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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。9 N4 m3 K* E! {/ H
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee3 b+ n4 W/ m) W6 X7 e5 p4 i
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in & v- t$ v6 Q/ \
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of . }2 [: Z' B5 }- I9 o: N
> coffee.! d! }( l" h4 e' @, c
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
. w7 e9 J h0 t8 y$ p: G> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 4 V, u* b( E9 l- b4 f
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
% q. C- H+ f" F> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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! k$ ^& b F9 o/ E> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar # v& ]0 }5 P5 S, M
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between . g, b9 a- s- x( Q- I. t6 W
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
' H f7 `: q* C) a( P> agreed it was.
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9 Z" E; R4 H' ~+ q! O> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of & V, A( D1 H2 n' R5 R
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
: g# r* c. `% B( }; c4 \3 U> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."" h" [4 y- X5 ^$ q$ P
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ( U+ H, _1 `7 U. ?" H% K
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty : E' j4 h% a' h9 C& z
> space between the sand. The students laughed.4 q0 E6 r8 Q9 ^" D4 ^/ M2 N6 w
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" C3 U' s4 `3 S H, ^> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
) S: _1 ?" g+ J/ `& @. K g! G1 n2 Z7 H> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the " w8 b7 W7 b, x. w( }) U# C. a
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends , K# |( {# [- x5 r7 N, W& ^
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they % @! t: F; H6 o9 \
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 3 I% W: q) M. X& y9 K/ q1 |
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into * b; h/ i+ o# ?, {% v/ H X
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 1 T2 ^- P( W* D
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 Q& O, U$ C8 v7 k" c' p> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are % g5 _* r+ W2 j( S d, y
> important to you.
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. p5 g+ N# d! |' W0 {> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ) y$ l/ d9 c0 b( N8 \9 m q7 r. C
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with - ~8 w, X9 T: ]2 Q+ C: U% N$ M6 G
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to * p# o2 u v% u! k- l1 `% q( y2 \+ E
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ; x6 l; W( \/ Y6 `3 G
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 8 E* y. H- O, M7 O X8 H
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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" R) t" G# h$ w& R& U& ?: {( y> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee . q8 I9 s1 e4 j
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.": o% j# [! A, c2 l0 i# V+ T
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9 t: K" h, u& _& N> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
1 c- Q% D. j5 Z& l% e> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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9 t3 i0 f5 ^% Y& M5 Y> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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