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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
% o/ T4 Q6 B: d* K) x$ l0 ^> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
. M( _% g& a; R0 b0 d4 m. r. {> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
8 C1 E! f9 L3 h2 I1 N1 N> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 5 R7 J+ M( P" g% A8 q+ k" B7 r
> coffee.
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0 Z9 V/ _ `/ f& L> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 1 w& o( k; P7 C+ x( \
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and $ e8 ^' d9 q8 y* }6 y0 R$ P$ G
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then , i8 a) O; x6 W/ C) [# q$ P( T& ]
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ' G* i3 e& H4 Y J Z
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between , P7 {2 }0 |: Y- }- R) ^, a# P
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They # |% C' y4 |! R7 H: \7 n O
> agreed it was.
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! q0 ^2 _* o6 \! Y> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 2 @% s8 E. j( u# G2 y1 n2 U
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar # X8 l p: b8 w* Y2 [$ m
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."3 f+ Y, j" {3 x
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
: K; C8 ~0 u/ m4 o$ K% W> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 1 \; ^. N1 q# C* T
> space between the sand. The students laughed., B- i6 x: s$ [0 h) {
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4 ]7 a- Q t' K7 f3 q3 W> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ' g' M `6 W# r
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
( J$ p. T7 g: r5 n# ?4 V l> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
/ ~3 U$ {* N! _' K0 `9 ~) ^> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
( T9 R6 p1 s# }" y> remained, your life would still be full.
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: h J$ J& _! a' v4 e3 R9 c3 r4 p> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 6 r, H% F2 J3 ~4 P, W1 @% q
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into + Q+ O0 l5 F( v' e! b5 G1 W `
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 7 n0 L) ^( z D, v4 ?+ {/ B
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 2 J+ I( m' ^1 ^
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are # m3 l0 x* E$ G& [8 }2 ^
> important to you.
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. v& D* p$ j; a/ [3 J- _ F> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ' f7 _* B2 j4 A9 ?
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 3 ^3 \9 f; D) g! r8 B) T8 d
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
- d- Q0 t: K8 q; z7 T& {> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
) ~9 R6 f) t! X> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
7 K, a, f n2 _% A* g> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."! I+ p8 U7 G: w x% P0 s b
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
d. Z1 l3 w9 [ \) H. j/ j6 j> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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* c; e6 _. F$ V) B: T> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : J+ @/ o2 C1 G$ l7 a) p4 ]" P) N
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."* p2 j, }! d( N; t
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3 X9 y. u7 m% V7 X3 g> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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