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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。5 H% v& x6 N. \2 e# v
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee7 |4 m$ t5 e+ {$ @9 L* O
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in . C j9 I. n2 m Q4 P" L6 Z6 z$ P
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
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Y$ `; G. G/ E" k) Y" H> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
/ g+ G f& W5 i5 q. P7 l1 i> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.8 u, a+ L: }; O! S2 O2 k
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 6 n. a2 g# M! |
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
0 y; c- ^+ }+ F* \5 L' n$ \> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
6 }/ W7 ?& p( Y! R> agreed it was.$ H% v, x3 n+ G z: @$ u# W
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
' Q( }, j4 _' V> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar & t' v* m1 Y" @2 y( G O! h
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."7 Z0 Z: x/ K+ D$ a- D0 I
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4 K' M2 _. J0 r( G m+ [> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
& L( \- @& p5 C; M: }" S9 }$ X) C> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty ' I7 m) K( G, D0 X5 i+ S1 t; v$ v
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 8 T; x+ z ?0 F! n4 b9 f
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the ' C" {% Z! M2 S- e8 \/ b
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
' E9 @) R; p4 s> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 7 K0 \( A! a; ~. Y" M7 a% a
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and - F3 X8 ]* @$ F3 v, ?0 T% \& Y
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into + G' i, G& O/ z# {
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
: ]+ q% F% ?! l/ `> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy . ~4 R$ A: g6 z; e. \4 e* a
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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" G+ f6 O% Y$ t# p. k> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend , V0 ^, L# M$ u0 @9 H' J) P$ n
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
1 R5 k3 e% x5 ^, c> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
6 {# {. |8 g2 i> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and - d) N7 {7 @, M- c. i/ [$ ~" t
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
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3 [" k& ~1 v3 @> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 5 R$ c+ A& t5 j- Z9 R
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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3 D; v7 U3 z6 }* X> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, % X+ S- F! i* N) ^
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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) s3 ]! N/ [1 @) W7 L> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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