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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
9 l' i3 e7 h" o E> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* ~% n& j9 |- C2 C
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 2 r0 K3 V! R x8 |6 V: @# I' _
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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3 `. I/ G' i4 w* O& E- t> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ! h$ t. T7 r% ^7 ` A
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and $ B3 d) p5 ~) [' H) ]
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
+ m" l {/ N& j+ L! O. A* N: c> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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4 ]& |$ O0 j6 _4 ^* D: B> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
6 A [! \9 Y9 M4 M/ v! ?* C0 r0 f> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 9 |( z/ I7 x, ^5 ~0 D& o
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 3 m$ v4 U( c2 T6 `
> agreed it was.
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* I, p" E+ D) ~> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ' i7 a0 J/ L3 M- E
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 8 b( d# ?3 s/ i8 G
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."1 e* W$ N' Y" q1 y' u
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% g3 b. v1 n8 J R8 U> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ! | t: L7 P7 z5 H
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 6 B6 V5 k: J, w t
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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! S$ V0 s) d; O' H6 [, W> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 5 k1 D; O8 |& c( \4 h
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the " h! O: `& u* @3 l+ u2 K2 K
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
; I! _( h4 E: i8 R6 f' r, [+ b. ]" o> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
9 Q; C2 s, w. a1 O8 K> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into & o$ u) S' Y5 R9 A' t5 C7 @
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
" z1 S( @' l0 x; H4 m2 x' X> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ( O9 D. y/ t. H0 v! ?& `- ~
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
]9 ?. G3 d+ W+ I: x4 Z2 D- h> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
; Z: ]. F% q& b* r4 V+ n> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to ' u) ^- V3 b7 u' @( t
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 5 t; I( i" o6 _0 m" j
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 7 O) Q) Z9 b4 J2 Z& x) n- E
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand." i' O1 U. C' B8 }! `, y
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( }( m- f9 | v$ {4 F$ `> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee . H; |7 _' h$ e9 o* V: h
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, ) F% U8 i3 {; ~& _1 F- r
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."5 Y5 g. V1 x8 ^9 w1 D$ c9 G
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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