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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。% P0 |/ w# x# r& Q% r1 V) F& ]
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
" A% d. X' p* D2 M* V& d> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
0 H+ B( Q# M& X2 A8 I' I7 h' ~> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 0 N9 w8 Z9 S( b, B1 `* X
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3 c q I( I: G* ~8 ?0 f/ R> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
& x& `- @, l1 v! r' X> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and A/ J# D% J' K
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 3 t0 Y) ` n1 S' S
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.: A( C9 Z; v5 A- m" M' m8 c
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 0 U- X& M- K% D0 Y' l
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between , h; }1 q$ @8 q) _. M
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 6 V9 B/ a9 G1 R: r" m- a% n% e& X
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
2 a& e. |6 I" d3 l. p& x' O8 h> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
4 g( b1 z+ s: N$ R- ~$ p; K> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
! T. ~: e1 z4 T/ S, @8 J) l. b> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty A/ e/ v b9 k) X) H; A
> space between the sand. The students laughed.1 o. f* H( V, E2 ]% ]; [& S
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
0 }$ f: i! ^( H- ^* e> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
B* X; `# c# C* ]> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
# U5 v4 {# U, m0 T K7 M> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they * k# J" C3 K! A) g
> remained, your life would still be full./ C8 p6 A& o3 y# A5 I& K
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
2 d5 `! [ [4 q: s- `6 ^) u+ r> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the $ X* r7 Y/ B* {
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ' |. q% j- S. ?( q. C5 Y
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are " x- R: n8 O0 r" O
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
4 U2 q+ E/ w1 B7 S4 q6 l> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 7 X6 W/ P0 r5 g) o" R& V
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
. O3 s9 F3 m$ J> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 0 v; L, C) Q# J' w$ \, p: N3 L
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that - C# V; @1 F# m, y% @* y
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."# ?$ X/ `+ G: C, d" s9 E( D
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7 `( ~; L( r5 i, l* |> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee / C9 o5 r' K. v9 ^ ?8 L
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."$ | Z" l6 b: a+ u& O
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3 w5 D5 b: P* S* r( M/ I5 y2 G> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, : i0 e( l9 t! H6 e7 a2 P
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."9 j$ ^/ q$ b& Z7 V, ~' U: O
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% m7 W7 M' G( F d' G6 W> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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