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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
" `/ M- b. v) B2 x> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
& X% o: I6 j1 j/ Y) @> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in + ^* z, M$ i, [4 z7 J, I( M1 q
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of / W* }. d$ R# F# Y# M* j) A
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. m- W5 C b" l6 i8 b( x> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ) E9 W. W+ F4 W; j/ u2 i# K
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and & d2 l! |5 k0 M2 f' L5 m M0 ~6 Y
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
7 v9 S0 i: p( K5 ?3 _1 T1 C$ I> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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. q0 D, o( D. d/ h2 y6 s4 d/ _; G9 l. |# L> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
9 A6 r! T9 |' S% t> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between " d( D0 R6 i7 {2 o) S, |" y* j! p
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 9 A6 H, L2 |& P2 Z
> agreed it was.( `# Y g! j% s/ d3 T4 k
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& L6 y# c; U2 x. @ t5 e k> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
7 Q# ?2 Z; h# a) W3 y& [> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar * _5 u0 s: x5 K
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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" m/ L. Z) q/ U> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
1 g6 b7 {! T8 X2 l `' L) x> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ( C$ [$ q! f: p$ m
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to , T5 B% Z& f; V- [3 B
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ( e- W# K) y1 s& I3 t" e' e' b
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends * V1 ^4 z0 I, k' j
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 8 J4 ], L. Z: r- X; t3 k
> remained, your life would still be full.9 K* a! @1 b9 Z( u+ U+ y6 L
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1 Z5 a7 }* |0 `6 p, ^2 _5 `> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
' C- C7 g$ \; N9 D5 s" I& U> your car.3 C5 S4 H/ [# O+ P; q* I+ ^
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
. b4 y& F" p6 F: |! y9 ^* n. a> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 6 U3 \7 p, M+ {
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
; \6 K$ D V$ I> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
7 x6 y; V1 N. i& v6 ?% X> important to you.4 w# T1 c" X( x3 m Q. i
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend o+ q, i5 X8 o* B2 _! N+ j* I
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with . ?' E8 E$ w- {; [, }, O9 v
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
4 U; V: H% B* k% g> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and * N4 B: R7 d0 D' ]& X2 l
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
7 K# W& ~, z; i S, z+ s> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
7 G3 | g4 _7 u> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.") {! z* h0 g$ x' K
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' b2 J3 M, A: w5 d$ d; e> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 7 l3 X9 B( Q4 r3 ^( `! L( d
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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R. T- {! q4 h0 ]: {> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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