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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。% u; R4 u v9 W( `" c, G. R
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee7 O( E& x5 T L
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in . M8 ^; @* I3 E) W% |2 |+ o
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ) q* _6 Q" u7 Y0 ~$ i( u
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front + J* m9 }- Q' b5 p" g5 a2 A: I E6 M
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
- G# f$ H, A$ g1 z. c" k> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ! y* E" Y) G" l
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. T# z {4 B" C3 {& X. j
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
6 R; O. r) @4 Z4 E4 U5 T> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ; D$ @4 C. H; X6 R
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
4 S/ w. I! D$ y" B9 z! J! w> agreed it was.4 Z$ m. E5 f- B! _" Z( r W- T
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 7 O6 B- p7 V8 B! x* V$ G( Y2 M* A
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
: J9 I- |3 R% z7 ]8 a; F> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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/ {" s/ A, v j> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 4 c$ q+ G2 b G! B* n8 o) n: F
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ' [3 s5 w# ?6 s. ~ e2 q
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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, ^ n3 o* d. H4 D4 b> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ; ^4 }" [% M- v
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
" m! X1 n* U9 N1 X> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
* G$ ]) |, t8 {6 u> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they % z3 c" J; ?8 q" F' |$ d1 i( S5 T
> remained, your life would still be full.$ ]& D0 F" g6 x( Q D
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and & T6 ]2 \- s( U0 ^1 p
> your car.9 t3 r! a0 S# U5 s& c! }, Q
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
`4 R K$ n& o# I> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
( b& q! }" E& _. C) u# H> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
+ O; }& h) f2 m5 s> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are " k: Y R( I- z8 }) ^0 C9 |( j* J
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
/ D8 e5 B Q: Y6 C9 W/ y7 }> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with : {9 Y7 P2 a$ T Z: _ \
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
5 }7 L; L: x' J% p0 S3 P6 _- g8 R> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
; b0 T% V; F: F* ]. z, Q) {> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 6 z- ~4 A! |; y3 D: o4 n
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."! I% `# d" z2 W/ s& v2 K' s) a. A; s& q! n9 q
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( q' u0 X+ O/ a6 G. b& h> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."; q" y: ?: F* h9 f. q& S
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
9 F9 ^* i# J& _+ p5 w y, C2 d O& }+ H> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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