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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
, T, ?' I, [. N; l) t4 S# ^, J> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee/ X% V4 E" H; E
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
( ^: n" Q6 C, h3 L5 D7 ` f9 p J> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ( D3 V) c. X# Z% x. c
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
. H& K6 p+ a$ Q; [' d8 ]- F# E7 u> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
8 a: | g3 l' n4 F- D> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.' h6 j5 @/ W5 m: i
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: A1 b5 J) W& h) k> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
0 z1 H& |9 W! U2 j: s> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
4 t8 Z( C/ I9 ]/ s$ _& U5 b3 E, ~) V> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
8 E. ^5 P w" H. | z> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 7 a" t& S9 A* X$ R
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
/ O& Y- l& W1 m C J$ Q7 A, l> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."5 \* C" ~, e6 h( y- y, t2 p
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8 O! U! F5 u) [$ V. I3 ]! H+ y0 u D> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 9 y! J9 i9 @" q
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
; L! g$ x: N* E3 ^* N! @> space between the sand. The students laughed.- d( a% @% f' Z' y: F" I) r6 |
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( l; g$ Y- _3 Z1 q> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
. U+ | ]# [: R$ i% R" Y; L# b> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
* _* l5 N. d. t2 ?/ L> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " M6 a- L9 g! I& r
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
' E8 z' g' j2 |$ \> remained, your life would still be full.
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2 D; N3 w0 y% v; c% j, X> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
% ]; w! n6 s0 `; R> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
% ~7 o; i$ @1 S' O2 W> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ; y" q- c$ p# A G- ]1 K
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy # x1 v$ D9 Z1 c: p0 e
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 2 ?* s! L5 Y! y, e
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + b. H( ?# r g" a2 ^' S
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
7 c U, J) b9 h! r3 Q> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to & M3 x. C+ g# h3 b+ p6 c7 M
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 9 d7 N. h6 x$ H6 \% g. @. `4 i
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
% K- s8 R8 f+ y1 n1 l# ?> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."5 u2 X0 @/ K3 f; V2 `; N, P$ G
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
# R- g w' P" Q9 J% t6 N> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."5 r! ?8 R( U2 Y l+ ?7 t
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 7 F" a8 d5 z2 u+ Q
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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