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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
& F9 e& h. V5 U6 _$ }> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
" P. v& S( r& Y! l! h+ Y) S. w$ v# r> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 2 X( f" M4 Y4 ^1 ^: q2 S# u/ g
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 5 d7 n, \! {/ Z3 w' `
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 4 Z* Z9 v4 _9 G
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ' O7 M7 F( ]+ g# O/ b+ K5 F7 _! i
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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0 k( N3 [ }, s% q& z> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar . N5 a6 {1 p2 k$ @0 H; ?1 h, i$ w
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
0 n- j' N+ D: o9 a8 u> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
9 ]; F1 o/ y: L/ \> agreed it was.9 J4 m$ g2 d+ {4 w
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( U+ f$ K) u0 {% r3 A> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of " L' h8 m, I Y/ M# y3 a- l
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 8 d1 ~! ^; m& t9 x0 e, s/ {
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."8 [$ B) N0 P3 x! A
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 1 @# T, K7 L# r% d4 t% v
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 D1 ~) N7 H( q
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
7 s3 K% Z5 Z: x7 |/ f. N N7 Z9 a4 s> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
5 \( a* w- Z2 q+ f% I& A> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends % N* s3 ]6 W Y) S
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ' h1 U8 d5 X4 Y I" y( H- Z
> remained, your life would still be full.
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. H( T; [: `3 G, M& J* i> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 5 J9 H4 X; I" i& h/ i2 G( B; y: S
> your car.; n" C0 R5 Y9 Z$ A7 D4 \- S
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 4 k. b' f; N% y! O
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
: _5 b" F6 H8 ?4 t6 B k> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
5 |$ V. w$ @5 O( m> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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$ Q4 J: t" G& T4 w> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + X& j2 M2 `7 L* p* @
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with $ f7 ^( J/ G) l% O6 X9 I
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 3 t3 |+ a( C) l7 }( T# e- m
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and : ^3 u3 A& c: L: w3 ^1 Y y
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
4 V p: V. X' `% F> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 4 K2 C0 \6 H7 ^) }7 B
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 8 l$ H( l" G3 F8 k9 H+ n$ e
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."" d! k8 c# l! a$ T$ K5 l
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7 _/ s( S U2 i7 @! B> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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