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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee+ T. b( E) Q+ x% k# [, f
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ; u, L- {0 l8 Q5 a8 p! q' k
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of & t. Y& R6 ]4 J8 u( Z
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
% d5 N+ ]0 z Y6 \: a> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and . ~% J6 b. O# D- M+ _9 o& I1 J1 k
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
5 y" A3 R% d' J- @" ?, W' x) I8 Y> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. w5 g# l7 c3 a( z& i! ~
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
; x# _+ k5 `* u; `: t& I% }> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between s) W$ r* X! u9 r& y" b+ w r
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They : \8 B( U: b) @ O) L9 Q5 e
> agreed it was.
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" T8 Y p) U7 K2 K+ m$ g> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
: ?/ v" q, I7 E( p1 t> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
1 s& J5 V. \! b+ I; `7 _> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
5 w" W- j1 G: W$ ?1 f7 c. p+ o: k7 d> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
. N1 M- B& F/ y* R) a> space between the sand. The students laughed.6 ?9 g4 i8 i! _3 M8 y* P4 S1 Y; q
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) q' G* i, k1 g" A* V. E8 O
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
) v5 F- W- W" @> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends # w1 ? R: I$ I9 U) E: f- N
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
1 A* D" y' ]7 \; c: j> remained, your life would still be full.1 x& r9 p4 W0 j4 X( v
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2 \! }0 P: i5 E$ L5 A/ {" T> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and * W4 x) z9 I( @* E
> your car.4 Z% K8 C' p0 u/ K0 W' B: i6 t
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& n3 D9 a: N5 x) s. a# ^8 t) \$ |> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
- I: M2 @5 F7 J$ Y: ^+ X6 _; K> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
4 h; x9 ^* f8 n" H6 E4 J# Z3 ]> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy # |7 c2 s- O) o: I, }6 H
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
5 Q" h) c I( N2 ~# o> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 2 l# H; Q; p% L9 f d' D: s8 t8 w
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with . w6 ?: J$ M T* r* I% j
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 1 e2 G' O% b3 G/ D' y8 P/ t; V
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and * u& h3 ]# x) X* ^6 M/ |7 T
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 8 g1 u* x6 B$ M5 q: N
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."' N2 w' Y) `' ?, R4 X& i) R+ U1 N
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 2 E- ]+ U- D& a7 v
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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# p( b8 ]8 ~$ i/ M& d2 Y% k* s K/ n> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ! [! V8 h' B+ a) W* b
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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1 d% X3 {. Z" \ x% v. h4 i+ s2 p> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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