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c7 f7 D$ i. O# |0 W~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
1 X, z6 C5 p: J P0 k/ myou know right away that they were meant to be there,
4 X0 \7 V/ x* Z: G0 j$ Z& P8 E: cto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
4 m& I5 ]6 j2 W) d6 a9 ]or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be4 @+ [0 Z& F" V# N9 O' q# }9 ~, F
but when you lock eyes with them,
0 ~2 s& b, o# C9 _- \you know at that very moment,
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7 q w8 v; u, a; Q2 OThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!4 d5 A1 ~! Y3 c( x4 \
They are there for the reason you need them to be. B" G1 h0 b5 ~" q+ A
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
p5 P3 \ Q4 pSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
& ^- f& \6 q8 I* T) a" C8 bSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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1 g6 ?# j6 o1 }The prayer you sent up has been answered.: O, k. ]6 F1 W$ e4 P, u
And now it is time for you to move on.0 r7 I" l9 N% ~* Q
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/ h F# v Q4 X, i8 dThen people come into your life for a REASON6 T! P, \6 @( C7 E+ m
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 G; Z$ p6 J1 E. n9 V! p- m% ^
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.4 d( e3 {7 R' d; _, Z! T, z
They may teach you something you have never done.- m) C, Y. _* T6 z
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.) c$ c# }- v/ j4 @2 `
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:$ ~) A: o8 _+ ~) b* J9 [
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,5 Y; t: g) g2 t5 ~. i0 b d
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.0 E8 \& `9 M0 @* ^
Everything happens for a reason.
5 K1 P" N5 L$ WNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
4 |5 v: t, A% S% L3 p* QIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,' c' C0 P m' N
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.$ t0 x! |7 a' {/ l: \
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,1 k# K' k9 ^4 O$ C
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,1 Z& s) p2 a% H6 [% a
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,/ x4 W- z, m7 W
for they have helped you learn about trust: x! h7 r! @! v3 s
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
6 c8 D: r0 y( F) fIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,' @# `% o: |- l1 h3 x, l8 N+ K
Try to love them back unconditionally,+ [% r* X; u# l; S2 r
not only because they love you, but because in a way,2 q: E3 v1 i; p. }" x% W7 Z: a
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.: @' L Z; B8 b
( B8 x/ W' B* t' E3 R1 MThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,( p: B% N* h8 \) t& S7 ^8 {7 u
; p1 {% \( s t2 y: k wand a time to every purpose under the sun.8 w v r) h" C8 ]# t+ v
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,: b& G. r# m/ ^6 f, T2 ~. I. o
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."* O9 g0 G9 a- |# j2 I+ V7 Q
God's grace is as a healing hand.* Q8 q4 R, a2 G4 Q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
4 D$ x7 f+ v4 J4 kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost/ q# W6 E5 s4 N% ^' M. P1 X" R
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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