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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court. B0 M" E2 Y! X1 n7 h: ~3 F
Google small court.
, C+ Y$ f# \8 t; G1 xThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
* Z( p% ]+ a! MIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 5 c) d7 d) g2 \3 j ]% ~2 g% n' ?
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.: S' d4 P% e% I% g) M
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