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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
6 M) R( k9 F4 Q( n" T) l, c> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee* ^) j3 S3 }1 }5 f$ \$ G$ y
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
! \8 p, R0 L' _" n/ y4 J4 k> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of : p& }- g! z6 j; |' z0 _
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/ g- l' q, \+ O/ y( a; u/ f> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
! i) U3 Q9 ]; r; O8 c> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
# ?& l3 F; L6 C! H> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then * [) e$ @' l1 v2 K
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.4 m' k) J1 }8 N( n) K, l* h2 ^
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: d. R0 b. x* Y+ ]# a> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar # U/ ?! A+ F/ {+ G4 A" d
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
+ m4 {# Y1 t+ q> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They 8 p! H+ Z9 f4 C
> agreed it was.) r) ^$ q9 x2 Q$ j* T, n5 T$ Y
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 2 `; K' D; X, w* J7 H2 n
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar 7 R- b, K- \- b! I" w; w7 |
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and $ j- Q: B* ?& e5 j8 v3 q1 X7 q
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty / L) w" [, p/ o. _8 g1 i
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to x8 C, Z( u. a+ G7 N
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the 4 ~; u Y3 U2 X( Y2 Z; M2 X
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
$ h9 @6 f8 H% D% x! X3 P> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they , Y3 B% y) z9 N$ J. V) J/ L
> remained, your life would still be full.
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; A3 }9 {% P+ a: S> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
7 o: f5 Y( M v. A: \> your car.1 h/ T6 I$ w0 e# _! m* Y
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into ( Z7 x" W" f& y" @
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
3 n# D/ t! Z9 }5 `3 b> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy $ K2 Q7 c: }& z$ k
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
* e6 X: \7 q3 p' A* v6 y4 |> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend & b* E& c5 h8 _& b/ g
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with # F$ X u* ]7 ^. ~; j% A
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
& {$ o5 F( B2 f2 r> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 2 _/ p* q* K. W4 f9 I9 X: V7 O
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
9 }2 d' B! o% B9 m# p6 \/ `> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."# `- I, k/ G# j1 {: K
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# K- F' l+ o; `$ w1 x% x6 `> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
4 P& A/ a& ]9 s7 q. n> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."' l* c& o% x, ^( q$ g$ ]! W# o
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
' s P [% g; n9 O/ v* o% _; V0 k) E1 U> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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" t( E8 T- J) I; P6 D> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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