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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。5 s* N# J$ f, m) o
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
, L! k9 T" o) i! E# I: C> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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8 A7 f1 `& o9 r% Y0 a- Z) y> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
& p7 k T6 I3 Z3 q8 ]/ `5 ^> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
, K) }$ x' V5 j# p> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then ; z8 E. M* @4 C& T" H! @
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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" Z0 O& [" \5 H9 K+ k> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar " q* i( i, h+ j; {- H* t
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 1 i' \% z9 E% O$ ]
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ) B$ P/ J* J! H7 _5 x* P. J& ]
> agreed it was.2 q( x7 C( r I/ x3 p
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0 n. f4 R0 v% C& d& b3 U> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
; X9 o$ N' F' H' p Z: J. ~> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
# D+ B( Z+ o* i# h# E( ^/ w. h> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."1 V: G- B5 B8 y; B1 G4 i9 ~
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and # i$ P' i; ` n
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 4 k9 E; t# \ M) y
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ; Q ]. C2 |$ o+ v- U
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
3 k2 s7 u/ `3 J; _4 \> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
- [; ~: v. X' V8 o> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 9 M) V, {& U0 P. ?$ |0 F# H" |
> remained, your life would still be full.
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7 Z7 G | u; T' U9 U0 O# E> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
8 l' n. i) M: \! d/ O> your car.
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: v8 b! z* Y( Q$ t> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into % e* q/ p' _5 q L
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the # V+ E# w- X5 c5 v8 @- J/ z M* V7 Z
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy ' W. q. I$ S% V, q. Q
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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/ U) K+ p# D" ?> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
* c) T3 X `( @8 j7 m; F3 M> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with ' B9 G' ?& a {0 s& _( S4 B3 `4 b
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to : f( ]0 R3 |9 F+ Y
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
7 `, w' e- h5 p4 i- q4 o> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
O' R# E! L; X F7 h0 J: u> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee / K9 c0 I$ U* P5 X/ K& @
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 1 }# H. o X8 a5 p, E! C
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."1 [7 N- F1 _ ~4 T( F2 k' O3 U
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2 {8 P; r% Y7 j3 Z" m' x! u5 i> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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