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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* N3 W5 Q9 P+ S. j4 c
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
6 e6 U8 m i9 |: T: H> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
+ b8 q; o; g/ ^2 [$ u3 n2 [" @> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and ( F. u0 U5 `( f5 i
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
0 }, _& m$ m7 m5 q> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.% G2 R0 Z' s# q' ], C# \, l3 G+ G" |$ V
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! Q% Y4 T; `3 a8 p2 o. m$ Q> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
$ y+ q5 s0 J y: ^4 ]> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
$ m- t8 Z! u6 ]6 f> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 0 ?3 e; }3 o" \; Q j
> agreed it was.; H, ?2 M6 b- {3 ]* q2 u
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 a V/ p1 U x+ J) |: X0 k> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar i. x1 h7 }9 K9 p) Y* C+ z
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
|( ^2 F. i6 L. ]/ P8 j5 Z> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty % { L- n' G4 d! f8 }
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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9 Q/ R; r+ |! w; `> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
: R- l% ~5 ~; S4 k> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ( o. E! S5 ]) Y/ @
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends : ~9 V% ~# o. F0 H0 L) D
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they $ J- p' ^ L2 `5 L
> remained, your life would still be full.! D3 L! ?. g, s3 X; `
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 5 i" C- q0 t3 v$ E1 i- t( \. s
> your car.& ~: J8 T/ C$ X6 H8 T
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
4 k$ I& H+ z" H# Q" B0 |> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
: Z: n* t' n }) b5 F! `' S> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
3 B$ j1 r5 U$ D1 f/ @& ^: q3 u> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ; i" S/ P( w. ]! a' K
> important to you.# I9 D4 u6 M! @. M5 j: q. Z5 q
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" u! R8 [6 k! c: L& m! Z> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend / q9 N. K: q8 k3 v* R, c9 x
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
2 W* c5 @6 d1 f; ~& O/ y> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
1 K5 r7 Y/ K) ?; ^> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and , \; `; ^3 ~3 o p6 \
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
' {. K: T' C& r9 W, k> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."0 J* T- H4 S/ o* R# i) I# s. C0 C/ Y
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# J, I1 r- E3 }/ i: c7 X> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ' x5 K' f3 r3 j
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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+ u2 b; `- ?: @ e4 x> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 9 L% k) E3 t! ~: V5 i |: M
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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7 o& Z x' a( G: T. U( ?- O; |& k> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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