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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。9 ]# y# c. P+ ?3 B K
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
. G. ~5 @3 Y ]1 ?9 x> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
/ C7 Q# R- j+ q> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 8 q3 Y' g# M: _5 W! h; F" T$ j
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 3 N: ^! G" A4 Z' D
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) `' J$ O$ i7 T$ T( S
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then / k/ ?6 V3 k# b5 v4 e
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.' Z3 S0 B! i6 r7 A' c8 P& m1 U: C
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ' v7 D, ^4 i) P5 n
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ) ]3 A7 q2 n2 x5 P
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
0 C8 ^' K; s, G- `) q> agreed it was.( T8 x' w5 L x6 m
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' Q6 I1 M6 `& h- H, @> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + F4 ]6 s5 B7 m6 M& s! s
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 6 |2 I# C- C4 p# P8 n
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."; [0 B6 f, S! @" e- A
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
6 l# s1 K- @, t7 b+ ~& l, _2 _> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty * O* h. b1 }. m
> space between the sand. The students laughed.5 R% G; Y6 z. w) H4 p$ x3 S f0 J
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0 _; h3 k+ H0 G> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
$ ?; u5 v; t: E9 ]> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
9 @7 F* [' n( v1 {) k; i x> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 5 }8 l, P7 C# v# ?5 W' z
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% o# Q9 {" Z0 T- r, S. V> remained, your life would still be full.' L4 P; ~1 V0 @# r/ h8 q2 s2 J0 q' ]
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" w6 B" y6 e; D3 Y0 W9 s3 x4 f> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
7 u3 ]( U( Y" {) n& L% s+ w; h> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
~3 {3 m# T6 d2 {" p/ Y> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 3 H; L7 R) i5 x6 k+ ]
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ; V) x8 |5 v7 s; X6 k
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 3 J, Z6 I9 \& {7 l3 S
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ! c) y, i; `, V7 W3 P, O1 k
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ; b, S+ K" r# W. }# o3 {
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
0 J' Y+ g! i9 _! i2 [> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and , O1 T @$ V" L! [( Y! c7 o
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ' }( @. K! G G
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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3 r( d" m- \# [4 I3 P> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee # Q3 n2 |0 }. |) }" n! ~! Y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 A# V/ D, M* L6 Q
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8 I3 w+ O! P4 `> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
9 G6 `2 |" d: m. a. N, R( e6 h$ Y, {> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."5 s& ~% n! C$ j9 u/ [1 O/ h2 Q
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$ F" u# d9 x& A' Y) t7 L/ F> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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