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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。4 a+ w7 ~; C9 }
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee8 U. x9 p5 ^( Z' Q9 E0 L8 ]
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in , |; ?8 l# q2 Z
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front w. H4 r- i' q! D
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and * `; }' |$ H" e8 k" s$ ~, P
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 3 K1 U- q$ d6 H3 A) d J! _, w! f
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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7 _) e* L' c/ j5 ?> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar . O% @ }2 T3 G; G2 T
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
- X+ R9 O! z# {& P, F- `6 \* o> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 5 k8 S k" T- y8 n% i5 I% k k, N
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ' j2 d) }! } O
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ; V) h& M4 m/ T9 k: y) H/ a! h i
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."' C; C4 Z8 R8 m h
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and + `' @( Y% E8 v$ S+ Q4 u
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
% }6 Y% @5 m: L> space between the sand. The students laughed.# @: c8 H6 G5 R" C; k
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0 k8 @" {, _5 D> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 8 }( H+ E5 X/ I7 a' r( r/ J
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
3 z6 i' p% x+ m% S> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " m/ }' \4 d* c& J* }
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ! x+ ^2 I' D" S7 F5 W* F
> remained, your life would still be full.' W/ j) u9 D) s& E
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
( ^' g( c+ b/ j) c2 r> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 2 X1 V: O I4 j" X4 X
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
! @: c! H2 t9 G, l" K> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
1 p& H) s4 x2 K8 a; X8 G4 [; C> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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@ m; [5 H) B! W> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend " A" V: g, g1 g+ X7 V
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 5 g- L) [" U7 Q9 b
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
4 C7 g2 A$ n; k7 p" ^) a7 H> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
z1 ]& O T) R( T1 d- d; ]. T> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
/ O5 I2 C1 P) j& s7 o& Q6 t- c> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
$ T5 X6 p8 F! {> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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