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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
2 P( k9 f2 A* [# _+ j& c2 v> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee% b; I' f# `4 k7 k; Q# j
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
( g" D: Z. Y0 `/ a' `2 B> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + v; ^/ w: R# {) X. _' u% f; a
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
' k, c/ ?* D+ n& L1 P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
& e! R! @- j4 {> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then / I/ G2 U8 y3 Q& H
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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1 q5 G3 K, ?, @/ y J( s# H> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ' |9 i2 N8 {! p& ]/ ^
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
5 d8 M/ g9 K5 S/ ^0 _> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
1 r& X- [! ]8 S9 |> agreed it was.5 _- K6 \% I) k3 m/ ?$ \3 N
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8 W) \: o" j w, A& o; ]( n* v. ]1 ~> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 8 }" G/ c- z6 y) M2 o1 {$ n- L
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
: ?6 `4 c5 P8 [% k> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."+ y8 e( M% o3 G1 o# ^
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
7 J( F5 P$ G: L4 m> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
' o& `" x/ [) H> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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! ~; b$ B# ]3 {5 }0 F! y; B3 V> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
' i# A4 k5 y# ?0 ?5 d( O& M> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the $ i G3 V# e% m0 P+ d
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends & F! r# D" i+ u y. q# ?3 }
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they & R; Z0 m8 y% z3 H1 s) }5 f
> remained, your life would still be full.0 B) W3 C" R: A/ G
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3 A2 d5 r# H. L: O# D# X> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into / x3 c8 d: ?) J/ V9 v! ~% D4 S
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
* q7 D4 j* w9 C9 X* d) _: Z$ X> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 8 @: Q" |. {% T
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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7 b7 ?6 r6 k4 g; q> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ) z. Z# T3 Y$ ]. A. v
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 7 I0 x* D8 M3 z' e* J9 h4 d0 ]7 v
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
! v2 d* y, v0 n3 N$ n' @4 o> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
3 T* q @: L1 i1 @/ ~% w> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
# v& I% c, x9 U4 X0 ^* Y. E2 F> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 5 v) o; d4 r& z2 v
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."" v$ f: x9 I2 M
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2 B2 ?8 C: Y7 M+ k: k9 K> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, , i" m0 ^# y' a+ S3 v
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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