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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
3 y0 v5 Q( T: m> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
5 O) \( E# j) Y0 ]4 p- s$ N# P> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of : b8 {. v$ w0 S/ l/ J1 i2 @
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
! a! b2 u0 ^! V2 A> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and d7 ?* J( X! J" J, W! q/ Y
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then : J7 Q* R# |# h3 {
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
9 ?# z' {7 y( c' [$ ?7 {> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 4 V! r9 s( k9 O4 p0 G6 j0 Q
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 0 T/ s: N7 J/ m
> agreed it was." s8 h! x* W! N" [
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0 A+ T4 J) P: s: ~2 B1 N7 }> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
- ]) f6 v2 d9 k2 n; R1 V4 r> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
9 L( t2 J' ~ t' y7 D$ k> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and / C) V1 M& R& |2 d$ R2 a
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty P7 m$ e1 l. A) e8 B; Q0 a
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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`) h" }% C% ?" w. `& I! n> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 7 T! [( ?9 u, q
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the " ]& o! j' d. i r
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
1 P2 [ l& c4 Y2 ^7 X4 c! H> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 0 B" F! ~ \( O3 p
> remained, your life would still be full.
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- s8 l4 c/ Y$ c h4 J' |/ k) s> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
( L+ P. [+ h* R9 K! I' k v> your car.
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/ E4 r8 t1 p( C3 z7 E5 s> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
. K( o' ^$ R j+ v+ I9 I> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
+ k7 U% f+ h( F> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy # e) H5 V0 {4 W0 l+ g) ~5 O
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 9 X# M& o& U. g; o
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 6 O- x6 g* ~. v# r
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with " \+ e, e4 }( K
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
; M4 q( H# c. A- V- S% B V! X) f> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and . b; Q4 m% E2 D4 e/ c
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
5 X, |; U- ]( Y: t. a6 }> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."- v2 B1 U0 c* v: M3 r* g r
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' ]- L7 W2 m7 w1 d" B> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee * o1 e) s( `1 v) K( I- |" A3 A
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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2 z% q7 w3 _$ u5 V% I# @> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
6 N' E! ]6 y0 w3 X1 \> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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/ r/ H% f/ F' X, `$ V, R8 t3 l> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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