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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee5 q7 T5 d8 j! N
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 7 U# T, _. T$ O1 g n
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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4 c1 b! S4 r; Z* K* C> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 3 f7 I5 X+ C. {
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
; L4 w1 k1 d* a: O> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then # l- Q: F, g% {, |3 ^' T. Y2 c
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 9 y' z) l1 Z/ d
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between / z" R2 q9 r. \, V$ T, Z- @
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ' v3 g7 j9 y: o; ?
> agreed it was.% o1 w: }+ B9 m! v* S7 w
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0 [/ K0 B7 v y. v5 A0 c> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 y, K% ?$ k$ }$ o> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
6 K6 [4 c9 n! f4 [6 c> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 3 A4 ~6 E7 X6 X+ x
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
8 _. j g" ]* N Z$ m' I5 _> space between the sand. The students laughed.# v! Z$ @5 o4 g; Y
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to - l. F; H; c5 |6 \2 M2 _
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
. r* k8 J3 A; i% [> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
: i* H1 n. @9 u3 P6 \+ D l a> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ) P+ p4 D5 P1 L8 m! ^9 M
> remained, your life would still be full.
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$ H" d2 c8 ~1 p# M0 d, r> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 6 Q2 t% K* W- `
> your car.
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' v: |8 v! I& ^+ k; {1 d2 G> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
) K" R! | ?' }, q+ y. f> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 4 f- A- ~3 p' V! j; `
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy # e7 F* R5 S! N" t) H
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are . d2 T* O m- v# O F
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
( D0 ]3 X; i0 F* @1 \$ {( J> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ( Z0 V; M4 {8 B, M( x+ I' i
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to * Y, d7 p9 N5 c9 Y
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
9 I* D* G$ M( a0 \: y> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
0 k6 \- J- Z) W5 A> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."/ o! o$ W7 v1 S. ~( U; B
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# v2 N: J9 K \) M7 P$ a> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 9 b* l: W$ C* z* o% f4 ]$ _ `+ I0 y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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. }. v1 z6 b( \, z F# j> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, + R$ l& H* w! ~2 k0 J, G
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."$ }3 H, b0 o3 i; Q
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