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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
/ N0 w# d, J" r: R( T- d$ g> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
' ^- L- \( s& Q: ]> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
0 A5 [/ J# {: k> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
; y+ a. U% d5 N; q% H9 P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
2 r2 o w2 B' B> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
F$ p e) M/ r0 U> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.5 {- J6 A9 j F# i) F
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
5 S& l( U4 N( Y* ?, C) V! h> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between . y" ~2 [9 x. g0 m" I) m- w9 G
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
5 j- d% [8 g0 c+ |0 e> agreed it was." h+ V2 }- Q; a# @" c* _" x1 @
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ! A6 `' ?% ?/ i; ^" Y7 S/ S
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
8 e: W" K2 ?% O$ _> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes.". D, O* |9 G9 i& G% X
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
/ t1 }# v6 H3 N# M# M> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty , g0 r% C$ S" f, l" k
> space between the sand. The students laughed.8 {# a0 `! R* ~) a2 O: Y. I3 `
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 4 e8 f9 _, c! A+ @" g) x
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
9 y2 |# x7 c) u4 `. U6 \5 E> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
5 ?6 r9 }$ }) m3 U+ T8 F- o5 ?! j2 Q& I> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
& f/ t% f7 s: z2 e> remained, your life would still be full.0 p- N# q$ k/ Y7 s6 j
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# ~9 o1 d; @1 G: _4 @6 c* }> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and : j( `8 e4 r4 e8 P
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 0 u; E9 w: b5 Y8 V8 s2 b
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the : q/ d1 ^6 S# ~5 Z
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy T3 g, |) d( ~/ J
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are - {) G- G9 E p# F( [' i% l: F
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/ Q; ^) F. E% S! `/ T> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
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> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
; v9 y% I% w2 {. G' z$ }> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and % H, ]; Q: C$ B
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
5 n I; u0 y3 A: I. n: J* v> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."* g8 B: F! Y5 k$ y$ o
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9 z$ g" U1 [. `+ l/ g> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee * c4 ]0 l+ B& w0 a
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
5 m* R# b, l' z> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."$ S% R1 I/ S P
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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