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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
9 D5 z5 G. Z# t( I> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
; n& G w$ s5 `2 e" b" O, R> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in & d0 K: I0 [! |( c1 c* n
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
0 w; D Q1 Y7 u+ V; q> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
/ V1 g+ e% ^( i& [' [: A> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
( e' u$ |( k& A9 x> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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/ D. S& o9 I+ ]9 B9 J> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 a5 D/ c. z2 R0 R' x* I
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
$ B A, z( K8 q" J! A> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
- w5 k4 z% ]/ q0 v> agreed it was.
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9 E- q3 K* [+ \& W* w> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
# ^. J- X0 X" b6 P, z& ?> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar & t$ c$ z7 l8 t! U
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."( n, e7 @6 r) B& T8 d6 _! y
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 8 i4 r% u& p7 ~, W% h0 C+ m; l! h- S" f
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty & w3 m# `9 s" V5 i5 v
> space between the sand. The students laughed." t U x1 \0 S7 c S& J8 C
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* W2 \( Y7 G# W6 i7 M> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ]" q$ \" u& R9 H7 w
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
5 f- T: b* N9 k( P: {> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
. Z S8 ^3 f, }5 X- J& u> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 4 J+ f6 c# v ]8 H
> remained, your life would still be full.0 X1 ]; H$ V }& g$ X+ w( m
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ( H6 d2 Y! S8 q6 y2 T* q8 V* Q
> your car.% U c% E% E1 B
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
' N7 I* x9 u. ?- p3 s> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
2 |, g3 ?: F6 F: X/ O& n> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy : C I) ]. {8 O; ?; c' C( _
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , K# Q* G- j( L
> important to you.3 B# K( a3 |9 T; \: N H& d
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend # u! C: c4 P$ w6 f; b+ q7 T" f
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
# y9 P6 B* N I {0 Y> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to : D+ U( B: m, N: t8 ]3 w0 {$ l( _2 s1 l
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ( e, l. \8 \% M3 ^
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
0 x. A$ u! j$ a1 l> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."& u2 |( ?8 w+ Y
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2 _0 z; U* R- \% B4 J5 X: b> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee : i& h/ t/ K0 s2 y% s$ K
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."8 c. n) k8 e' n5 p9 {
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ; X- \8 m1 y; ^6 b) Q1 {
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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3 ~$ \0 H$ E. a g> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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