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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
; J( e% X/ e1 T% l9 l> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 3 T4 t! G3 U3 ?9 P, `8 ~3 C
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of * H5 x. y' x1 m, U* a6 X1 s
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 2 E2 a! Q a4 B% Z& a
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
0 h/ Q% |4 ?' F; m' b+ K> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
* i: r4 c5 r2 t9 i4 \> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.1 S: p8 i, Y# J4 w" j: p* _! F
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( \7 N/ _1 L! h> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
, _, I4 B1 h5 \6 \" R& ^> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
6 s4 E1 o7 z( k4 i; C: J> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
" T; y7 I4 m L1 m3 g> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
$ j1 r- C$ W) C r" g5 Y> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar , U8 Q: T- t- k) o9 ~) ]
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."! d6 h3 O9 h9 p+ U" n6 L
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
% `1 I W6 i8 q7 f$ f> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
w. a* ]# @! Q! R> space between the sand. The students laughed.0 P3 B" w3 X! ~* O
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2 t) e1 s' H2 ], K( E/ d" ~> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to + _ ]) U3 ~$ I, h8 X
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ( r5 P4 O# w" y# U7 E P, }
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends * A" T0 ]0 t0 s
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
4 v& g9 N$ N+ G. j0 U" q> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
8 \: I [! H$ o+ T6 t0 S/ E> your car.6 C4 s: d2 V) c
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# c. M9 b, m- d4 O* g: W> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into # P, _# \" p, X) n5 D4 |
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
' i. H9 y- D: ?3 \: c> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
8 J( H( J! t% y2 v$ x6 k1 A0 {! @> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
6 G5 s! Q" ^2 k5 I% e9 U> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 9 u# g' W' d6 X6 i9 g' R7 S6 g
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to ; O4 y) Q3 F' l
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
; `0 h6 [; s6 ]8 _% n% p' F> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
9 V4 O( w4 W7 C; ?! t# O: m> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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6 X% ^- z. o8 p' [& r, Q> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
/ N1 w/ @0 [0 d9 e- o' S2 |> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."& l2 e: {2 ^/ O& j# m, t9 e, j# o$ T+ a
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
# g" k+ v* B: t5 L: K) W& X7 W6 R5 o> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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' q# v6 R: R. H1 h+ Q3 U2 g7 I> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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