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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. 5 Z6 \9 }* B* G6 W/ F
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 4 z: A3 x( O8 D" |5 r. t" q$ C
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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8 \$ \7 v6 s% z"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 4 U* W) Z5 R. V+ _, K% [& h
just been presented with a new puppy. 8 P1 H+ V. a2 ^& C9 Y: V
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." 6 i, `$ w# o2 p- i
+ }; o' N( S0 s# g# a"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
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/ o& I5 Y9 {' ?9 ]It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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9 @+ C( x% L& s3 Q; v0 y- RI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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and be thankful for the ones that do.
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' m7 ^; z5 g' I0 T* I8 x, EEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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Just for this time in my life.
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- N! J; z( N! M. |Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank 7 I; O7 U y5 e" K& @
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
& L( x% D. ^! J1 I2 W& G+ pI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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+ H4 S3 W1 M8 [5 h 1. Free your heart from hatred.
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$ A8 `1 Y, Z D6 G 3. Live simply. E! C8 O# J# @3 a, l9 ]9 [1 ^
4. Give more.
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