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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。! P& _; p, y' t( v
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee7 h7 B$ P! k7 z; J" w2 L. W& {
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
" [" A$ h8 E" q4 N- v7 X' m# l( U> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of l/ B0 ^) m9 P& {- d: h8 u
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 7 l3 c; B) F' B
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
+ e& v* [ W! E/ k> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
0 |; N) ]5 h% ~> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
! o8 y8 @- u1 [8 f5 c> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between ; u0 \/ i2 |7 Y2 [ j6 r9 t
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
: {$ s; i4 t |0 p> agreed it was.! @- @3 x7 f# F/ a
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: `2 y6 r1 p0 v% q2 i- [> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
( V4 C3 T% B( _2 T ?- V- {* U0 j1 e> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar , F( w; c0 k$ [, k* ^7 s( J
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."% ]% F- q8 X5 r, b1 {
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3 m( |% a, X/ T' [0 h5 ^+ {> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and . b: v. ]2 F1 K3 ?* W
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty + V: z5 Z$ t' X
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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7 X; T" P, l1 _# c; B> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 2 N; c8 I& d9 `
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 9 i) t3 @& K+ f% E' }5 a+ c7 a
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
/ R' Z, f" @8 K: U( k8 y6 i> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ! I" r& ~1 r# G" v* W) X" ~
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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3 |* [( [2 H" [( k" w> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
$ ?6 y; e* U+ k4 D" G N) }1 _> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the * @& y4 f2 d* ?* c$ {! _! z; n
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy * h5 [" d" |* R* C
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ' K6 @. L" e3 r* t7 B3 r
> important to you.
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$ }+ q* {8 E0 u0 b y. W, R( ]> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
' X2 X; v v: s5 ?( p P> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with " `1 o0 y% |' A. J4 h) R) \1 ^
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " l5 q5 Y' B$ A$ V; U2 g4 d
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 8 e' U9 m2 o/ i! c0 f$ H
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 4 U9 u4 e. C* T T0 f
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."6 S' ?( o! J( P; O
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
j) j: e! g" `' U- z> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
4 B6 _9 g5 q9 K2 l; O) s> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."! o0 [! x% g+ X- K& [
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