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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。1 e+ v. q5 B9 ^0 V
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
$ J" L; B8 W' [- S0 k2 w: t> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in + G. U+ U8 d4 {( \0 D
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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( U, V! W0 }$ k( i6 n* y( K% M> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 3 B1 |- P. k# k* \$ x2 X
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
% O ^; g& A* w- K> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
0 s# l5 `8 a# M3 k6 y> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
0 a, i0 {5 |& c9 A9 O; K& M2 i> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between , I# X; B9 ]8 c1 r& S
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
' g1 U. F6 p' P# S> agreed it was.9 Y2 l4 x; T9 Q3 O2 C' a
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
: \. J6 |4 h; `+ C- q# F! ~; @# g> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar # T" C& C3 }8 H3 g1 u( c @
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
, o" Y* [. E$ E> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
% M# {1 e1 z- N: ? o% }: a3 M0 t D# s> space between the sand. The students laughed.2 w( I# |, p. t4 U4 a' @' |
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5 |9 s# @; {- z ^> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
( Y3 Q: A7 s; C/ R5 i @> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the , ^* C1 Z5 @* o( V
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends $ g+ p( i. j% O' B, e2 Z: Q
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
3 B9 V$ T, `( e2 K> remained, your life would still be full. }9 f6 f) f0 `$ E0 \
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ; \2 }* p; i+ U, z# N' k
> your car.
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3 v$ ^, g6 x& @1 T! `, E; T> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 7 k7 {# a0 m; [, B+ F" }3 ]) U
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - O$ _. u" L9 Y3 O
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
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; ~3 f/ V; R% C> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend " {8 @3 F" z. ?1 M5 f. ^7 T( R
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with , D5 O+ f/ a. K" t4 H1 _
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 9 x1 i0 x; H, a5 r, c. Z0 B
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
, x* |4 O) _' a/ e3 m> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that , T. R+ T4 v9 R r
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 7 _. p. O) X5 u
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
4 ~* [7 b4 r0 H9 v: a2 k/ O l7 |2 j> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."* Q. A H4 d+ A/ d
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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