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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
& [+ ~5 h. j% b: q* d> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
1 p3 k$ o$ c7 u3 V* J> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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7 q1 [' X2 W5 S: n> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
; U7 s* o1 a. }> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
# d7 G( J" P! V) |> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
3 ?% E1 r. R2 y* b> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.$ k, k u+ z% Y1 a, ?4 r
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3 _5 R1 h1 T q6 H, ?# R3 B> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 1 G- X5 ], V- J4 B: R0 d
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ; c8 C) @7 W- S0 g! H. t
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They " ]; z. S: k; e% c. R! U
> agreed it was.* U" I( f3 ]+ z; P b2 ~0 v* e4 s8 d
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 7 M6 m: z9 }% G# J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
! a$ y/ |! q7 ]% L2 E+ g" {7 _# @> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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. f9 o% e! A9 b7 B; k- Q0 c4 I3 D> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
1 \6 C9 | I' i& m> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty . T5 o4 f" f4 }* Q6 i
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) p" F/ j. G& N' f- Z0 x" F
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the # D: O1 }6 r5 n6 _" _
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 3 X& G) C. N& h8 z3 Q
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
0 n& J( y( B% y* }% q6 x> remained, your life would still be full.
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: R1 t& A! s8 ]& p! E- ]> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
7 ~- a* E: g! [4 _> your car.7 k( `3 E. J# k- M8 W
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; l+ V/ z; e! v0 Q& Z6 ?7 @> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
8 K$ U4 G! |8 {> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 8 o$ t3 n$ ]2 k- {+ J7 t( `/ A: |
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
- @* J/ h3 ]& N5 p L* A0 l' B> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ( g+ M1 v- v: k Y1 A. r- ^2 V3 Z) k
> important to you.
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5 I. ?1 H2 ]8 h0 X# u> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
" t- Q% Q3 Q% p: i1 m3 z7 N& |8 x! @> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with $ d' R7 M7 Y( K5 n4 k8 F: J
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
) v. d3 X1 n5 g0 e& N- H$ j+ e9 K> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and / F5 A$ [ p1 c+ N2 _
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
8 S/ i9 e% P D( O/ ]/ i5 M a; Y> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."7 L) U0 a) F9 D
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 4 T5 R) P$ ^9 L" X
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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$ ~8 b- [ Y/ i y3 J> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, * @& }; K" r- g& X
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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+ Y# C A$ t0 r! V0 r& o> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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