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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
% [$ K! O# k) W- J2 f, i ^> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in % F" _% M0 U y' r
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 5 I4 z- x2 X' w7 [1 C5 t
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
% v C+ I# R. K6 s# Y* P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
- X8 E' N1 b) r% I> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
' D8 c7 L8 F+ y" `, C2 J> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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1 R, J. U- Y& l- O# q; a0 d> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
$ N+ h2 u/ m0 \. J$ N> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
" S3 E* c% u- l! |' g `: F> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They % z4 V& J0 Y. Q9 T T( d6 u
> agreed it was.' I8 w" l4 v* J* p
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
0 g' q' Q, J0 N% l `> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 _. U1 Q2 Y7 X6 @8 W7 p& ]> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."! \% V$ y4 C8 g
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9 Y- R" R0 r& n H; ?+ }> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
3 V9 T; L' j7 b% B> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 7 @- M" }- }8 S" P3 w" N
> space between the sand. The students laughed.. K5 @2 y' z" O; n, T L
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ( p7 x/ S% [ Q: O; w
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the * j* A, e+ ]' R& E3 O
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 7 m8 r+ Q) K5 D% A7 H, B, ^
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 4 s I0 Z1 X3 v1 }1 K" |. K6 w! y
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
* ]2 m! j C- c& a+ x) y Q4 u> your car.: a& e' p7 G* v5 @
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
) Z% o& ^! v2 L5 I$ b> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the * R+ ?/ x8 o+ D) _1 h7 V4 R2 J
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
6 L6 Q9 O+ Z s6 X* q> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
- O1 H8 X' P5 J8 C1 A> important to you.7 ?9 S3 I) f4 q! w
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3 q/ F/ I) j! Q0 J> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
6 a- x* P# B$ f4 u1 ?& a. a> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
' {+ L4 R' Y) a4 m& f- c2 x1 @> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- Z6 i3 K; C7 H3 y> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
" B6 [; I' d- ~* ^3 {0 b* s> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that ' U, ~0 f$ @3 T2 b% K
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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& E- ?/ @& ]5 R7 ? a$ z> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
+ u3 H& G/ E# f* q> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 S' y2 ]8 c* e) @$ ^
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
5 n3 o- e( m5 E, m) d4 b- V# d& n> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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