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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。8 s* B0 g+ d! V
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee' h1 p3 W# O5 v( a3 s
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in # \/ z$ Y% y- M; v
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of , b" V. K7 Z- S& @. F* a# V. {5 z
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 6 H! g. c, j7 c* j' r
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 0 g% }( Z) K! _( O r
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
+ b% W5 b) z! a> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was., r# B; g, D' L# k2 K) {" p
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% o6 ?+ v. w* V0 Y! _! z: @, p> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
/ a# V; L/ L, C' @> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
2 Z4 i7 E& z) Z- M2 c: K( `2 v5 {6 W> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ) N2 a2 t6 v( b/ c, d
> agreed it was. f& ^9 Z3 Q, U+ }
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
# e8 x( F0 [+ ~3 n( q: a7 ?/ c> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 7 U4 J# j3 f: k: g2 E" k# f& b; }
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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) f$ C; b/ d) A" O5 ?> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and # W9 q/ k# z" Z
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 3 ], T4 P6 n" I# y7 M
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
1 g9 m! ~( [) u" p! d> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
" ]0 Z2 ]* r- t7 V: O- A> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
! q r( t- g; d' D; P: u> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
7 ^* r1 j- H$ q: M7 _9 s- G> remained, your life would still be full.+ M( r, }6 W6 o2 ^/ q Y
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* f1 ~8 _9 p* \% m) j) i$ Z7 k0 @& ^: y> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ; M$ ~5 O! ^% q! d* g
> your car.
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2 b0 I2 Q$ u4 f6 S1 m> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
8 v2 W4 S* p$ E! n> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ! p \& h: H3 w. ~$ D! M
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ) O6 v0 r/ I( \( F* O
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are : ?# j5 J, I0 w, c: I8 K+ u& ?5 F
> important to you." @" a. f- S T% N: x8 Z5 A/ i) [
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6 P1 ~3 S6 M- \4 |* l4 B9 w> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
5 t1 S! t8 a* }# L> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 3 H' x2 T3 H' K2 ?, X
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ M# ?1 w+ Y9 m
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 5 `! i# y; ?& v. I; N) h3 f
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 2 B' ~ S+ y* v* j; s
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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' h/ H# J B$ Z# A> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
/ x. D/ U* Z4 W/ J9 `- n' y> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
# T* t* K/ l3 i0 Q4 s+ N5 u7 w> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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1 r8 O* W% W: j" b+ Y6 Q$ p; w0 y> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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