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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 0 Y+ t, ~. ]4 t0 ?- q a% F
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of / v1 ^6 W4 W0 O9 |6 a
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* C- v) @2 w5 N- J" F> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
0 l. c6 ?" ~ E3 W8 p- \> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " I& T+ a, a9 R7 ^* \7 f
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then " S8 C4 }* @* r6 J/ _
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: G M5 b# h5 l, K: Z2 Q; H) G
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 8 C! ^. N1 I8 Y
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
7 f; g; c( I. b> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ; S$ K% s2 ~! [( `/ Z8 u' k4 r+ H
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of ! Z5 H g7 S2 g! q8 r% h. R
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
2 A8 Q' D' {' N ?! n D2 }> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."* X4 {* H2 G/ |
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and % L7 F3 R/ Y3 s( v) S) V. o
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
' A6 c: O2 R, V, n( B- z$ X> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
6 P" O* U6 K( N) \0 o" x) I( |> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ) v9 K( R! p$ \" n8 h9 t+ r; y! |
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends " g2 X$ @. |. O/ `7 Q/ T# }
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they * F& j" y5 U. M' I0 Q
> remained, your life would still be full.! B! }+ U% }5 C/ M$ i) _
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and % F. W) S3 }; \$ h+ s4 Q
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
" b9 q0 [( H! W5 M2 L4 {> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the % t" H. ?1 u0 `+ {, K
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
0 n6 W+ V; K- L- y \> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are & z( R9 g: |* a6 i3 F2 m# |- V) D
> important to you.
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& J# `& }( b. ~ g> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
L5 N. Y6 T0 W0 c4 u! z> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
$ \) G& q" G, O5 n> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
' r6 q8 |4 D7 j2 J> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
+ N+ r$ _: w0 c! H1 H, x& T+ W> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
5 X* m, R9 x' }. e. F4 @5 c& J> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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" R0 |2 g2 E- W$ S+ Z3 v$ S> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
9 W3 O7 d2 u$ i+ f8 }. E1 Q> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."7 }% h$ q" t3 g& i
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
6 x3 [) f2 z8 t% W0 X) R: h# g. F> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.": Q' q: E, Z: r+ ^ w# r
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$ |4 U9 w, f5 g9 o; n8 O: w' V> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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