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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。* C$ y" z/ }$ o" a$ G
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee, J" g& E( p, g: M9 r: y
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in " w( T- C$ A D+ ?- j: l% g8 c
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
4 T2 E. ?2 ~1 M6 e6 ?> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
+ P: T2 d; i) ]6 i4 J> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then $ k2 u. {" g$ C5 Y; H% z
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar , r2 P" p( N* n) z) V) o
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ! N: J7 m% j$ z9 Z1 F4 N& G3 y
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
# a a, i$ C! k; P3 ]; C> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of & S/ r. j1 h( a/ c# [/ _
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 8 F# \" j) c$ t( V
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."% ^" O9 m+ l! P1 u
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + P, j4 | \( K- k2 g* F
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 M; ]" P; N3 H
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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( b, X- v3 I7 f1 Y! a0 U" d4 ^ c> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
$ |% V( z9 V! x. |> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the u+ ^' I5 i% L: P A. Z# {0 w
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ) N9 s0 a* X+ R0 O3 u4 C# z0 W1 q; T8 x
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ) J& ~9 ^; ^" L
> remained, your life would still be full.0 Y. T7 }" s" n M
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+ l4 O: U8 Y3 F4 s% O& @. N> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and # E, m- F3 H( p$ m
> your car.
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' f4 K/ _) }6 S! \ ]$ d> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % p8 W8 T) m! ?7 |
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
2 u7 H, A0 e6 q' R8 V) o> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ( i2 q/ ~/ k6 }: u# J* P
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 5 d c0 Y- _' G# Z
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
$ o4 B- u d$ E" u! ?> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ! v: a& v/ p1 F! t$ G
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
: D7 }6 J9 g: [/ |> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and / b) f; K; T# n+ z/ h; N; C
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
3 p! i& `) \3 ?$ T- S% B> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."1 r8 `- n! `0 v1 ?& ]( d' a. h
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ) R; R1 y5 f$ h; o- f" y, K! |- g" {' }8 G
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."5 d6 F8 W& `1 e
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1 g: X) e0 G$ f; S+ P3 u> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : i( ~# c4 z2 z& \, p I
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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