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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee' R& |1 P' W8 U
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ( r, s& R% h& D( b" ]' P# u
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + I5 ]7 T- B9 J/ |- U: \" V/ ~2 C
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front : j s; ^9 z. f- w- \4 i
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
+ E: U1 G# e& { {4 ?0 y$ X> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then / h1 x7 ~, ?6 d0 y2 z
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ? ]5 U8 {; F* h
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 0 U' ^4 ~& _8 L9 T8 s' V7 T
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
1 r" b ]2 f/ p* S, L> agreed it was./ [, p! ?7 o% W: S
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: e9 @% v6 ~ H$ H9 G/ H/ ]> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 0 K' [8 c4 F4 w! G- R o
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
* Z0 \/ {' w7 t, c# m* P+ m1 _> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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$ W7 H: h" ]" k> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + `* ^- B; X4 e* F# ~4 b
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
# y0 c& K; O- `& v$ E" h; _% U( O0 C6 y. m> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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+ z4 D9 X& P m B8 Q$ m> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 1 x2 B) L Z1 q$ k( e- Q% W1 e
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 0 W, E i( m5 g$ o; K
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 7 C- F, q# y& z% w% [; p2 ~. [* @( E+ C8 W
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they , G/ n4 s3 n5 }: b- Y* | j% J
> remained, your life would still be full.. u* e' E9 g R9 X: r4 W
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ; i0 @& V+ Y/ @+ a
> your car.
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0 z5 p/ g9 Y, f! D> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into N, ]8 O6 F" {1 a, M1 i# C
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 8 l9 v z u4 U, L+ {
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
# ^5 c) N5 E3 |* N9 Y# c. T> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 8 i* n, n1 k; B9 k. B
> important to you.0 t& P! h7 D+ `$ C4 P( p% S
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
; Y8 K0 O% [( a& ]' e# o( L> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with $ J* t+ `# @+ L0 N0 `: m) O( Y
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- b/ L& T* W$ U E0 {$ s; o> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 4 k5 W% V! g6 v9 d L7 _
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ) n/ h9 F, k T+ G1 z7 N% g6 D
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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% [7 |# O/ g) V* V, P8 V- Y) q> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
9 t. Z# ~/ }0 U+ Y. C8 Y> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."' W: G/ l0 V9 O( m5 r& b
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, . a4 r/ r5 A7 x3 x$ `
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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% O% Z. w, o, ?, e> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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