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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。: y9 M( C4 j" t& p2 d \
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* @# D* \; o2 d _
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 7 s' D, ^. B% ^/ T w. Q' X
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of : u" y2 s/ v5 ?0 C- C) A
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5 _6 o) Z# p& H& T: n( l9 `> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
* C! F2 B' p; W# N$ ^1 e> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and # o3 G R8 Z# N% ~1 D! ?1 D2 `& F
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
1 F& ~/ [# `6 ^# K> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.# ]2 t) _ o: @
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$ s: _# q' n6 P1 k> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar & X9 G! A% g+ Q# y
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between * b/ I' D& S4 @" X
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 5 U* I# b( B' B2 }: K4 N: J; u. L" o
> agreed it was.( n& o) B8 g3 U' `* }- y
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+ z7 z/ o) ^' U1 T> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
* d7 ^( d0 R7 G1 a> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 4 @7 S/ w' b* }7 b/ b; _+ u* Z
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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/ u7 e- b/ m3 L6 N> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ) d: q/ E" D5 G% b4 X
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty . }4 @1 O9 W U: ?% `
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ) f; x a+ _: B& Y$ z. L
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
) m# {) p9 h) y" ]. @/ b* F/ Q0 g> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
2 c: o8 ~: R/ w6 ?> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
) e) B% v* H5 f* v7 \0 b6 d5 _9 K' t; o> remained, your life would still be full.* s, ] a- P6 V' |
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8 V8 @) z3 {7 N> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and - U0 Z( e1 Q; Y- b6 [0 Z/ `0 I4 o
> your car.* Q) o# s- s: ?; E' i, \$ v. P5 j
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$ a, }/ c7 p* } x> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 5 @+ f2 I6 ?5 L+ d o7 E
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the * D* x0 A( P, S0 W& }& q
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
3 k" M' E1 ~1 x) S- \ h. J* O# V* e> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are % s' E2 ]7 V; u7 D
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend $ [% j& v5 C9 F5 Q* f1 A
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ ?) S# \* b, O) ^: I& E> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
0 Z) d& M* Y/ D# Y! f/ q! a* h; l> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and * b8 b; o* [5 ~, l) q+ i
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that % {- `. k2 P- o# _1 x
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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2 H' ], }+ z1 g% z1 ]% C> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
# A/ p4 K4 |* A4 i6 [5 E> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 v9 l& U% ^/ o) y8 \9 d G- k
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3 @5 v3 m0 G7 ?- Q J> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 4 U4 c2 O) z0 [7 x
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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: s6 E: W/ I. n3 H> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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