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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。6 b s6 E* ~7 n2 [( Q
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee5 O6 M; [3 M9 B) r2 V
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
/ R* h- B" P7 f, O- ~! U9 Y> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
6 g% l: ]) R' _& h, O5 t; }> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
- k! c* J' I4 P- l* }' j. k> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
2 |, F4 h2 k$ P* A& p> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar : T9 `/ f5 J v7 \' c7 X5 \
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between " n+ ~: }& F6 [, s2 I
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 8 R! n L) {2 D, [# M
> agreed it was.
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* z% H: I% [& g3 o/ K& a> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
8 ^# f7 ?9 P: C> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 3 C5 ]* b6 u& S0 l
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."5 P$ @+ }$ Z3 L4 y
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 6 R" f! k& k1 a! }8 c4 K( _
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ) v) Q2 m; X/ ~/ c9 T
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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. m5 K1 E6 R+ f+ M/ e( u> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ! I7 X0 [9 n! T8 Z1 B
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 7 y2 S% p5 [/ U4 x9 K
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends : }9 C' X ` t
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
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1 e. I" T3 f: `5 }> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and % Y& l1 w( d4 o) w
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
2 ?- \& E& m/ w> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 0 ^/ A) o+ d; C* J
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ) W6 {# P9 r" i$ V1 \
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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# O0 m. T/ y( u1 I* F+ r% n$ l> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
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> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 8 v9 O# ^, N- l, ^4 H$ c8 ^
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that [( B8 e$ [8 i! F3 j
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 7 Z8 a a4 }+ }) d, y5 r+ V
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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