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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。+ z' O4 G1 a% N7 w, L& S# `
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
8 `$ K# U0 Z. {& P- n> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
6 m) q& g" o. [1 H+ Y$ a9 v' ?> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of $ M( e1 j5 r$ N% R9 `/ W5 r3 M, T
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 4 S1 x( q1 w+ h# [% i" A! W& r
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
/ t0 @4 I O: ?> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then C! a0 H) ^' ]9 n: d: }: h
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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6 B* J% K& s( x! S( n# `> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
3 u: t$ d% }% S; B/ H/ E4 M1 h> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between / v b. V! K7 Z- R3 f! x
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( h4 F( ^% C, o6 F5 ]3 ^3 i4 A> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
6 L5 B) _6 z) I* j, }3 X> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
$ m) n0 L2 ^0 C5 V' e8 W3 Z* N! Q> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 i+ d7 a4 H1 b
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) g# A$ M t1 B% E5 m% e> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
6 q" H- Z& ~- u> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty - g4 z$ a* J8 x" G" e! e
> space between the sand. The students laughed.; U! |8 E2 F: a' W, U
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
/ X: Q: r. ^6 c, x; @9 x. r6 _$ o" f> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 6 M" q2 l" z9 Q
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends $ @" r8 r& p# J8 b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they - g4 a& n6 ~/ ^7 a% p% |
> remained, your life would still be full.: p8 _; w( }5 V/ @0 S
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
2 q1 [" @% j; q% N. i2 X> your car.6 l' @2 R4 G; K0 w& e! ^: Y- A
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ' I- s5 Z* q; E3 a$ r& i. {/ m
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
* W& m- W. k7 C1 q> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
, T' D' g+ w, t7 c2 ^' v/ t> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , f/ Z# F; `+ G- ~
> important to you.7 t6 ]+ Q& H3 v# U
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
6 n& G1 }( n0 s- l> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with - G( T/ A. c/ @3 p. ~$ U: [
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
( g# w2 ?7 R4 n* R> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
- Z- L( Z- P8 ^7 `9 q8 l5 M" g' W> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 6 j1 l) b( e$ R. ^6 Y+ l7 _
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.": @1 _- p, d% d" v, [& i: Y
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" a/ c/ J; \7 J4 T> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee . g8 B3 }& t4 G% X- c. }! B. Q$ d
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."* x2 ~' V. u9 ~/ G, k/ M
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 4 y8 L% L" o+ N4 j' M( d
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."1 i+ k! { e1 u
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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