 鲜花( 34)  鸡蛋( 5)
|
转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。2 v8 b5 Z$ ]! d
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* O! u8 Y4 K! S
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
' r I1 Y) r- E> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ; q5 h" f% G9 d/ l% a& \
> coffee.
, ?; L) n: X- }; e' i7 P1 z>
4 w' O% @2 ^- j> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
2 K- l6 a# c7 t. c+ d- `> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " M, h' ]; I" y/ F8 x0 G% n: B
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
8 U) n! j' ^4 T. c: n7 D1 \1 n> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.0 R/ ]0 @4 s+ } s* ^7 X
>9 R6 L9 R: m( l2 I* H* ~! a
> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
/ J' t. K8 N6 k# e: p9 i" U> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 9 C( q' R W0 r/ z* a/ Y4 y+ C
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 1 Y9 g6 _, T) j5 N0 l- M3 S
> agreed it was.
$ t/ f9 d. N$ g>8 q6 q( o% _' Y' j+ C1 f
> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ( O0 }; |2 l( ^- K
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar / a; [ d/ u) q$ P$ ]
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 H5 n- I( P# x' h1 j$ N
>
- v# J& z; l4 M, Q4 ~# z$ h> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + Z' i/ J' \6 s( ~# R- s
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty & h$ Y8 I6 \) t! f7 t
> space between the sand. The students laughed.# s1 K9 ?4 `9 f. x5 t% V
>
* w9 d! m/ w1 _5 @+ j# h> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to # q {; B0 _7 X9 m! K' w
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
. c! c2 n( h( W- W* g> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends : V( o% X F' i2 q) V3 `, p( L" i
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
. P4 [7 H7 R8 }$ _; p$ v# b> remained, your life would still be full.# t4 [& [% l" C& `+ K$ c
>
! N9 O- I0 B( u, f7 ^> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
1 }% J# V. u& H: l/ h> your car.
$ G- J7 j8 j6 n& S' U- I>0 m+ c" p" f7 P, |3 Q; A
> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
* R( O8 g0 J8 M> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
9 d' c6 F$ S4 G1 d* a1 }2 x* v> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy + w4 h3 v" l/ e' ~7 ]5 C! ^
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
. l8 D, |3 S- Y# r9 C> important to you.9 ]9 a; U, n) F. p
>/ Y8 {6 n8 z' ]- O4 E
>5 h# ~- o- C2 F3 C3 W
> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ' |, q4 z' y( _4 i S# ]
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
* C) O* r& d: S" M- I* J> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
+ i9 }1 J/ B0 {) E# [% F9 c> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 7 u% R0 J+ H0 ?2 _+ h$ i6 ] X
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
6 J, _( q7 U. B> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
" e1 F. Y. E+ @4 A' [>5 {: w1 j2 N X7 O% B! T' g
> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 6 K5 h' _: ?% }. v! v
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked.") {8 B6 Y: {5 C
>9 I. C, ]8 y8 S6 l3 h2 _" W
> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
* }4 j/ F3 u% X7 v$ C> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
6 A5 f- c* i, l$ X>
1 g3 v# u1 y, Y) g$ z$ V5 a> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
|