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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
6 T. S/ q" y4 L0 ~9 v> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
6 N6 a7 b3 u+ o$ b/ u* f> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
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" {' e! ~. K3 @& q> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then - i; Z+ r8 B5 C4 x6 H3 h6 s$ R( d
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.( A& d( Q8 K4 r( ~
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 T+ k. O: F& i5 `8 _- @$ \9 v, |: r7 T4 _
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between S/ `6 ^! q1 ~1 r6 m V4 ^% @$ A
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ( p( U' K: x) I0 ^& h9 p
> agreed it was.* w: @; C2 v/ N- D5 F2 U" S
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ) R) V' _9 z, R1 J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar + k4 j$ X, W: _6 D
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and , @) |8 x7 h5 ~6 y
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
& f' ? k1 l) D7 a0 j+ ]. ^> space between the sand. The students laughed.$ w$ k- W0 r& _$ y6 \
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
* F' k4 \3 L. Z, I6 J> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the % E+ Z' L5 ~" B; R( z4 N) G p
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
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> remained, your life would still be full.: s- s" [. x# K* J! q
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, X3 @8 o. W( z9 I> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and - q. X( a" G! ^8 y5 b3 Z& p. s7 Q
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 3 \, W+ s, ~5 Q6 q9 ~/ y
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
" x. g: I6 b* V' m7 p# U7 m h> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
0 ~. n$ L3 }' S/ Z6 {> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
& z5 {. i. m9 Y. x9 M) n: |0 H> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with % Z, U$ ~6 Z8 X
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 0 U4 _5 h% j7 l9 s* y g
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
0 A! [6 T; y3 {> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that " ?! Q+ Z$ b2 Z! y
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."+ d6 V( d; n: _, e7 D4 s/ k! h) ~
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
* k: }2 c1 ^0 M> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 1 V" t- ^2 M$ J, f( J( A7 c
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."6 T% Q) M. W6 j6 c' g
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