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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。8 D" l* @, M1 I5 ]! q* w
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee4 h0 `0 u+ f |5 T
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in # @& S' C! q4 }; c" d; z) q
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of # J0 \3 @1 k ^2 g6 ~ \
> coffee.
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2 B8 F' `% x) R> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
+ Q, | i- V* |9 x2 N8 \> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ; ~1 X3 i# M! j9 z/ A' t8 A
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
$ D# O1 E$ C: s2 t> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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. e" k! Y7 h5 f% o> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 8 y; t a9 c0 x) W
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
- W0 N5 s, D, {) K3 c) Z> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They , }) O* Z+ \5 K
> agreed it was.4 t2 D% u$ k1 P; b
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 L: [1 q2 \' p> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 9 P6 h; l5 \/ K) s& T v
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."1 V# u1 V: u3 y0 k5 {* x1 c1 b
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! I' r5 {/ v! J7 w5 J2 W> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
# s$ }# j R4 h) m8 v! n7 y6 K3 ]1 c4 E> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
# n' } R* v l) {( j: P, V> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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" l/ F2 Y! _8 x/ M& n> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ' n8 D2 z: ]" r. h- b
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
2 f, }' K0 N. R1 y> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
" ?+ s! F$ P2 q0 x2 l> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they " m- E% m9 c+ t. M2 U4 v, O4 E
> remained, your life would still be full.
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8 f! C- d# S7 q2 y' y7 L \% n> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 6 u. i! U c9 q \
> your car.
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7 Q- F8 `# T" v. b( Z$ Q0 l> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ' w+ s% J& V5 {) R; B. z9 v
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
9 r" n! v! ~1 _ P9 N> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 7 M2 y, G. J3 d9 W* f Y. z p
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are W/ M" d) Z2 W- f- d) K, @( o% S. k
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 9 I) M( {) i/ }/ w# n
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
" A' z' z1 S3 F+ S# Z0 P> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
# V. {" z2 Y \( U) u/ b1 H> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 0 B9 p9 A7 W( k f- @$ k; z- g
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that + u) [- F9 @& T
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."- F4 t: v) p* Q. x' f/ e
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee , {- W& @8 z4 Z0 g+ Y2 M8 S
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
# @8 e y3 D5 h0 f% j> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend." N# T4 o I) q6 k1 X6 D! R, f. T. p
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' ~! G- J% c% A9 f3 E- o> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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