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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
; C# o7 s; i% W> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee+ Q9 s; L+ n5 v
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
% {: j3 J8 e7 t6 _/ f* E> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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7 q5 @: t+ n) [> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front $ n( }; P$ ]6 S! U% V% }" Q% [
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) X3 H+ w1 J$ ^: g; R" k& d
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then , s$ ~6 {& A* l8 L8 C9 g
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.. K5 Q: d! S. t
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4 k$ j% S% E4 K> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar & o! D0 t& u& L6 s* v( l' t; [
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
/ L6 ~; e a4 b4 k: a* W> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
* k* o" s. H! D. w> agreed it was. f: v; J' m5 p9 A& [% b9 C+ }
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 7 o3 a( ~/ }7 X' p6 J2 s
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar % n4 F7 z1 b) i1 n# U9 K+ y* p* `
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."* [8 H" x9 I. E( w
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$ B# F7 o5 [7 L> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
3 k- a; q& q: V5 u E% f; S( H7 e> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty + a# J. q+ Z. Z. E: J( V
> space between the sand. The students laughed.* t X1 Q# y7 H+ W' f6 H
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to * ^+ Z. w# \7 A- Z/ K- t
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the * U" K0 S: \4 o& o
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ! f9 H9 |+ U" C j: I0 I" V
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they * e) ^4 U" d1 w, N1 a7 x- q
> remained, your life would still be full.6 k6 J5 m* A, X$ y& w
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 4 b' m( A: y. p7 A1 B! g
> your car.4 q1 _+ @2 @1 f0 s) D, `
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9 f* y* ?0 q& C) {$ c! K4 f> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
% T5 m- o" d S" ?) v g. o> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
' U2 j7 ^& J7 j> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ) q- d0 \( b& l0 ]4 L. n
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ) A1 z) l2 [# s1 s$ j, w
> important to you.
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1 H' F! D5 b# y: C> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
0 r# j/ k% i" r, z$ F> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
: g& [( o+ f7 N! V8 {> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
% f! I" ~- q" R- Q6 [> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
, ], A& M+ ?% b9 g: X `5 `> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
& ?- ^# E7 t; K> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 7 B4 ? [8 Z) [
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, , C7 r6 O. M( ?# Z1 h2 |
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."# j" ~$ g2 [) B8 y' t% p' k3 y
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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