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When I was a kid, my mom liked to make: }, E8 N2 K& Y
breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in
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evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned0 `! L- o# r% Y& N6 O
biscuits in front of my dad.. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet
s6 Z9 ], r- \1 Zall my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day
, w% c6 J' v$ i5 u2 l5 }' r1 v ]was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember$ A+ H# m& q7 y C" w, r' \- n0 f
watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every
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1 Z/ v! \0 w0 T9 m9 W/ ~5 TWhen I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my
# x$ I( O5 F% u" n0 o; m5 ^4 Hmom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he q) }# N, W$ A X( R9 N9 \
said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."- y: I9 s3 Z' i2 f4 {2 F9 c4 V
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Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and6 j( M) f* @7 ]- U, Z2 R: U
she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"
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You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect% Q% ~9 m2 }, j' M# I8 R# u
people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and
: i/ l- v+ Z6 ianniversaries just like everyone else.0 P7 a- V! a) \9 I8 Q% x! ]& T
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What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate
4 {+ o% u% w3 K0 v$ p+ Geach others differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a) K4 q. Q2 f, k1 {7 i: Y
healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
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( v* |0 x& Q2 ?( ZAnd that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!% G6 D4 j: d1 M' ^& b
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We could extend this to any relationship. In fact,) ^* q: A- _* ]
understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or1 U, M5 K0 y9 @' y* {
parent-child or friendship!2 L6 }2 h3 H. P4 z! k0 u4 V( n6 I
$ u: K+ G( K* o# P8 x2 l: X"Don't put the key to your happiness in
* |+ e/ |: R: C0 k6 hsomeone else's pocket - keep it in your own." |
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