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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
- W8 H# b8 x5 @! a, P- D- g> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee% E: D, Q2 X; q' \- L
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
, k. ?: y/ a H9 p0 @4 a> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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$ b, {4 G* g) w3 [8 y> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
& x4 L; n- m. G( `+ ~% I1 b' ]( M> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and $ G9 @$ J# }1 [: s; s0 t
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
+ O* |7 q$ `& ?' F# U> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.% R! I" ~) r: Z* K6 G0 u* n
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# C- u9 E( U" ^9 L> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
c! ?: A1 ?7 o) a! D> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
7 d' ^5 R$ _. A> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ?; N, u3 t$ b+ x
> agreed it was.+ P7 Q- R0 d( R( }! D$ L! V' z
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4 E" L+ j9 H, ~7 f> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
( ^ b( s- v/ \. e( u4 x> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
2 l* q( m( S( y" t> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."# D' x$ b" E5 L& R! S7 p/ F, A
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3 Z6 M- m L. _) `, ~> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
* _3 t }$ J8 w> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
, G- R! j' W4 |2 D> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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2 \+ I0 p4 P3 h9 x$ |> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
' @) y9 f0 Z6 |. \3 G> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the . r6 e& G: f' V
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 8 T% \6 ^0 l0 N
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
: x# b$ G" A) ~2 I# R& u' _> remained, your life would still be full.* Z! o. J1 I2 ?/ L1 V$ E
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! U% M, r' U c" V- t: x! U+ |> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
9 A( w( M8 \) O+ N7 k> your car.# f- S' M ^& k2 F8 w, _+ T3 ?- }
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% \& m: x8 \. ?+ y7 H; @> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into $ k6 m+ m' k8 G9 B' V
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
& Y$ x, \+ j8 H* O2 P> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy , n6 _. O' q1 e, m6 V8 v" s p3 j
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ; a) h" h: T% G+ v5 E! n3 J
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend * E- M+ p2 }& t1 @ u( z1 d
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 8 S& v% E) f& k
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
, a, L1 D# D1 |! J2 ~' t+ |> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and . S- Y3 m2 V4 N6 E8 s
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that k) l& s# z; x% s
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee # I- i# {, N( x+ H2 S# l3 E+ u
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 \+ }9 G, n9 A
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* G$ G+ p8 `# a+ u) F> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 4 K8 R) r( V. p: e) d/ ^
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."& A' k* }1 ]' {9 p3 n3 R
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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