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~SOMETIMES~
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9 x0 [1 J: P, L8 e5 BSometimes people come into your life
. M. {* D0 @2 J# R3 dyou know right away that they were meant to be there,0 D x/ V( G# S7 t5 o
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,2 @- R9 `6 S9 f. \; ?% T+ K5 q7 b
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.# D- i; b) A% X
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, i. `+ d4 B+ a& z5 Y# g& WYou never know who these people may be
6 p! \# @+ v" D P; d$ Jbut when you lock eyes with them,
. y* }# r8 Y& ]2 v3 E7 \4 E- ayou know at that very moment,
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' U: Y, H( n/ m7 n, S3 F# g8 U& M1 aThey will affect your life in some profound way% x3 [2 T9 k1 [ L. m: c4 q
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!% S) `$ a+ P- Y1 T: w f
They are there for the reason you need them to be.1 @, j2 j( W s% c s2 I
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, ^- B% O I, n* L
! c9 i1 z6 d8 [, Q3 L: _, ~% {The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
F& T2 I& N" m+ |Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" I3 I" ?8 I0 D: PSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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' d" O4 x9 T; e- e7 dWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
( o! z8 j9 c) t8 h* c) Z3 zour desire fulfilled, their work is done.2 M# Y4 c# y; ?1 U
The prayer you sent up has been answered.: o) S1 J$ O" r( | \4 G7 G, L2 S
And now it is time for you to move on.- s8 P/ D( F0 N/ {9 |/ p0 L
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" i) T/ S/ o0 w1 eThen people come into your life for a REASON: i7 d! d% J( u' i; [, |
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
$ j8 i# P, |$ s* }5 m4 \. z) SThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.7 F' |8 h! T; {8 o$ p8 b6 M
They may teach you something you have never done.+ J% B0 V3 y# k/ N* g4 l2 }5 ^1 b: w; q
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy./ e$ ^7 q; A2 C: |
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- v; E9 y# d2 C7 |3 e6 ^! N. G
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
& j$ L1 [% P4 N# a- ^8 zYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
Z; l. m" h l" a! \Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life." L2 G' o; i" B
Everything happens for a reason.4 @6 o" X3 u( w- H9 H, E
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.1 n y! I0 P; _( h9 x6 ~9 q$ F
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ Q! b. d1 k8 L( c$ P1 J
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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6 T/ G& S9 \9 Y1 x1 ?) a4 Y- sIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
A. M) `2 a v: _+ |6 rYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ @7 C" K3 j* h, r D
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
0 A# @7 `7 p6 ?# T3 \, D8 U! Kfor they have helped you learn about trust
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& V$ U2 l; O; }7 N; B* m5 M ] ^If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
" V* h% _* w( q2 UTry to love them back unconditionally,, m( v" G O. B9 G. M
not only because they love you, but because in a way,5 D' \; J$ T+ I2 P
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.5 b- ~0 ~& C" B1 B
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
' p, F$ u1 K7 D% K3 l( k" ZA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
; s$ `9 a: K8 j* E$ _+ p# Sand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
2 F, e/ W' S8 U+ ~& NGod's grace is as a healing hand.) ^0 y6 I. _9 w; _; L4 O% Z4 e
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,* j* M k2 b# `2 F) V7 g
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
7 J U) `0 [' q7 c7 s. Q8 d" [5 L, l2 zwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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