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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
3 @5 n) O" Q$ r> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee0 c) _" @6 x7 t7 v/ j. V/ F; P
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
* a% A8 }% @! u) |2 L> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 2 d3 ?; k$ y+ f
> coffee.
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5 O; n! m/ k- F8 ^$ @> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ) W3 q& }# _( d! j; j B E
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 4 F) [' [, t# ^# S; y1 E3 {
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then . V ]3 I4 [1 g9 V4 N6 U( d+ p
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.$ c! E% ^! n4 h4 [/ L/ a
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
6 q6 H( c( `- D& s" R$ n> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
9 Z$ K+ ~! K2 \' `6 l9 c: N2 {> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They , M8 Y, ]4 p( z8 B# P
> agreed it was.' T/ D/ a. \1 R& I/ f$ o# R, r
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( S; i8 X( ?+ f2 L4 p, Z" m> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of , I: f5 ?/ @/ V5 H0 w
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
^8 K' _5 T$ a8 y8 k# v& L> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."- z8 U! v6 z; m
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" `, @" V/ g/ g9 \/ ?> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
2 Y/ s' e/ L# R; P2 z' @+ L> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
, c) i: Z) G3 {5 l0 l# ?% D6 j> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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/ j/ f" a5 [; M6 g* F2 [& [5 H$ F> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
L, g- D4 \3 ^- b; y> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the . y# F1 |8 b! m3 W6 ?# e$ z
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
k3 j! ~5 t4 E' j> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
0 w7 q+ J9 Z c> remained, your life would still be full.
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# ]6 I5 e6 X" ?( }" r; G4 x$ p& U/ X> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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* A2 U: P3 \- \# h2 k> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
5 E( _6 q/ W, z' a+ K> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 8 V4 |/ z0 H& [4 k7 o, `
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 d! \" _' I6 a/ x! F9 {> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
) X" T3 G- q8 ]. t1 D. j+ A> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 3 i8 ^' P) m+ R, Q% u: {+ f" c8 B
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
% C& y) q5 }- w, R> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to W* D8 C( o* X( z
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 9 r a! ] k1 x& ?
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 4 t7 ]" X+ ^- j( i% ]
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.", ?) a. J" E. w2 Q1 r
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 7 y, f J3 |7 ?+ V& N
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : U5 U& K G& X/ ^7 y1 b
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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1 S1 j( K' Z. M g# e# ]> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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