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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters6 d6 G; a# [. k: [9 Y
. s6 V6 q3 ^ {7 b- N: O% qThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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{: d. U9 ?* T( X0 I0 {9 i# O- mYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?& o% a* X( ^. h, i7 Q
Fine.
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6 v9 N8 h& ]/ S& p3 ]4 oThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.5 m Z, N; h1 C! T- [& W$ Z, `
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".2 `- `5 A% y) M" u) A) y
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Fine, thanks.8 |$ ]$ J6 ]6 L6 r) `( i5 _. s
2 R7 Z4 q5 ?( Z- HThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.) ~/ D, Z( \$ ?5 c
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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* p* _0 ~ i* {Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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: s; D8 A0 q$ d* P/ i" z3 @This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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+ b+ n8 q% F- L* W7 kI've been better.6 X, \+ A7 c7 f3 r, ]! y5 z
; T$ c, a) Y+ ePeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:9 F/ h/ B) n+ B" g: t1 h
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A: How are you?
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: l4 |+ m1 n" MB: I've been better.
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# H/ @" ^; c& gA: What's wrong?! Z R2 Y* M+ t7 d3 M |+ }
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.* V M* E2 G* w7 w
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How's it going?
) d+ ? H$ {8 x7 NThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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: `% u t3 c% e) |& IHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. / L4 @8 u* W: G6 P. a
9 B) ~: f9 a; m+ q6 cThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 2 w, j' c: F. _ c" Q1 O1 e3 q% Y
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What's up?
1 ] `( J; Z. W2 YThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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" M+ i6 j% i' L" B8 o- Y" ~Not a lot.2 [2 l6 i U6 Q7 j: P- O
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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) Q5 D- H+ [+ c. p2 I# MNothing./ e$ W" _2 b4 l" J" Q
u; [% F/ |. E L5 CThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.: d5 D5 S m ?& k* g+ L/ r
/ n: {* [) R; H9 k& x0 C/ QAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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1 k7 g2 f, @* j6 A- o2 N' t( GJust the same old same old.
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7 D1 I. O7 t& u {This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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+ \% I! D! y/ N7 l& I8 n lOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
5 h% j4 x/ ?) M( L# u- m" |This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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