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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
/ x8 O1 F* M. ]" f# F$ @$ N> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in % L) X- G2 P Y
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of ! H: k$ `! J5 t, Q
> coffee.
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& V& W1 e7 K7 c6 k1 W- y/ h3 a> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 2 N5 G r4 H+ A
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ) d: h$ o7 G) H+ v& s" E" ]
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 0 M6 m y# |' w" K2 I% K; M z, D
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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, Z6 ?0 \6 {: M7 _9 }. L> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ) o# G6 H2 X" W
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between g/ s. ~) o1 l: J9 P
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( u$ t) J. h" V& t, ~+ D. H' s- K> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
- V+ a% \1 o U; s1 i' f: N> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
1 Y% q$ q r! H> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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0 R& D% C7 C% D% r6 ^# E: {( f> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
8 ~1 W( w9 ~+ K, J" V> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
! w4 I6 Z7 M8 F# P# M6 v6 n, L9 L> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to * E* q2 g/ ?- O' s* o ^; ]
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the & q) C4 m7 Y7 t" r" [4 }
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " j3 G2 T, x) l D
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
0 s3 k5 e; y+ o, E) F- ?) l. {( Y> remained, your life would still be full.) c5 O: p- r. W/ ~8 [ @9 ~8 }, d
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& {7 W4 \* ~1 B+ F> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
. ]+ U2 E: D1 ^7 _& R: f' D> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 0 y s) c2 ^0 _( ~3 C
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the , \2 G& b: G7 i5 w! Q
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
( h) Y. ~% l( m) H" w* g> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
1 _3 L6 t1 s/ _0 m/ d& N: D* X1 b4 m> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ) K" t) ?/ ?3 I( U% D3 c
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with + T) T* b# q# W3 Q
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
* p: Z2 c2 S* d- e4 E; a> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and - w) F$ Y. d# o' k5 U5 ~5 n0 a" {: O
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 1 _ V7 `( y1 Q8 `
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.". X/ W# r2 \2 I( T
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
! |( O: A" [- ^: q8 e y& `> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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4 \; _1 o {( l I8 z* X0 X3 d> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ' e, ^& c4 i7 D" Z/ ^
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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