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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
' D. l, `8 t5 S4 [6 ^> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee+ X9 v- |6 \8 F1 X
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
! i7 x5 u; u/ C( g% E- P: t> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + b' M+ s' r6 N% j( a1 E; e+ b* w
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% K. x3 r% l8 z4 M$ N2 M> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 8 m' U& C" w+ G& Z# ~/ k
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and - S- s! N+ t% M# L; ~
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then " _$ Y* M2 Q U
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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9 [( E9 E2 U c4 q2 F> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ; {9 w0 ~, ]" d3 b
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ( N# J) K* X k- i! P( I
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
* f5 i( j) R9 c5 x) c u> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 3 R' ^# l) n, ? K6 Q2 J
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar : Z: }2 r- |- b$ b# y5 K9 A
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."# E" T2 G8 ~! Y W
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, N5 }' ]; F+ P1 z; h, v7 B> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ' f. I& B: [7 W
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
0 c% O: n# g% F/ t; I# `& T> space between the sand. The students laughed.3 _- y+ r1 g4 F$ E, _. H. W
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" N& c3 v7 s9 ?) x> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ; W( I- r6 q$ K
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
& v$ K, z! s, A! L& h% X$ |! F> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
0 V5 M" E0 q$ a> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ! e" N% w7 a0 Y! x; @+ ^8 o
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
3 G* V# F& i5 D7 t> your car.8 y- _. u5 `) _0 I6 L/ i, c6 W
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* D1 A: X x+ u9 p/ G b> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
; x* U$ x& F6 G5 |> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the , _9 J( f' M- y4 J
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 8 T1 [- z5 a/ w0 N" O2 d# z
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
2 t* h1 O0 ^ M> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
2 z- ^) D2 D% m! P; y/ Q> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 0 @% W/ z- A ~$ C8 G* o* b
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
7 @/ r {9 w9 l; D> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
7 a1 R: e2 E- X/ t6 k$ N> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."9 k, a0 T( ]7 E. m* _# c
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9 a" ]* e9 c9 O> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
1 O; Q/ _) s) L- v! X> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."$ M: C( h. b; }- w0 m+ R1 h, L
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
9 L W3 `( B z g0 s" l4 d7 S> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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0 m( O" Y3 H/ t" y4 H> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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