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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
. x- b! q+ z4 ~+ R) Y9 E2 w> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee3 l3 f9 n/ F9 U4 {% s% t7 n
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
# j0 U2 c( A5 W> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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6 j% x* Y/ d* G> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front % h" ] ]+ O5 K% \- E T
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " t j0 k. D3 e# _
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 6 j' U/ Y6 N, I+ `
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.+ [* T d4 K( E8 F+ G; `
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar : f3 \9 _1 N6 d9 v$ ]
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
! ~( n, \7 w1 |> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
m3 p2 p+ J6 N2 s> agreed it was.
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) f8 P4 W$ R! y+ o> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of * k4 w8 p/ Q y: \9 g
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ! D6 d5 o- a* M. \+ j: u8 I
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 T; D/ O& V9 Y8 {7 P9 Q
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ' w! N, O6 J8 X& S! w4 h: s3 j5 w# ^
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
: n# Q' K/ _- }+ K5 y> space between the sand. The students laughed.9 m2 W+ D2 T3 Y0 l4 G
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
9 {+ N; `) J1 c4 Z, S! ]> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the - \) x- l! ~, S1 f
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
, o# d7 t$ R7 x7 ]> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
; h! c# D V4 R+ U7 v> remained, your life would still be full.) B; o7 q8 r& `1 L
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, T# k& M5 d0 F$ W> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
$ Z' ]! P! p$ c$ u) `6 _> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
" J3 D6 `+ l; K/ w0 n$ v> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
0 m9 ^* x, [1 L, p# B* J> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
) A3 U( i8 J4 N& \> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 3 L' r* F$ O' |5 f8 F
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
3 E# d' T/ p! w! {/ A3 N+ m> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with . @, k: F, x& F
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to - ]' I$ u/ N- W# f) ~8 V
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and % A8 X H4 }! W$ W
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
, u+ ^1 R0 q) U8 |8 n6 ?9 N8 n5 A> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee + w$ h: E- ^6 I) S$ I- z0 Q
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."7 a T" b9 V7 Q
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
; T0 n8 @5 N' M> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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* u* X3 X3 K# y x6 Q$ u> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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