |> agreed it was.
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3 z6 F/ V* P6 R8 l0 _- D2 J5 r> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
! p$ I$ r1 h7 b% @+ f" _- H! t> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
& c, x+ |' J4 y1 |> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 7 D/ X, O/ m& D6 e5 |* C! [6 }
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
/ S H9 y/ @% Q- ]0 K* o: U# {> space between the sand. The students laughed.6 K3 \6 f$ N9 ]
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: o! ~- U" m' l ]+ _8 n> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) G- e0 f* ~2 g X: h
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
, w6 o" t# a9 V+ J1 ^0 P/ e- b> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
% L2 i v* e% \. z7 M9 i> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 0 o1 ]+ y2 p$ B
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! w, f' Q+ k- |. j, Y. \0 E: k' }5 Y4 w) k
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ' r$ }6 Y7 m# n7 E$ `
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the . K7 m6 o6 i5 x* f: l- D, w
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 r1 S& n; E- O' V0 y2 R- n, c> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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1 I' K# k f* m4 V> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 4 m+ C+ d! [3 D) o4 d6 B- x$ V
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 9 W6 b% ]) R, M9 F$ O3 p6 ^
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ {* g. A! X, _8 n5 v
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and $ _; t, t# s5 X0 q5 \) o, L
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
2 H" [$ S p) n1 u0 S. H( {, V> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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1 ^, S5 h$ Q5 P: P, C> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
2 y9 U5 W: ^: |0 y. d5 T7 Q5 ^! u> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
! K+ H- n4 O. f> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."* h- l, L. |" Q) y
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