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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。% {4 Z- W* U! D, @: h' T5 _
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee) } U- ?/ H3 T# L+ T- g2 g3 k
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ' o: c3 K; b: }6 h+ L3 P
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
7 n; d4 ^& l: E8 _> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and - T* G, O' S* ^$ z
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 9 _4 A1 q& ?* s' ?
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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7 o0 x$ I3 _ R+ w7 y> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar $ @4 h; V9 ]% z" p- G3 I
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between . x$ h4 a4 @' `7 `; ^6 r: _1 c
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They % Z" }9 t# `: u0 O$ K3 }5 N5 n+ V$ O
> agreed it was.1 Y3 J: ]% F3 j. u
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
9 p0 R. E2 w+ O6 \) W! y! X> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
; c% |0 Y9 t0 [1 l0 Q> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."" l- x) H E( s0 f6 r$ e" `
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 0 |1 X$ p0 z6 U3 F7 K
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 0 p- L. y' N5 U- o# c
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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# E. O1 C8 I/ T ]8 |; ?( w1 u> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
( }8 i3 x) y6 g6 H> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
- h; b# a |# \, s> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 1 T D* D: d- B9 O* G
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
- Q1 c, I' X& y$ S+ k# e! a> remained, your life would still be full.$ ?. \9 I4 @6 q7 F! E! l; J- K
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( B4 u2 P% M8 q% E- j2 y> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ! T: ^* E3 ]% l9 m, Z
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2 i5 `6 z0 d3 J! b( \! U> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
5 M' ^+ x6 l& u( h1 n( s8 x F7 q> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 9 G L) D3 Q/ S+ Z
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
: q- c# W8 F5 G6 s" ]0 j8 I- ]> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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" J/ J; S" u& c& H> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend f y: l6 L. n4 |( N7 U% o
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ; x6 m1 N' `) g1 W- j6 q, \
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 6 {# T' h x1 t
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
+ C2 ^2 r1 w9 H> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ( U$ \' a9 I& M
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."$ X) C0 e. I" e. k3 O3 v: |
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! \. t% v3 H+ O7 Q9 M6 {> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee - o5 \+ c4 {; Q8 l2 i5 y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."! Y* d% Z1 N/ S4 R/ Y/ C2 V
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2 ~' L- M1 m7 a# q F5 q4 z( t> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
) B2 B0 Q7 V) e( u> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."9 Q( o# @: H/ |2 ?$ f" g1 O, T
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