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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。! \$ P8 z4 e' U
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee" |9 G" x+ a- i0 J/ q8 ?1 ?5 K! L
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in . f8 j' e: x) T. G7 D0 L+ G: k
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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! K9 J. r! a2 l5 ~> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
# H" d8 C! ]$ k; E. s> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) T1 ~$ z: \, c) I/ G5 K
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
' E9 f6 L( }% V- Q6 S8 Z+ t) j$ ~> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.6 t% Y* }- I* ~8 u8 u9 d& O3 V# `
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
+ i% N1 V2 V q! S- g" V7 J> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between * l6 K* v2 V" \: A1 S
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
6 m6 l( j( {$ @% f" _9 H+ q6 g> agreed it was.$ ~) A, M3 a u' p
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1 g- U- E# ], f( K5 p6 [4 ]8 y> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 3 N! y: K% S$ c. A% q) Z* h( V
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 E+ n( e4 _- I! K> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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9 Y8 }0 X' Y- m4 }5 a( m> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
* O' x9 L9 V2 u0 W) r6 V9 h> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
7 |0 p" L+ y3 J2 \6 a0 J, W7 q+ Z: S> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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5 m- {6 f& p1 L9 H9 Z> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
, r' C. h( a/ `+ `' }; {; K> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the + O; p& r# W7 J6 k7 U& P
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " v/ j* o8 d; d' T0 P$ {" C* g5 j
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
- S3 {: @& w0 J! f% f! e4 S: p P( \> remained, your life would still be full.
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: T# S3 }% I9 ?8 h4 V( F> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 4 ?/ h# @6 |" m" y0 P5 e% [
> your car.& A& B' u" j/ }; Z0 f' c& n
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
6 h! x: X# U$ {) S> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 9 g$ `6 J3 I2 n* n* l
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
0 ?7 b/ z% O) F% j* Q> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend D, |( C( o5 |/ s8 I8 U
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 2 r2 @6 G( G0 F" h* E3 B
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
' T& v( W- A9 c; l" R7 X3 @8 V> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and , V; h6 E# t n% X( e- `: s$ M
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
3 d: z, k' L, E9 K> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.": R1 ?# |" l. U4 P
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: ^4 b3 V0 B3 |6 O- N# w> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 0 N* h/ N% [: w
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ! K# j+ O% v8 O# [1 C
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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