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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
- M0 p' p9 m! n$ |> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
% ]) D6 q6 R' `> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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0 ?! d- b- G3 \9 s> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front % @! }+ z& N q+ T- M
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
l9 }# z0 v. z& E" ~' x; F, f> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then s4 z- u. v7 t( O
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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: Q& V. [) X* j- u0 f> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
" j' l' B# C5 T# _> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 5 d$ X$ S$ ]4 c4 _7 N( h' N
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They # X2 \& ?$ I6 @# M+ T$ f% Q5 t
> agreed it was./ |2 b% Z( t( {: v: S
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + R5 Y! z; [8 P( ~; }1 A( _# }
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
7 H! _- `8 a; D) e+ J- \9 @ W> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."( r+ i; O1 r. I6 a& G$ K. K8 n
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ' ~! t2 `5 o9 E
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) r! q' Y0 ^+ n4 j7 B7 s
> space between the sand. The students laughed.2 [# ]9 u. T3 t, P8 V
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ( t, {1 h6 G" [# Q$ m
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
( k1 T/ y! x( m k! H0 e, I> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 7 a' i' O/ X6 _1 V U
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
* b& K! o! T6 } I> remained, your life would still be full.
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0 s/ g, v8 U: v1 ]> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
3 r0 K9 q2 B/ B> your car.+ A% M4 R# D9 V' R; v
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: I; @- R$ A9 @: a3 h q/ {0 U' q> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 8 d% Y4 J+ ^/ @. o
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ! u& ]5 F0 e' w2 x- w
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
$ r- d% m+ [7 P4 v> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
! V9 {. S0 m! e7 |; B8 M B, g; L> important to you.( c7 B4 w S0 N- T$ g
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 0 A6 d9 U9 Z$ I9 [. @
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with % q3 {# ?" b# V h7 n% C# s
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
2 p3 t$ {4 O* p2 ~7 U5 h> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
- S& O# j7 D- \* T# x> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that * Y" Y: p, K( t% h. T4 K
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."! S$ I: M0 g6 g4 o/ l& ?; d
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
* I5 h, |; H8 d> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 l/ @; d, a' K* A4 D
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. L5 v. u& G" z, [0 i! d% h" P> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, # f9 _) u0 W2 e4 u5 _. I% [# i
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."% [. Q9 E1 V4 S* R# t8 r
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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