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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。8 X0 q4 g# n/ @0 ^ B% ~% h
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
! e1 _3 r7 V: s5 B: G5 T> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in / K( m& k$ q! K8 z! ?* b' E! ?
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 4 Q" {+ g8 M7 ^* ~( D8 r n. k
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front J6 M! U1 D& n! B' f, P
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ; e2 ]% f( S! Z, q2 M
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
2 V- \2 h6 W* `7 @> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.- m) P: s- t: K4 F; N
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
* X* n% [7 M U) [> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
" y% c: w) i1 K1 G) \8 k5 Q> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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; @$ J W% b. D3 u* O> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
# V8 a3 G, c+ i% _& Z> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
( o3 S' f7 ~ Q# b> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 1 V- O! \6 o' P2 \4 b+ l
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 0 {0 j0 E `8 d
> space between the sand. The students laughed.- j2 ]9 T, p( \) w0 [
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: X* o& N7 {5 Y0 Q> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ( H- w3 n# A+ p6 f$ f
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
) G/ a- l* ]4 e4 H( I3 E1 [1 D> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 5 d. o+ n- U. c R+ {; C5 T1 V
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they # P O4 n+ e; |6 q' g& @- M. Y6 r
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
4 M* M, F3 y2 v6 a l* y> your car.
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^6 l: q3 H, l> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ! s: O6 z3 b' R2 X2 H
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 4 J7 _6 O/ K! ~
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy + z3 L2 F1 x0 ]0 c$ o2 g
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are - F) w+ S; d) e; J2 W3 E
> important to you.
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0 B3 ^- W+ Z" ?9 D q+ f3 _: S7 g> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
! m* B* f$ \- M; ^0 h: \> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with $ O) H) q1 e$ w6 A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 4 J9 V8 _% Z' q4 s7 G9 w6 ?7 h
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ) A) J4 M# k. r' k
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
# \: e* l3 ~, P- k> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."/ S6 p! G! k$ R0 ?3 A; n! c+ m
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
% B0 E" z6 Z( S" W3 S> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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/ s( J& |5 n6 L3 ^> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : {2 K8 }+ H9 d4 G1 d# J$ A/ H1 \
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."3 F' {3 _, c& I, X
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1 J7 A- Q7 ^" A$ ^* I# z> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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