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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。( G, A: B! d* W
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee" H# W; x: G H& r U, X9 U
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
2 J, c8 n% k& T7 Z* Z h6 u> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 6 }( [: t5 ^% Q+ n& D1 \0 o
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 0 ^) X/ u; m/ S0 G0 K4 \
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
W! O; Y6 p% D1 X2 Z) x' z6 K> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then & M9 p. C) n, u, a3 n1 |0 f9 n! y
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.( x a F- k6 k7 l9 |" S
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1 d: ]4 w2 F6 P# M( c5 L> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
$ T P: u2 b/ z% Q> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
3 I& l( R$ k' G) m! D* _4 K> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They Y5 \1 d# l( i) I( A. q5 C
> agreed it was.
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$ g2 J% Y) B* a( ]> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ( ?$ @; T1 U) k* X3 y# {
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar * G1 H2 A) S3 U) m
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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' g' z3 `0 h$ c# v, _% a+ c> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + ~. ?' B7 {+ y) L L
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
/ w2 S3 F% Y/ W) u( v" _3 L> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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9 Y; O# y) j& Q% P8 c> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
9 u( v6 t( e; N9 G1 D> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
# i0 w. q7 N# O L3 x> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
. L3 Q0 [ C9 b! D' S> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
8 ~2 }" j+ B6 O( M$ J, T$ y> remained, your life would still be full.
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! |( ]. N3 `7 e6 l1 |> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and % {! v* Q& B1 O3 h: S# X
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' {0 a+ P$ C! P3 B- e) d% }> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 5 Q. s4 L9 _: ^2 @. W
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - Q9 K: u; [* `) J
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
4 r# J2 K8 s: H' y0 b> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
& \9 t! Y- Y! c! g> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
9 Q' S4 [2 y/ U' Z> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with / _; y' b6 A* r
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
8 F6 y9 H0 B% y> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ; { `3 h/ m* J @1 x
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 5 d; a0 L% T, l$ K! O+ `( n
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."5 Z: a7 C% y7 U5 R% Z; K# a4 a
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee # N/ E) y4 P' w" t. B0 r) Z( i& |
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."; A9 H p" `' N; q4 O
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
, P0 N8 o9 B* o- }> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."7 z) D, S/ w0 u- h% ]/ h* _) Y
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# `) O# z+ ?0 S3 t> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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