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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。2 _& l2 X V4 M; Q. C
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* q [. h( { b- |
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
: G( v3 u0 K+ p. [, Z- A> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and % S+ g$ f2 d# F9 L& ] N0 ^4 v
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then # |1 ]# V6 B. u
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.5 p3 ]9 H3 r5 u, E( c ~+ I, K
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
0 P* x$ i. ?' s0 U6 u/ o% P* G> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
7 n. @( f+ l! \0 p> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They $ `" j j3 B: l8 e. b* ~- Z$ v' h
> agreed it was.7 w; b+ M# o1 y! |$ F a
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1 Y/ |5 N% c8 C6 m> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of * p4 i: Y/ }6 X" D* c7 B# r' E8 y
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 0 y( `* S# D( F) `! x; C) U
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 8 z8 c+ d# p ^$ _
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
/ S1 D/ `- w/ Z* }6 E( n> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ( H4 \. L% i2 h+ Q. [/ v/ L
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the & g& A9 {) A9 p# b$ V
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
% A% t- o; T% {% Y/ }> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
# N* H8 C' ^$ R8 N> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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4 V5 o6 z% R; S; [3 f' x> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into + q+ ~0 V% Y/ y
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
! [' W4 N, l" ^> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
1 r- J. a7 J& s) m3 }# ]% u> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ! q* _. Q9 x% H
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" ]' g6 N/ K2 G8 F: F& }2 |5 `> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
* D" \2 U) h+ H9 X; a> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
: n6 G7 ^$ t b6 r8 z> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 5 J" z0 i- s+ ]& J: Y
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
+ [) g' |3 T9 ^# x> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
u/ t# j2 E8 C k7 R' E- ]& ^$ {8 Y> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."9 ~' X: P& f* G; U4 l5 M
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@' G6 i3 J: @/ c1 f> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 6 v6 U. Y2 Y8 c7 f) v3 U) ~
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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5 H5 u; E R/ O. h8 i6 r% ^> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
5 S3 R {! W$ S6 Y2 }> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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