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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
9 r/ J+ _( y' W. ]* U; L6 G, h> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee- y0 V- G+ @* C* q$ K
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ( ?$ B. G2 I7 l
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 4 a7 _! b9 a( F1 N6 D
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front " L' C! O8 ~7 q
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
* J/ k- ~, ?7 `7 q> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ! r6 ^ J5 R6 k
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was." h3 f. ~2 |. G. D% O m( j) U& l
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 4 l+ g* l. G7 ?/ s1 G4 I' o% _) O$ F
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
$ o0 m2 F8 h# ^' }5 e% e> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They . [3 N5 J9 w/ U( I6 _/ s" E) ?
> agreed it was.- X- s, x, K5 m! J' C# o
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
1 P; X# g1 d2 r' m> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 6 \+ y1 q& D; k) q5 r( A: m% x! ~4 n
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."4 u6 i3 q7 N! ?8 D) e+ u
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
+ S1 I: F9 e1 m- v+ i2 T> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) R2 r. f4 M B1 V3 b
> space between the sand. The students laughed. V* \* l- a- n
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1 G. k; h( u9 v$ A) b> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
" @* |3 v# a; x$ }. ?> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the + f3 z" X# K( V# A9 k( m3 d9 }1 a
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ) k5 O, Y `/ S
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ; ~: `9 u' P/ S3 z! m
> remained, your life would still be full.
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- E% U: A; n& K5 }& F2 ]9 e- G> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
/ E( f" k' j" s. |1 Z> your car.
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" ]. y8 T7 ]) f> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
& F1 `, F; h% w8 _; G> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
6 o, X. e- e J> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
6 X/ V* J: M1 T. _, i! v% w# o( o> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are . n+ q4 N9 {. a4 l- y1 q! R
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 5 d" Y" j* D& M- `& r
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 1 R L' k7 i, |- Q2 e. p, p
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
! L* n: o. j- `$ Z% Q> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 4 a6 }) N* z& M" V* A& c
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
. H' C5 w$ ~/ z4 B: l) Z \> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ' e) W3 E- P# l" f, t
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."! L+ f5 W G+ f( \1 T3 z
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' Q( g6 i4 f6 q% c> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
* C3 A7 p+ C! e% p> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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