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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。7 o) y/ A1 v1 C h/ ]2 q
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
( F. j$ t9 {# H0 x( O> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in $ t7 u4 J5 Z# t/ l
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 9 [7 W" w7 ]. _. O' }
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
1 B' Q7 X7 r4 L6 t f, H3 h> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and : W* F- p8 Q7 J7 R
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then 1 s+ I3 D) a* q' u" E$ _
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.6 }2 O! B+ Q8 t0 t) n& U
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; n2 b* x: b# q, S3 i2 p. h; k! m0 P> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar ! X2 }! z' q2 v+ F' t
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 9 P' U* @4 `, `1 v
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They - G' y2 Q: |% L! W" D, B
> agreed it was.8 M* Q- }) I, Q# S
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: ]0 p1 r. ^$ E! r" |( S. ~> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of , L" k: O7 i3 }' H P w/ M4 M
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
% t0 M9 o$ ^/ e. W, q1 e> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."1 W0 ~7 B3 z' s: d% ]1 K0 J
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8 b$ Z& t/ F7 m" m) x> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and / [ m& R4 d! Q+ @8 i
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
; o, S% \" U: U9 H3 `, p a( v0 V> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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; y+ J# @/ | _% W1 S> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to ( C% }, `/ L7 _3 Q
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the % B9 a9 z: [5 o0 `0 U9 P
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends % _+ o6 G* ?/ x5 b
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 0 R4 l# o0 H3 d u. J" ]9 D) M# q
> remained, your life would still be full.
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. U8 r7 ~/ z, c2 {, a- i3 S> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ; x m8 s# Y' ^8 t
> your car.* m3 e* l; s3 t$ _0 ~1 h% \
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
$ G q$ N7 ~7 a5 I> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ) M% B. O. r4 L9 O7 p% U/ F G
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 9 l1 f6 y9 [9 c, O! u
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 9 ^0 Y, k4 u+ L1 X
> important to you.
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7 `8 ^7 Y: [' o# X c2 b> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend ; r5 C4 A5 J0 `
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 1 \4 c: g, y6 z2 G" H
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
. {7 E: ?9 F" P5 d" T5 a7 t> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
% M# c/ m- X3 {; v0 m> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 5 Q3 ]! E" R ?5 Y
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee ' h8 y, E5 |; f0 ]
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."9 P; G' t7 T! p. M' p0 x/ q
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
2 p5 h6 B0 N$ q2 E5 q( M> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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