Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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4 d" F. g2 s$ ^* p! vWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

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/ m& _4 Z4 L! O: {Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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) a4 S+ {4 N8 B& @# z1 S. i5 a2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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( d: r4 m$ `7 ]1 p  e0 K3 R! A3.        Stay one step ahead
2 K* Z' B" ?# SLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
  i5 s' t# V3 ^From no to yes
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$ \- ^' i) f, VWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

, L7 R. K0 f) t# l4 L1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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