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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。4 s( Y( C' T3 f8 R
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee6 r- N0 @- O, ?* |
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 4 a/ c5 L- K$ u; k }" _/ X
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 6 d$ ?+ w) o+ \: v& }3 M, ]
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and . i8 l, N0 o w9 S# d
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
" P2 j5 J( H, E+ O> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.4 x$ J5 B3 Y7 N( Q/ x4 f' j
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" F& g. _" j# M! ]> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar # Z5 b" n/ {: _! i
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
+ G) u& b' \) h' b" A s7 ^) ]> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ' J# @1 G, I7 u9 Q# D
> agreed it was." g/ d! F. S& O" j+ Y) X
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
4 K' H0 t7 q0 J, Z( M# ~> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
( z$ V. V) n- _( H( s v> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ( y2 d/ A b0 {
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty : h5 L9 d7 h e4 Y
> space between the sand. The students laughed.% K% I/ r; d2 E4 q4 E* P
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5 C+ p3 P. [, [/ y" s. h> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to % b6 g2 W7 u# X0 V
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 1 a1 {2 j$ S6 \) S& f
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends # k1 ?) X6 A, }# d3 w# q) Y" B: p
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
# Z! g. k! |" @/ }5 W: H+ C' X> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 0 J, z1 B) L# O5 F! r
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 4 E8 k7 W0 W4 H" U& }, a5 g+ U7 F
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 t: h& h) d; w( n> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + P( m2 H- }/ L2 C
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
0 z) I4 W1 J& E' N/ C: S/ v/ P> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
' v6 b @2 i; E1 s0 O& P6 y> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 6 f9 ?. H" I# h) F+ F; T7 H* q
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 7 S& L( d7 B: M9 S/ c7 _) E# e
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
o' H+ j4 S* A( N2 x, N> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
% y/ W" K9 A% J' f( A> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."8 X% A7 h! M1 M2 S% ?0 A
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