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Stop saying no to your toddlers

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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:8 L, L% y  c3 Y  f
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”5 H( l+ [5 t, m& ^
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.+ t; p6 V. z; P6 ~  u5 h

5 y  Y: n( \" j- _; [6 @& C+ r2.        Speak up when she’s good
# X/ L: I# K" k) C; l+ ?  WIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.8 t  U4 c' k* C. }6 d5 X

8 e' ]9 \; T; t. I  q6 h7 V3.        Stay one step ahead
9 U; p. f% c8 ^6 S5 qLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
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发表于 2007-4-12 16:15 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2007-4-12 17:52 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表 - R6 I( E: d$ |; f% S. V
From no to yes
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- ~/ h. C3 r! aWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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- ?$ k' [7 T; L+ t: n1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
+ E; H  J0 H5 ^1 l& l2 \$ J) wTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...
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 楼主| 发表于 2007-4-13 07:30 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”,怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案,希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。
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发表于 2007-4-15 10:44 | 显示全部楼层
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