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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
* o! o8 e1 l( J2 y3 t- G> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee- j3 n# F+ k: h& o
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 0 d- p/ S$ ~9 H) M9 a. w
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + q* |# a V* J: k" W' D% D
> coffee.+ [3 S1 v4 V7 {4 S) p7 B( p
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front + v# ~2 n& b9 p* S. _! o
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and + {. H$ O4 ^) Q
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 4 I4 ^: c7 L ~6 N
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.$ ?# y. `! y% N3 g9 g m$ `& q
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
$ U, B6 w5 z% D* d) \> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ! @) H4 c- E4 Z2 V
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They * A: z& {$ s) Y. j+ [) V
> agreed it was.
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3 x4 @5 ~4 F# C& t5 ~> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 4 D- i# {; E4 |" g" j5 G1 J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar " P# L- S' x" v% A. |: D% Z
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
+ R X. U# _. y, O, m> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 \( t# j; X' N9 w
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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/ ~: O2 l) z% j* G4 R% N9 u> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 3 I i! H* t" _
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the * s) g, X/ J. w2 [8 p6 P8 ^( T
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
: \# W! `2 q3 V/ a, ?. C1 m> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they " j" i; q" w8 r# i n
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
* j4 X$ V8 K3 A# s> your car.
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1 n; j: q# k9 g2 _> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
0 ?6 T+ B' W9 u" C, n> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 8 u" ~( G7 F% [" O# j3 t
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 7 m% m4 k$ V3 b5 Y% K
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
% k" y& n/ l" S! C9 `% u> important to you.
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J$ `; Y( h, W: Z; @. |1 g1 k( i> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend . m, l- O# r+ K% ~
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
9 s$ T% M4 g0 U1 L: k> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
8 h0 v! `# p* @/ B6 {> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
) l" {; n/ U0 T2 j- P4 ]> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
* |+ T9 n4 h! T% g> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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& F1 [% G- m! w9 P3 Q+ f> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee : m9 r4 |; E9 u6 W6 K
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."; V/ m$ D; Z1 b- Y% [ E1 V
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* @- ?7 z4 ~7 L( D. k- F: }+ _# M6 N8 v> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
( U# n: n* u( H5 [ E( L+ s> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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, M+ q9 L3 Y1 K5 m3 z) s* ~2 g# T> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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