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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。; ?1 ^: O7 X6 x& \' F& d. @
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
, c5 L- Y' T6 J6 F/ R/ C: b> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in - X. Q$ f$ ^; k5 x& Q0 V
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 7 n$ k) ~# t9 D4 L+ ?/ I
> coffee.
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5 ^/ N- d8 C7 @( M> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ! I% \) ]" e0 y
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ( {9 E. J& X* {6 Q# b& W
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
& P- \; t6 n" ~4 a0 S6 A5 \, \> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.. T5 _& l4 e% D4 K# G( {! ?
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
3 N- w. v: d5 S# `> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ; p1 h3 }( P* V& ^& I
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( l7 D2 q* c( F5 W8 o> agreed it was.! M8 V5 R$ u4 v/ p* L ~
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R& r7 T5 M& o0 \- Z; n( {> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + |7 O [3 V3 U) s* P$ N! U
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
' P* y, m) A5 c' [' U2 }9 N4 a> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
9 g/ @9 ?, ]) @7 q j0 u> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
2 o; b! u+ E2 L6 R0 M3 i% q> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 2 s3 `' p4 [$ X
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the " a6 ? G: ]0 P
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends - { \8 v9 O- n0 `3 S1 Q
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 9 U% U" K a7 |1 }: d8 i
> remained, your life would still be full./ Q# W* @9 {3 T# S
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
& o2 [0 \* h0 x5 Y: O" t> your car.$ ^5 U6 T- h ~ B/ a! C
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P% ]% W1 B6 _9 Y9 I; U> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into " ]5 K$ z$ ^/ U# O( _* r$ _( r
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
. P0 u+ t( l6 J8 r) F3 _& ?2 ?> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 w5 ]' S: {2 T5 @4 o/ D7 w+ X> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ! H L8 m5 P& e
> important to you.
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1 ?/ u3 @1 X4 u1 ^0 C" O# V> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 5 O# v2 h, y5 A' Y' S& V
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 0 v; O/ M: M1 z
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
0 o, ^- y# s, x: N: g. l+ U> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
. x0 P/ P% D. g- d- L& S> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
% C8 B' w& |7 H; r$ ?# n> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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! [6 ^3 \0 }0 ^: p> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee - o4 z f) m3 z, p3 O
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, # a0 ]3 L( V" e
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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' F* V% }2 r5 c# s6 w( Q> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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