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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in - \! h6 k* g+ x. ?" ]! a6 D" B
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
4 X1 p7 O+ n f" r/ Q' C0 M' b; @> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 9 A% [5 o5 O6 I% e9 T! J
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then " @1 N- \, |6 v0 g3 O
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.7 z2 M K% y. }0 M+ B3 ]
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
3 t4 R; V7 ~4 n9 T> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
, b/ Y: R( z- H( M/ i5 L J> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
$ o& Q4 Z( @# p: t0 Q$ R> agreed it was.
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, X/ [: B' p7 l" K> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 6 S( }6 M# S/ o4 a
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
3 K d: s9 F+ }: \5 _ q% U& j> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 1 v4 P1 i4 N1 D6 t. C( D8 @
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
6 s/ W/ {3 W$ E" c2 x4 T> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
% F" Q$ {5 {, h+ ]> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 6 c! I) w3 S" G# Q/ C
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends + V$ \8 G" R+ B
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 0 H: n6 k" Q+ Z8 \6 N# E1 `
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and % U& u K: { \! R, l1 O
> your car.# d: w9 Y# o1 G
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& P& d# F1 Q c" d T6 {% f2 o> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
3 y1 u7 l8 e2 N. F2 X) Q1 e5 T$ Z. ^. S! k> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the * H0 @' _5 D2 {- K7 C: Y2 B
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 |; U+ l- M9 O2 N6 r> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
6 H1 }( K9 w4 K. D4 @+ a+ `. [> important to you.
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# k" l6 ?8 Q2 f1 H0 V> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + k) O- |% `1 |6 }
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 0 [2 _' p! b, Z% M5 m
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 8 g/ k; n2 r ~7 Q$ ^0 u+ ~ b
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and , t3 I- B+ w+ s/ q1 k5 n% }
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 7 Z+ G/ O$ g i) K" v
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."( U8 ~3 o: Q5 E
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
, s% }; g5 y8 h. R$ s1 O; j> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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$ x& B6 H2 J5 h4 i> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, / K) Z* q( k) I) ~, ^2 n
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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) V! y; Z" S5 d7 n8 E> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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