Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

8 R  F  A. `5 c( F' ~While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

5 e0 r' o% c. f% f6 k) w+ u1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
. H" C  y9 r9 M3 STry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

! j. x( h1 n& \5 O& {0 ^0 ?2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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  c) |+ l4 h. Y0 K3 t8 |3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

. ~6 b' ]) a4 I% Q" n1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
, e$ A/ W+ i  W" k* q- \7 R8 yTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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