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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
7 G- H1 T+ A. [; z {+ s: a> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee, Y' j" H C3 \3 e) M& a# [
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ! E# W' b; l) C5 q
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of . h6 K+ m A$ A. Q. f
> coffee.9 R9 I. z1 S( V- D! Z
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
" u: V4 e4 ?: Y+ }+ ~7 m3 F% f; k> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " n: K4 o k+ H3 F
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
( }7 m6 {% [' o' b) ]! v> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: M$ ?- S- c4 A4 C$ r$ E
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& ]- Y# ?) f4 j; A- u7 `: D> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar , |; f1 u, F2 D/ _+ K" H/ t
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ) d% m2 M3 |9 V$ E; Z
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( X% H+ H% {% R6 a: C> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
! w: r( _2 I; l0 K2 s> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
/ r! n3 L: s) Q1 y: {! |9 r& f% ?/ O> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
. F: G4 a* H' v8 X# [> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
9 h* L! E" j3 E) W* V# `> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 2 H2 h1 m, i. f) X0 V
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
3 M- g- P- t: z, P% e5 G> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends & l0 [ v5 ~" N
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
2 R7 O- p3 g3 D6 H0 D) a> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 0 m) }( M, R: |- L9 D3 k
> your car.
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- S+ r9 j. ~, Z: w6 P9 Z> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
/ r' F$ I, j' E, \" f) J. X. X> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 6 q1 o4 Q& P K1 T! M. g
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy - W1 T% a6 g/ ?, y
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 1 {( E! O! F4 Y, M/ { x V
> important to you.5 Z$ _) b5 G1 [+ D, E
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0 v" s4 c8 ]! R6 }; y3 U! Z> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
. Y' H6 b* r9 G; P> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 6 m* a# ?$ h2 F1 I& c/ E1 C
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
* Z% a% R& B" G2 s2 f7 T) V> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
4 u2 L9 U" y0 s3 Q> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
& ]$ P, s& O: o# K3 H9 r> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."/ b/ p# f7 X+ `1 v( y7 ~9 G7 O
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
: k3 ~1 c6 C g# s# c> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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8 R3 A# |0 X6 L Y: r4 z/ v; I> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ) b4 t6 _) S; j
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."& Q( S# o# D7 l$ r5 s) K0 R! w
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7 `: C% C, v1 W. D9 ]6 b! K0 `3 ?0 O> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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