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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
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7 S0 g. k9 x9 o7 G> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 5 s& \! `7 y1 x F1 y. x( @
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front ! l1 E4 s$ \1 M8 T: Y) a% @1 k' M
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " U# n+ u) L% L) M9 o0 j
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
% Q _* {/ c5 ]! b: L> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar + E7 {- A' l/ M* z# Q# @. L
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
. w h( X8 Z% x6 ]! q. b> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 2 z; [" R( t! Z8 b5 d) ~* P
> agreed it was.
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. Q- D/ @9 W" z2 p2 N. u> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
5 u) }6 F7 U$ J> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar , u/ H& V0 {4 i! t6 h* ]
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
, e$ H' e0 {7 V+ w) d& X5 Z' Y> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty * i( z9 W- D' e5 g0 ^$ v
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
: u% Z4 I( o0 ?/ m; S2 [, g> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
2 D) P7 X( q' X* W* H$ S> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends - k$ K4 W1 \( [
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
, G, k; P' b+ s$ M. c> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
. ]. L/ J! G0 [, O9 Q' u" N) z> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
; E1 {* V B2 s ^$ s5 y; }> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the 1 t( J7 Z* h$ j6 ?0 h
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 4 r/ M& P- g' H% I7 c# Q$ f" G; z+ p
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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7 ?) m, V3 f# b> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 6 R Q0 r f% O8 w, [' m7 r
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with " H$ n! k# _: c' l7 ]& o' S
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to $ e. Q6 ~4 _$ P( e' [9 |
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and @3 w9 N& d; z, N- _. m* K
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
0 @; x; i8 \0 Y+ o> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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7 X/ y7 U- Z1 G% q> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee % A& r9 F* v0 w0 `) z
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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& T- I8 L5 B( S0 s2 F> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
9 l* w0 `; P, _$ y> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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" q# Q6 Y- t& \3 P8 w> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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