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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
1 O6 S; k: n2 a> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
# W6 E& f$ g O; W1 a( F> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
! E* H8 U) ~' ~8 y> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of + j8 H1 L g8 U: Y7 l6 P
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
' P9 V+ T& D* A1 [7 V1 ]> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
% F6 X, U; J- k% Z1 o" ?( A> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
/ C3 W. E+ m* N6 b |7 ?- N; s> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.4 \# O: X+ Z- W5 p$ \
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
, ?( g8 m# E0 x2 x9 h8 J/ R> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
% t6 d) n# l3 M0 ?5 [9 c3 x% \2 l> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
% V' ~( p% ?' C, |' S> agreed it was.9 j0 ?3 t; ?$ s" p: q
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
0 I) g" ]& R) F- C( u, }> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
3 P6 G3 M1 W8 G> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes." M5 P9 _0 C4 J, v7 G+ _7 o
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
1 Z- B C5 h( L3 o$ k> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
! G8 C7 D% }8 O3 {; v% |+ o$ C> space between the sand. The students laughed.! P/ p+ r& @9 Q' |3 q# d
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- |/ L# L' N. ?: }4 y> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 1 E* Z5 p" d* M; S' ~
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ' W$ V! L ]1 `) Z' t) d {
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
# W* [7 D. O1 P> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
7 ~5 n% x7 {! R& k) j0 K> remained, your life would still be full.5 O/ o1 p% |4 y4 c1 _- X( U3 z
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
1 G: ?% b# i# J' G8 @> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
' L' G8 X5 g% W9 L0 T3 \> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy + Y, a. b1 J& l. e
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are " ^+ @0 j0 j' s; R8 e
> important to you.
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# [2 U. W! |/ j2 T, t: ^: y> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend # o+ D, d8 J* D/ J
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
0 j4 o. P8 z+ q# Q" b, q5 B- x> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to + ]& u' W1 I; B5 ^5 `/ k/ r) S
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ) J n2 r/ G, N1 E7 m$ [& O
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
5 J) P" V. |: d> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."2 h( l% c8 ]8 z( \! c9 `
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
3 t4 `$ n) M- W6 e' j> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
* ]# |# i1 T* }> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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$ L# U* `; r3 O0 Z> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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