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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* M* o. W/ W8 f2 E7 h" a
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
3 R) B- G, G) f0 |) n> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of . @1 C" q/ i/ m. {4 N& p/ C" h
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 4 X/ v* S6 x! v; ~" W7 ^, q# r4 x
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) K% i6 }$ V, ?% z: w |
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then : L$ i+ r$ E# ^: o& j
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
5 S* w% N* q# k' ], u# M> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between . x0 d' t9 w& j" W! D! n! x$ a
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
3 _$ f0 ^4 G* O& T/ e: r6 t> agreed it was.
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3 i" M& b6 G! j# O* k4 {> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
# t0 `( Y! U2 k7 }> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
0 V* w' i9 R+ G5 y8 Q7 t> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and : w- D% z2 v* o; ^6 z1 D
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
! [/ w, p( M7 t8 t> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 7 E2 r5 R* y9 F
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 8 O8 S! ^' k: q& B0 G/ o5 s& s3 E
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
6 S% d3 h6 y6 u1 Q2 {3 G> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
4 q3 y |2 ^& p' L3 x, R> remained, your life would still be full.9 y- m8 Y3 v3 c2 H! `' z
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* c* Q; N0 c7 N E> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! R8 w; {" V) p# n) M9 `- x$ a
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into * t8 b0 @. ~: m! E9 |
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
* y/ u# I; a# o8 J( J: X> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy & z& W9 [- O* I* I% s
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 9 ?& O/ I t" K) U1 t
> important to you.* p" Z- ~1 n( z: r
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 7 r. i) a a* V9 z
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
9 w$ R9 w0 u! s> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ T# u8 N3 H* q6 i# p# ^
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and / _ K' H6 ^& x( y
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
6 x! B F1 n, m! |> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ! f$ X) C( W1 f8 {, G
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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& {, ?; |; Z/ K3 D> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, % }1 ?9 s# M; C5 A& ?. x
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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