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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。3 s2 I1 m! Y* E$ C$ q8 `% t" Z
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee0 Y( Y% v5 n1 r3 q/ b
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in $ z ~, D$ w6 T5 _9 S
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of " _* w9 n- ?6 ^
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4 k: C/ L1 {' j$ ]& B. D$ Z> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
7 ^8 P5 \) D9 g) j) y> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. X2 }1 _* Q4 ^> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
; |* m9 x( u9 f: \> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: t1 a( X3 j9 H3 n6 a+ U$ ~7 J+ L: F
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- o! ?0 I6 K6 ?: n [2 h' n> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 8 Y' W- m+ ?: {% e% X' D
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between $ _4 q( a) ?' r! i8 h( ?
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 0 I6 T# E, P- @
> agreed it was.
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8 u& v4 i3 ~6 n: d0 C- ^> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
+ R5 w1 O/ X+ _7 s> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar : k. C! K2 J% l. G, E
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
& o* c* i" ^& [$ R7 N( P( F> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
5 {0 F+ h, E5 w: _: p1 }" ?> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
5 f1 ^2 M5 X" { \2 c' h> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ! G; c ~" s+ V% O* }, D9 K$ ^
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
9 I' Y# z1 D1 |: C> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
" A0 p {9 g' \/ Q) Q3 g( [: B {( u5 c> remained, your life would still be full.& [% B7 B& ~4 H5 l7 i7 `7 h! U, m N
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( _% f3 n: p' {/ D> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
1 [' q% Q2 F( G& |> your car.( J: f: {3 M1 C, _9 }: h2 z
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# Y ~ W! _0 a$ I> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 2 x: ~* P6 G& g7 P2 [$ ^* V
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
1 _% F% L9 Z+ `2 r& l> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy C# s* l8 O( a4 ?
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
& n; x( b' E. h, t( ]> important to you.4 P5 o. K2 g6 y5 @- d- B4 |0 l% P
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
! U3 c9 E, x0 R" |% p> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 2 I1 i5 o) p8 |" J
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
9 ~( X" s3 O. E" z/ M> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
* D$ j' s( D' j6 z. x- m3 {! {> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that + {: o# R/ N# a( V h/ y
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
8 k- ~- R+ ^9 M> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."& x; L7 m; K7 ]+ I3 j, c
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* P2 b9 B. J/ y; O: f> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
9 x5 R- R' N/ U5 Q" {, j> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."2 A2 s: ~8 R4 S. ^ u" G
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5 ~+ o3 ^: D# E/ X& P> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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