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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。& ?3 v( H0 [4 ~5 @
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee6 e; H& v& L4 Y, G# r
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in % v$ G% Y. g$ n e
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of $ z) w) ]4 \& t. j) I+ \) v
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front % b7 o1 ?3 ]/ n$ a
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
' b2 L; T( i: U> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then . E# b. T% c) |7 t, V
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was./ [3 ^! }; X) @5 ^
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ' I' [ a( P" c, R3 }& U/ H
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between : g! P- @( S2 `( m
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
5 f- s. h. d! s1 K* `; Y' [) _> agreed it was. |8 }7 U/ e# s! w6 i' D; {
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6 a6 Z, ~0 a8 h2 h5 ~# z0 }> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
+ U& v' `, o+ J> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
" ~' S2 K. ^+ d' c8 Q> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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! f0 ^4 G4 e! g) z* b> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and # R+ V9 f T* I1 V. R
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
- Y: E" |5 _6 s3 `> space between the sand. The students laughed." g! W: X: d' k* p
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to - z% g* S0 \& }1 T7 ?% @" o1 [
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ! b4 o) N; h: u, d# [' i" p' K' O% z" b
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
+ l9 d- A2 M0 `9 B, P! F> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they # D; {$ e+ \& u: Y* u+ f
> remained, your life would still be full.4 L, }2 Q2 A/ W9 n' I; \$ w' q# p
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ; c5 r6 ^+ a% o, A
> your car.9 b5 x* B+ P: Q h3 O: N; ^( }2 k
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
3 B5 m" `6 q( x, k2 K> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
0 c2 \1 I/ d* x, l8 Q9 G* ^: U) ]- K; k> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
9 ?5 s( i+ c+ w) X8 x> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
+ F2 `9 R) X( ~ X> important to you.6 I5 v" S; o" G' Q
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2 a/ ^* G/ _) Y> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
w: D7 \% i$ E: k7 j2 h> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with - u* @4 s, r) ]9 y9 {0 W& @. b
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 2 P. j: t! b" m5 l1 b4 g( b& H
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
% Y1 `* c. l1 D5 ` O* ~" a8 \> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that . T1 `1 _) K5 ~ W; j
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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# n$ ?/ D% e' I @> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 8 m* D! M2 J) z
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
( }$ M- A& G7 L2 B, ^1 G4 y5 m> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."$ S3 [0 I% e9 l2 O1 T
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/ b% v+ J7 [9 [* r( c& z" j> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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