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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
6 H* u8 S+ t2 V6 `> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in ' w1 I6 Y, j% N4 K% O! \
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 1 M" h; x, o* Y* r6 [+ i* P
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4 x+ u* D. H8 o5 o> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
! P0 p( G7 T9 Z> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 5 F6 I9 R/ b2 s
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
8 ?0 D% ~5 P2 P+ n> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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1 ]. Z; Q$ } x1 B9 a> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 3 T8 D3 M [6 y0 V- z( H
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between - Y- {( ?2 l* V' V
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
: M2 G% W! [' K/ x s) O( W> agreed it was.4 P. p) i* R; e8 E
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7 t- K9 a+ Z! q( H> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
9 F% |7 V% \, M4 P, x# ?( o> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
8 x P0 M9 R, h% Q# b2 d6 D> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
+ l8 e+ R7 f5 V& N0 Q* v% K7 E! H> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
4 h+ [" ]# F' P' V7 g> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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: D& a4 }) _% q, g> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ' R* f- U6 P+ h# f$ }9 \
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
& F" a8 q4 d- a' g* R. i. [> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
# v" X+ X0 o0 G$ w9 l> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
8 O% R( S4 L! K. [5 \> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 6 k/ d) H- w$ I
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
8 F7 M9 p, d$ S2 Z! F> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
4 z8 Q) \+ b9 T> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy , K8 q6 o, a; e! }1 W/ X# N
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are . P; Y% I" A6 L2 v# O- Y
> important to you.
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; X% x7 y1 U- t5 l8 O1 t) b* A# [> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend + L; ~* l1 A0 V0 m/ R
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with # `' T' l* W {3 X8 @% N% @
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 6 m1 \; O/ ]/ Z- B- P
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and ( v5 [) ?8 h: O1 B
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that # c7 V7 g. a# ?* d, `& Z: s
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 2 h- m: F0 w' g$ w6 k' w
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
) S; Y" n) z/ O; y9 F> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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! p, j3 K \2 k' D# w' t> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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