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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
3 q2 Q6 K5 f$ l2 ?9 p> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
1 U- ]8 \' a' a. R6 W> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
* C! f0 O! w0 P> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of % W# b6 T4 E5 O4 B% z* F3 r. z4 @
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6 x6 }+ Q- h! L# _$ R> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front , P# i# y# C* n1 }$ S6 z0 t
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and % t E% f+ a! y
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then % h u/ L: G8 A# r8 r# j4 d8 Z
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.; L1 W4 E- U) s( Q' n
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. [0 N) y0 m6 O( f4 `& f> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ' N1 r& a( t% @8 {0 P- L/ b
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
4 w# e- {* L( [+ t" A! b& {, h) H9 R> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
, R# g3 m! e" G6 N" l- s> agreed it was.
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, b8 |8 j0 a4 i( y' D> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of # L+ R! T' d/ Y& k, v+ k
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar - E1 O; N3 i* ]- _, L
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
5 d7 m5 _, d. }" U& d> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 ?% E6 _* b1 W8 m5 c. C
> space between the sand. The students laughed.8 u0 t" j, v% a4 P2 z# Z: X* [
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
/ m, Z0 U: d8 k' p7 @> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the . D* B( }$ }( w' [" m7 k
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends & G9 y8 L/ O- F
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they : C7 T+ o* ?- p' v5 C
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and , W- {! y% ]* r
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into / _% I6 O7 U' ^+ L) {2 N5 ~
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - F* @0 s; o. x0 N0 {
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
& X1 L& P2 @" x5 H5 J> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 0 i) x" k, L) v, c9 ]% V7 I1 v
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9 o- t6 }/ Z2 d$ v> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend , b7 q/ A( S( _5 @
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with / ~1 R; R+ p9 m% d9 @$ T: e* y8 A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 9 } o, m, U$ ^) P) Z* |- V
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
7 v, {8 c' K& y5 O3 Z% M> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
( ]: ^' W+ B7 o3 w( ], R> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."; F0 r+ F, u4 z; P
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee $ J. J- T1 C5 z2 n( K
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."# g9 c! {& l6 a8 K
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, # a. T% Z$ J: a9 t8 q& {; h. \; d
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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! S3 A, [0 A, Q8 b4 r> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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