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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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4 ?2 X& _6 J1 x" E& ^9 P> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 9 r6 i$ u0 f: w$ ~, Q1 `( _% i8 w
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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) O/ v. i( l2 _$ I1 ?% T> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 9 x+ @$ o9 Y" m$ B
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 6 {+ h8 G: a9 x! L8 n; S; y: c3 G5 N$ v
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
6 c0 d1 ~3 c4 y& b> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: _. c: y# l- Q7 d- Y P+ C% n
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
" J( i( \7 x& J; h3 M> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
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> agreed it was.
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% P, C, L- O9 v> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of # Z. j; q0 ^" h
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ! v0 h" s& T, h" s
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 k E) y% Q. P* l4 l
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
3 F: k7 b7 c+ `! K% C> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty : |2 o0 w: b* `9 ?
> space between the sand. The students laughed.' f) a+ b* S6 q7 H
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0 [9 _. R) F* |0 o0 n& G, p> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 5 @# |* f; f' q
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the , I2 P( \1 ^. J; ?. i
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
4 x q, @& p) U) R1 @* X: l> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
$ E' J+ m$ T) t; {# j> remained, your life would still be full.6 v& T: C/ q8 }
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
l3 [" ]* m6 t, S2 j> your car.9 p& V# G0 Q& b& N( d; }7 i: {1 W
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9 k/ {- W3 Z+ {9 t, w7 ]& k> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 7 S; W- b k3 b5 ~: x
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ( ^1 }0 ?7 K3 I* w! X! P
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 7 K5 r) y! s+ l$ c) Q( e
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ! M' t5 l. j; N
> important to you.9 s. [8 w( i$ F+ w3 G3 E
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
8 @: { ] C- I> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 8 x0 g& x3 h3 i2 B
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " a ]/ U" Y' t) S) D. z4 v
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and - ^ ?( E5 C% `+ Q# W3 T" L" J
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that V8 r' U/ S2 ~8 k/ n# N
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand." @$ J* Z- }% ]! Y; y- U
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8 O% h$ E6 O) P& V3 N+ E> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
. U% ?- H. `8 E7 B$ g4 H0 }7 M> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked." F1 f8 L8 l% @) U7 r4 l1 R
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, # y4 n: l- s! q7 X" U/ s T9 @ U
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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2 L0 s2 c# }! j) q) F> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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