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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。. Z, W$ N9 q# S
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
9 {& n* g( r/ a> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
. p8 {+ p- j" s, ], i% ~) a> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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4 r# E; X/ I) [: |" \# [> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 5 r# A2 O3 l* y Q/ n& P
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 9 C1 G! e2 `+ H$ ?2 v
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then . ?% l$ W- p8 M8 d9 `: w
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.& R+ M8 g1 p3 }8 K( E, o
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar - E% C% {, m1 W' c
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
( ~- k9 F9 Z0 o3 t% n( Q> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
% t1 J5 @* S) u% U( W8 y$ O) f> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 6 a" e) v8 D1 F" Z' V7 p$ b
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."4 T( ~+ x+ g5 m
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+ g5 U' ~# L: C. ]8 T> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
9 J6 r% h! ~1 l( V6 l3 p> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty / p L p% @ Y7 y/ h
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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6 z' h' w: {% l1 L! k! F3 O: t> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
8 G2 n1 D" {4 i# ^> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
; _/ W6 d# V/ @( ^/ n6 p9 x6 V> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
6 d6 v$ l$ F" t# j& r$ M) ]* v> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
. n# E7 M7 J6 |. [& |# j> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into # S. ]% Q0 z E; ?' _8 L
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
6 e5 s$ O N7 V0 r! Z> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
: r7 g! b5 T; o) Q3 Q8 G8 m> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ( ~ w- t8 |" T' D
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
7 P- H+ q4 {1 |. I> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 2 r2 a7 h3 ~' Q* v! H$ k
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
! _4 S8 O6 D" u' ~+ e T# e s6 \> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
' q( X, \8 Y6 w& T7 H, w> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 4 q# Q) g2 s% \4 d+ S
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."+ T+ ~ S9 Z$ q+ p) u
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee t* W: r& k T
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ' ^4 W! u& u4 X/ D) V$ M6 v
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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