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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to2 H% n$ B( e# s4 `
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will4 y5 a6 J% T3 A9 y! e; b. a
think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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# P1 ~7 _! J0 G. ]) U1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.0 t9 O" N8 H( B& u2 P5 i4 ^* s
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
9 _4 T% B' e& }3 `, }4 z: K* @say—listen for the name.! \" s+ D- X$ R3 |. R' e
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.) H/ M/ }& M0 r& k$ ?# H$ [& j
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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# z- c4 E+ s$ m7 e* f5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the( p% q0 G l8 o, @5 P8 c( n
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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