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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you. To cut down:# q6 Q0 Q/ U1 G" X8 W* l# K6 M/ f2 U
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Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!” Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.” This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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( \" f$ t; X' B. i( |1 C' ]' d2. Speak up when she’s good
( h6 ~0 m( ~& D! z" A7 } X1 n: QIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.0 S& G' b5 k) B8 k. ?& z
# f P V \# I5 x; H7 e2 \" z3. Stay one step ahead
& s0 S' `( q2 l) V& {Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling. |
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