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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters3 `# f' S2 r }7 |
$ H% S9 E; ]2 {4 |There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.! r: p1 Y: R! d+ {- R; F
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?
# A% f# `' h) R# e% T* o) w5 P( \% XFine.: s7 T2 M0 ^; _/ A
7 G; n( P$ @% N' ]This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.5 n, s' w e& }
' E& |' t$ V* \; z9 y5 j6 K7 ENot bad.$ e( _ a7 G& b4 u
: U3 u4 ~& m3 a! t9 w( fThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".& h. d- X4 t9 v. l) }9 S9 C! h; f8 G6 u
3 X5 y# S: N8 E- c3 LFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.% I- T! g; B y- H4 A
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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; H$ ?5 [+ l( g( N* nIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.) q4 q; c9 I3 |
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Great! How are you doing?
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2 @( \6 {1 u( P6 ^. o! J4 q" TThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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& B. l: q) A% {& kI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.! _- A9 ?- M# S6 Q9 M8 N1 E
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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* f, M' z! P6 \, u! L( bB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
: J; n& Y8 X& |* ~This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well., C# b, ~ w5 \( t9 E: s
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. . ]3 ? o0 w8 W' [- a
' ~8 R0 b( q" M0 {6 A! ^This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. / o% F8 t1 C: m6 G- n% S5 {+ J
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What's up?7 O( x, k* g/ T) S' k* E) P- j
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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6 j- ~% {$ t: P6 a* ZNothing much.
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; T; U) |! |/ n: V0 r- O% nThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."0 h; n$ @- ?' q% V6 g9 }. \
G, F, U5 Z4 j+ ?2 w2 ?, \% DNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.* ~$ V- X! u. W% r5 z
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Nothing.
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2 h0 c& q; b; `; \/ r! rThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude. ?7 E3 `5 y5 @- a% o; ~: Z
, P) e) h/ n1 {1 A$ vOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.1 t% s/ x) ]3 @; \' i( O) Z9 l g
3 E }" h8 l% o0 n( |6 r' gThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.8 h L9 e+ P' v5 b3 X
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; n6 X( i/ c- ?0 P) q: _$ \9 BYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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9 i5 T2 R! \% J8 r+ p7 YWhat's happening?3 b9 N& t% R1 c( l8 Q9 W* [
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.( G6 A9 G. m4 o: C/ Q* X1 [8 H
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