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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
3 S2 F) b7 V4 j" G> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
" `' y2 q, ~0 U+ O: | f) r" q> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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+ k" n2 W- E* X2 V9 {> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
1 m1 V! K% a+ u% x9 G' [> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
* z! J, l5 V `/ }2 t$ `> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then # ?. I9 w: g4 Q8 W: X" k
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.% S/ p( w5 v. C8 _
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6 m3 w9 s0 q6 I" b3 Q, I> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
2 x7 |9 Y2 a( ] B: A7 @> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 4 a V5 [" j; M X$ z, R6 Z
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They / o) p1 L6 C, G# K0 v
> agreed it was.
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2 l1 q. B8 N% b6 }8 N> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
6 |/ q5 D+ N, r$ B3 _+ S" q, O2 _> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
8 E, t5 B2 t1 D/ Z) ^6 D> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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7 G5 ^: o9 V$ t$ E$ v> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ( ?% l) `; a# V# A' b: {, B
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty [& R9 O) u2 l) H/ H5 |' _; }& ]
> space between the sand. The students laughed.. _" L' P6 O) L) {8 I) g1 T
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to . | Y6 w9 }' N0 W T. J, t
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
2 k! T' s; r/ Y# T: F3 S> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
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> remained, your life would still be full.5 \0 x+ k6 ?+ c/ ?
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 8 o {! |# Q' ]6 D! E0 R$ J u
> your car.
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4 i3 S8 X @ j6 |3 ~6 s, c> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % i ^7 [$ C2 F6 v4 ?
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the / H9 A6 W+ S0 k" \
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy y% w1 g P9 ?
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are + B( F0 ?/ }7 r& A# O* j: P
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8 M) L- |* N" Z5 U3 [' _% I> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + @! h8 ^& a/ S$ ^6 M* x, A
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
# S% C+ e! C1 `+ {9 V/ d; w9 L> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
/ t- \! g% e$ L/ e; c3 y> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
: r( x0 E0 {- y5 v0 W9 M# O> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
8 [3 b* V2 n" D2 c> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."8 V9 O8 O' Z/ x% i4 P+ Z
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) e, J) c: H ?) b> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 3 D" U, k. a& f
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."6 g$ Z) A* R9 O4 Y( e& O
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" {. A/ B# i, e7 |> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : K, Q7 P. Z3 u1 Z" F* E
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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- ^/ o `/ L% ~) G7 ]4 g- P> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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