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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。! t+ ^9 V0 }7 n @
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
. z# M/ e/ j9 g/ `/ u$ L F> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in . I( [- l3 L: {
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of
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0 E" ]/ _1 t- @5 s8 s5 B- P& \# _> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front & I' ~( G* m/ U/ e
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and 2 i( ?/ _* H Z0 x5 r; b2 H
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then + g* Y+ ?# x$ ]9 y5 M/ G; X
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 5 T) S' `. O. ]$ s
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
* I5 o3 [; a) k, Z+ g> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
$ c' {/ S; a( x5 Y" p- ~/ u! x> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 9 E; A* k! x) \9 r6 u2 k6 d9 t$ A
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
. d+ r6 q# [! ?& t3 `; `> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and , R0 b: @7 V4 f+ Q" N9 h( F5 O
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty # | d0 |2 B$ m6 t
> space between the sand. The students laughed.. C4 O) t# X1 P) T( A% j
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> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
1 Y- G8 i9 `* W5 n> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
7 h1 H9 |% }& e" p9 v> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
' v& Z8 C" P0 b; h6 Z( f> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
6 b _# \# a9 I$ z( ?9 t) B3 ^$ G> remained, your life would still be full.3 H, x: ?' w; C1 c P
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* h3 V( B3 I8 X9 G6 k& f+ J1 ]> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
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. H: o1 e) G$ t) Z' m$ Q> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into
$ k1 J! v G% E) ?( I( @" L> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
1 Y( [+ m ]/ S) l> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
, N* ]* G3 ^' E3 v> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are 5 S2 u" ^6 x& e4 @4 R5 U+ ~
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend 3 E2 ^" i8 r1 T4 ]5 z/ W. I" W4 P, _7 |
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with 0 M4 i ?) T$ s0 A& x
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
4 B; t0 {( q; U5 \9 O! |> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and + G: v2 ~* O! s1 m* e% d
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 1 S( @. w' \: \6 ~* c( V
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."- f+ i, V3 `0 s; H3 `, M
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee 0 K9 U" z; Y. Q) { f$ G6 f) |# N
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, " x, U# T8 p/ u( }
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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" }( J* ~7 s9 R5 G" C, v1 B> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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