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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。5 P$ i0 d) ~5 Y) H% |7 Q$ ~
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
0 R2 D) Y6 H; b> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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2 ~" x! O) p1 z- V- I> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
- Z0 B! U2 T1 H7 v> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and # s1 |/ {6 @: V: L! |- N F4 E9 T
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ( E V9 }$ {5 ?; V* H2 b4 f
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 3 {& q6 B! B2 f* g, }5 x
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
2 C( A H8 O1 Z9 r# |> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They & o4 j1 U) w2 ^7 `$ D! t, U
> agreed it was.4 k8 ^, E* {' \) B4 E) [& o! p3 @2 W9 o
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
9 X/ d& l4 P9 B, n# q S> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 9 }, W2 o( o! r* R$ k
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ! L8 _% K9 k7 p0 |% Q( w
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty $ b/ c7 I9 _1 _/ F) ~$ g
> space between the sand. The students laughed.$ Q1 T: C1 f, o/ s7 H. t: q% b
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
4 ^, {* ~! B: K$ r6 ~# {7 M> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
, m6 W# o: r8 h8 m& s* |> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
2 ]7 u( D( R, j7 \; q' y9 ~> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they ! O8 B3 U6 B H. V3 y
> remained, your life would still be full.) T" G( ^6 F8 k
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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; v0 r t' c7 A% {- V> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into * N7 S/ f& F2 `/ ~7 H' H3 l v8 e
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
; s; j C5 u6 N. H. F> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
" k9 V: \2 i+ I- I- F2 m& x> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
$ |% @" o1 z7 L% V: s> important to you.# B- |. Q. `: }4 t* n" \
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- A" C( [* p6 a/ d> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
4 r1 s( z i& F/ w0 m> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
, s: x2 ~7 ]: j1 t( j) ?> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
' x7 T; M8 | H" V> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ' i- x/ z( E/ V% `# O) A
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that : {, ~" X! b0 p. ~+ \1 k/ G" J
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee * B' i$ W- n, @1 P+ ^% Y
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."2 w! ?3 d" E" L) P3 j
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
2 ~5 B h9 d" V: H> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."" a6 a/ {# o% \6 r- G7 d
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