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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
/ m/ u2 e& N. }/ Z4 v: y> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee$ Q( y& E: ?; Q9 `
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> coffee.
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, d5 R' @' ?, U. P5 x/ s> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front : s/ `- k* M3 b6 }/ d3 u
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
+ O5 W7 l# n1 f5 Y6 b" l> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
& F6 z# M. \7 W3 X> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.. l. i# d* L- M# k3 z m0 X
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8 Q% `3 E% v, P( M2 |> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
2 {% z s+ U( H* ~> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 8 Q1 j) S6 C9 J0 @
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They # i& V$ a4 I. c- ~$ _& m' G: v
> agreed it was.* ?& D- ?$ O, Z+ C9 Y: c, r
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of - a, \) ^- X a J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar : m% O+ |9 O5 g# l5 I8 o
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 E; d" u1 I6 z- B* X2 {) H! M& w1 G% N
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
: j0 M, c, b) q8 Z> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
- V- l) ^( F* j) f! Y1 p, i6 \> space between the sand. The students laughed.( ~; n7 a4 V7 O
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3 U7 `. b; H& T2 S1 Q> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
. ?/ `" ]: U. e+ E$ I. l# I J> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the : p2 d* x/ S% L2 d
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
7 R, O {4 d! Q5 e, e> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they / V( v+ g! r0 ~" o/ i9 f4 k
> remained, your life would still be full.; G n7 s! J6 c4 g
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% p& M+ i$ ~2 I6 M9 K& N# c> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ) R# k( A7 Y9 ]3 Y. X, J
> your car.6 ^: r0 R7 r( w* J% G3 M3 o, |) I
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& g, D& ]# l. \0 C* s, O9 I, m% V3 g5 k> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
5 ^! I9 T* B" g; ^5 I5 w, B; f> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the : p3 i% f9 P) L; s5 y' G; S' i- D) y" A* _
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
- i# U ?6 \4 g2 \4 l> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are - m* D1 n' c8 [0 t' U" J
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; Y4 Z; T6 b) R- H/ `& F> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
+ Y2 X; L% w4 R4 ^& M0 ^8 p$ v> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
2 B+ W$ G, A: z9 M6 }/ e S! v> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
# l; k K' ~) h: r> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and + f8 R1 ?' t( _; @4 g$ C
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
8 p- Z) F$ @& K" J- M> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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- n. t& L9 ~7 T; q> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
7 `. e0 W P! h* l. ]> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
5 k. @5 L2 l* n, q( z- z> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."4 Y) k8 I- h7 R) n
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& o+ ~% u8 ]0 J6 L& [" o! J> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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