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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee9 }+ A3 s7 S) Q8 @% c( {+ v- u
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 1 M/ l7 @! W3 r( @7 Y
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of " Z }* x |5 L. n
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front * j# d- I) V5 t1 @$ a
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 7 w* F9 }( l2 m
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
2 l9 D' C5 ~9 p$ v> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.2 l: S2 [- r5 A6 N
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0 _$ ^& z2 O& j, \> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
O6 M0 Y b& ^ `2 q1 X" y> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between - l/ C( j/ \+ @0 h8 j0 [$ T
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They " I! F& f- q0 k
> agreed it was.: j1 V. ^; o4 p8 f6 o) l( P {! f
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of + x0 O$ U3 w: G% ~ b& }
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar $ D! P% a# Y+ I# M+ x9 g8 Y$ P
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."& u* S9 b6 Y; M+ i% A1 j' @, D
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
! ^7 |" k2 Y8 i; d8 E1 F9 }, C. ~' f6 n/ B> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
% C& W% J9 H8 s1 ]> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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/ U8 _7 s ]8 ~' C9 g> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
8 Q/ I9 g8 d7 J# J, K" y- ?> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ' O8 }8 ~0 f- P7 V0 w2 w
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
& R( J0 e; Z9 j8 \! y> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they % X/ v" R2 R4 t/ a
> remained, your life would still be full.
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2 B# v; L% O+ ^' f> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and * ^' v7 W' m: ~
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
5 `0 r z& W# y- _$ U! d5 O' m> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ^8 D" a) E0 O; ?/ r3 _
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ( f6 T0 ?4 ?: s
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ) m! P# z: E+ H; A, H
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 0 ^7 F# S: }, {4 M: V; D
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
3 O5 ]* H8 ?" z: _4 [> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to # e. Y, f' z/ e% e9 [/ p: e( c4 X$ k
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
" {3 ?5 c" Q4 r0 A> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
, c* h' T3 F- u9 V" A R0 r> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."! [* J& n- e, m/ m& m j' N$ @% s4 m
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 2 }+ L- Q3 D6 b% J* y, ~( L8 W
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
) E# y2 Q& I$ I. G( ^4 t' t% B7 K> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."+ G) `# \# V% V; L7 v- Z/ Z
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6 P$ ^8 J! N' Q6 {5 h8 i2 R> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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