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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。% N1 q d7 g6 d; @/ S% `8 M+ W2 S
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee: f1 b: }4 ~/ J( [" I
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in # a% i' n# z4 p* E. x- e6 N7 x: t9 o8 X
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ' D: @9 ~% @* X
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ' q" O, _: z u5 H/ H/ m
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. R: a; Z1 T- h' X* b. G6 L. \> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
- x6 f! g' W) A4 ^$ G> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.9 h: E3 F. C* x2 p
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& |% Y- g1 } d! X$ n6 J7 D7 M> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
5 m+ m. ~) O( }> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ) Q" B$ k9 B, I1 z d
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
' N: z( Z! B/ t4 \> agreed it was.
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: T7 w8 ?0 @6 n> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
6 S) [' i! n* \; D; |> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
' t. l4 A5 U( j& s" k, ~& q/ s$ l> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."& g- O9 r$ s; _: ?- I! `
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5 ` s+ g( ~" P0 O> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
$ \# K6 i: B" c$ d+ |> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
( y4 X& n: [2 p" x7 l> space between the sand. The students laughed., v; w1 G6 g4 Q+ w/ {+ Y
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 2 l9 \5 o \- H i( n
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
& G, {( z# j( {0 e& W> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
* _3 S* u' t4 D4 y' |0 ^+ y0 y> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
5 N' D* O3 I5 y* h7 B" L1 G( K# r7 m> remained, your life would still be full.1 U. r( M8 ]8 t4 ]* a0 ?
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/ Y/ ]: N, o; [7 W% v> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and - R8 i$ y+ @6 |& k# M
> your car.) l: j& g' C7 A. j8 x3 C* S4 S7 R- s$ \# X
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& o- m, g" u$ \, G! o> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 4 Y' M' K( Q" o L( ~- V/ d
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
' _) o: r6 I6 ~( A v! y> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 H- Y% {9 V- x> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
* z7 N% B l- r7 E( N> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend - S/ G! q6 W {6 ^# {; A
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 4 \/ b. y7 n" n% M" O, I
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " d+ Q, }- m0 J6 u. U3 y" D$ C& l" @6 e
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and / r; K; X3 H# e" R0 p
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
1 o% a# Q% Z8 f0 H$ Q5 `5 s' E> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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& R P! G2 f. H C; M2 _. ~- m> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee : z3 m: J/ V' O! e) Q" l8 e
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
0 Q7 e0 C% F- } Y6 \> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."7 |, ^" l4 z9 G" q7 x( B# i
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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