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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
: v, H1 K9 n2 }> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 3 R {) K) I3 l% Y' N- B) N8 e1 [" b9 E
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 2 k% \7 Q; g$ P6 d* B
> coffee.
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/ N1 v4 D6 M4 r4 t) F+ f> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front 4 m3 q7 }- e- e3 k2 ]8 I$ K
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 2 E5 z' `* c E6 r
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ( F, ~" K! r- R6 O
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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4 r9 b) F) k; H9 O% A' k; R2 {> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
3 z7 t3 e D1 r" `' I) e> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 3 n( f# @2 x4 l2 L4 c- D* \+ W
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
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: r2 u2 o7 U& v3 ]; W2 h# c> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 N. P3 v( a) s; V7 R> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar ; H2 U/ D6 I& J
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."/ E; v6 @8 Y4 W0 f# u
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
/ \- `: {0 t) `8 ~> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
6 Z: N, M9 @6 G. V. O& @> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to . @6 k r) } q2 }* x
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
7 a! }: `1 w; L, f3 ]> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends 1 B( r. {! h; z1 K: t6 U; L
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 6 a! `. K/ K O
> remained, your life would still be full.
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# j3 m, H0 x5 R- N: L9 _. ~2 u> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ' ~' l; a8 m+ e# X# a" t9 G6 @
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: h8 A: ]. ~% v& A4 L, B> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 5 \+ c& S- b' L# ~
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
( Z8 J6 V. ^. f2 b4 j/ O> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 8 [7 e# g% [: ^. C
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
6 {$ n6 _. {! h1 _( F4 c> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
0 F# I3 @# e1 I5 h7 I5 O/ D& P> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to " A7 D8 T" f% N2 R: ^: h
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
; `% _% z6 y8 P: y% X _> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
- j7 g6 D H2 `/ x; N8 }; i! f> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.". K( I5 M) d o9 K
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
7 F) l- @$ I& y( O7 v> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."' R/ v' i/ M9 \+ b. a' n% e
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
7 m7 ~% t- j# ]3 B$ ~8 D4 W> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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. L& i1 i" Q" x8 r }3 n> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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