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0 H% h: }5 Y! ?+ qSometimes people come into your life# J( H+ h) y- J$ T6 h7 ^ |" f
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
( _4 c p+ H, @4 Yto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,' O2 x. ?+ a& Z) v
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be./ o6 T; X/ S5 F0 \0 L6 A
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" Q: n K: [8 m( [* w& k2 b+ R8 O% fYou never know who these people may be
; V4 U+ G6 o7 n5 y% hbut when you lock eyes with them,5 C, f2 W0 W2 u$ S: ~" F b
you know at that very moment,/ q. z% p+ J- r) J! }
$ C/ C4 j& L1 D( @; rThey will affect your life in some profound way0 j& q4 k# V3 t" e$ O+ \
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!4 y- _0 H, _$ `( K' o! ], N
They are there for the reason you need them to be.4 i+ P( _$ u4 d8 _) Z8 K
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,) h2 B; O8 @5 l* l; n) e
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
' V* t S3 J* }+ TSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
$ Z3 g4 \2 D TSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 ~2 Q$ H3 G. E2 }
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,! }6 J1 k. ?/ |2 R; }" p
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.; t* |% L3 r0 y
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
0 T0 [8 P/ T# g% oAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON: N. ^* \2 V, W. v# U/ v: {
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.. {! f9 w% F% Q( o( o, F
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 }! t" C" `0 ?1 @3 [5 l
They may teach you something you have never done.7 s% g M0 g, s* c: v8 s% C
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
0 B9 r3 B, A, o6 f! d7 j" Z/ RBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; J% w0 w6 h- n* P, n6 a1 `4 K
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
1 W7 D( j e: K) Z/ ^/ lPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 S* y M8 Q1 ~# Y _
Everything happens for a reason./ \5 c8 H: W2 @; K
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 \9 H: @4 Z) c1 w% P* W
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,$ q9 N# Z. G5 R3 e- o+ L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.* T0 L$ x) U8 P5 z4 `
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9 _8 f) g3 H0 N* gIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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' W3 H; k* R/ D$ k$ cIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,! ^# U/ w; J( l/ S5 J3 y( q
for they have helped you learn about trust
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7 x9 P1 _) }( U# v' e; gIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,( H/ F" a6 s+ X9 T
Try to love them back unconditionally,
. s( N6 Q% D5 U6 l0 B2 G5 B) a3 Unot only because they love you, but because in a way,6 }* r: N5 y: n# `! C/ L
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.3 z1 h. r+ ?! I& Y
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun. ~& c& T- a$ M& V) o- A) x6 E
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.3 ? D' S) m3 `1 P; ]. a
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,! C; W# I1 b1 F! a9 o4 X& ]& ]/ Z
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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