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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
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for youth at risk programs.
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" a! ^! h# H2 ^9 c, MThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
b% w1 c$ B3 B/ E4 g' t0 P! i- F+ mwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
' c% ~6 T$ y" w* A2 {man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. : {3 a+ }* {5 O
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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2 W0 U* H# V1 c7 Q7 @; o'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday / U2 O" i5 N5 S$ |. k- C3 i+ [
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 8 f, @7 A; b3 g) f
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, ( K; E* O3 s" L/ }- \, |- J9 f3 x
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
' |% u7 T4 s- m- vhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
& Y" b+ u/ d; M* \2 F* Phanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. ' v1 s" e) m. f$ p
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. # s% o' O8 r: P
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
c7 _( O- f9 h5 R; W2 c% G. e. {Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
( ^1 Q9 x5 M9 t- E& O9 vYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to , E8 E! C) ~" V0 y
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 2 h* j1 s9 Z; [4 Y2 Z& A1 x
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father ' b" \7 V! } M! S" |
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 8 I {( M# A U, A0 ]
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ; R" c( o# `4 G; o0 V) ~
you.’
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3 n' R) ]* N# K Y. v6 E( Z, R'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
+ }/ L6 o* j8 z) Fpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll + s+ g! i2 i) u5 Z' l5 Y) r
keep my dream.'' ) q) i# B; u2 g
& D2 H5 g* l1 F ~& \7 X! I7 e8 `Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 1 r# A- J2 c* T( L: {& U/ N
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 6 G. Z$ N$ a) t
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 0 {% y% p& M' g* \
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
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those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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3 S- E# k* M) X- cDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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