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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。8 y( V/ q5 ^" w5 j% ?; M
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
7 q/ H9 M! v9 f: Y3 g9 g> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 0 f* b! T K# _" Y
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
5 i+ ^, w* u( I3 s ~' x8 c* t> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 6 J" P3 L! K! @: s" @* a
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
( _4 e! k1 z) H) Z. b' K> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. |% q+ r9 Z( O, b2 j2 M& j! p. X
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
% P. o4 H" S( q: d5 S$ r: I> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 6 Y O' j8 U) T6 w4 b+ r
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 2 ~' G4 [& m2 U, B n1 G% a8 X
> agreed it was.# x* g( N" W0 G' `/ S- r+ J
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 2 c# m8 y" u8 k8 j
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
: ?1 C5 q) c1 d2 K9 d> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."; t+ v, i' L/ J$ p/ Y K
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and / d# C& S, S1 s% D
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 M( h( w8 L3 R
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
0 D" Z. B- {, a0 }$ n: a: ]> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
6 y I: k7 [: f6 M% ?> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends / j- G$ n( Q2 H) K* U: c- \
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
% f2 ?0 V+ `6 T+ s7 }3 d8 }> remained, your life would still be full.
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/ O0 D( N! ]; f" `* D> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ) k- } ]/ B) v
> your car.# j2 [% U; ^' q; S
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % ]8 ^! F4 d4 [( Z( h6 S* d. g
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
3 w$ `, O: m( `- z6 `/ [+ q. Q: K> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy i5 d9 ^' d4 G8 y
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 5 n0 F, `7 a' M6 t$ j! m& \
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* F/ X) A. }0 t+ m> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
, `" _7 T1 [" }2 I> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ x; B6 J* X+ m# A> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to * f, {) Z2 B$ E( u7 M% `$ M: c
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
9 p) V4 ]' m; A) [1 a8 B p- ?* f3 d> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
! N9 \! X: M7 r! Q* M- P> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."4 c, p8 {! c- n3 k8 F0 Y5 a
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7 I- t# K. }, b8 J> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee + j" F2 |/ Q/ M) b
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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. n' v4 A. q) ^1 R7 f* b- F4 n0 ^9 [& m> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, " }8 g6 u$ b0 u$ O C* w. d* I
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."5 e* e6 [* k# C% C6 D
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