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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。: k$ ~% J7 I) g4 e; L! h
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee# k& A1 [) b" I+ [) ]( l$ D# @
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ) H' M8 u* f' h1 l/ w
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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- c. }3 ~* C7 @. O7 Q0 ]9 B4 }/ O> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
2 H. u0 B5 Z7 }- R, E> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
! [1 M e5 J/ d> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then [! p# ?% o9 F6 g& M
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.- g# ?2 y9 j6 X! @! S5 M
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& u+ x9 \/ [$ n* z o> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 6 @9 D& A- ?3 N. Z" I8 e
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
* C" H4 s- ?! d> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
8 ]0 ^( m3 ^9 z& `; H' Z# H( _> agreed it was.+ I0 j# u2 H7 s3 k1 i4 ]
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
0 s! [( b8 d9 `( h( ~> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
4 y" P+ `2 @4 o8 v3 \3 f> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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5 f, \( ~: T0 {$ z/ R. d1 q3 r9 M9 F> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and * X" F0 B7 F6 L$ b% F
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty , n& E0 S! ^" a: p ?! U2 q" g
> space between the sand. The students laughed.: g3 r9 z) a& A; q$ A' S
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 2 g& q! B( I q& c6 C# r: E
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
+ ~3 F- y# N4 \' a$ D5 X> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
3 y7 k2 V: v S> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
! B q1 h- [ R$ R% L> remained, your life would still be full.
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( u4 }8 u l7 K4 y) P! j; K> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and # }* m6 T' L% L3 F: u/ ` c2 Q9 ^$ |
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
" H Z, C6 h0 F+ p# u. O. W2 z- N> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the + A1 P. o; ]; P; @
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
7 q v8 w t6 x! w" O8 \1 ^: z> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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3 b3 X1 S. [: g# j$ \7 i) G- @> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend " n0 p4 @4 T. n* g8 p# g
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
. k; @5 V, I: V) p> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to % j$ f3 G- I$ X" E' w
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 1 n5 Z3 X ^. J$ n* E
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
3 g$ l8 V0 F& G+ ~> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."5 C( k& n9 _* h) g
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) m6 B# S: Q( ]) D> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee " `6 m3 V* ~/ [0 M& {
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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3 V$ y2 j2 U0 w. c2 q1 K0 M9 Z( B> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, , G! O2 _4 O. [3 P3 l) L M1 D
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.": h: g! B1 l5 a* y8 y
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6 l" }4 D, W) }7 J' N, Q$ ~> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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