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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee! V+ L8 A1 L0 u, D, k0 P8 Q( h
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 3 V; d& D a" W* H2 S( T2 x- c. j
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
! n5 v9 u3 w0 |- X0 I( T5 E7 \> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
n/ Q4 m) l4 P9 |; Y> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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Z0 I% U0 \( V> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
% X/ y* l- Q/ d- @* N$ K7 z& I$ }> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
& X7 C5 M2 \7 b8 V A9 L% ]! _2 s> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 3 Y; C% A; w8 Z
> agreed it was.: W0 r2 u( r" r' |+ H
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$ v& i- @3 P, B7 T5 k; z> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
: p- ]1 z' L) l- Y6 c9 ~4 M5 x> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 7 c6 O% L6 q: L$ g' m
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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) @3 V2 K3 l. {& J2 a9 H> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 2 D# X% R/ d o2 Z
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
7 J: Y$ T) a% g8 z* f> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
! n8 t' x% R) R4 T> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
5 l5 L9 K9 m6 u2 H' E> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ! K7 C7 w3 C: V2 i7 G/ G, b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
8 q7 z2 n( f& A3 }, H5 x: s2 k: t> remained, your life would still be full.
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' @7 s7 P3 a/ W8 P/ j> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
5 O) H; `& [: E7 d' F> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
0 t3 b1 W$ O5 X! d7 p8 S4 R) O> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
- N. {- v5 a3 c5 b4 O1 c+ \/ D> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
1 F0 [0 \0 q) ~; M2 b> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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' C) \) H# [: x& `4 ~> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend . Y$ l; j0 c4 q. k7 f+ Z# w& J0 \
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 2 U9 L. H& M+ v7 j) M9 ^: j4 O5 O. A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ m& Y. f2 m- ?8 R
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ( V5 @9 c/ i# U/ M2 Q" T+ t0 V
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that * O. d* r* r* G
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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9 V" x1 E3 @0 Q/ [> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 2 }& z1 ` w8 @& C, F" }
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, . e% h1 h- `) _" ?0 L
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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- d* x, @4 Y* B% H7 |> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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