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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
3 P9 s% U5 h6 X' w1 j( ~> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee/ M! R M3 b5 R. X( r- d
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in 7 u1 W" G' ]7 B2 v) a* ?
> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 7 p+ P3 ]3 @, X3 Y8 t2 _; H
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
, P$ o6 p7 F% d8 A$ P> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and " E3 f, H( ]1 X( z
> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then . e; Y1 n1 s( U3 |+ V
> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.! S& f7 N1 r3 H% u5 I/ v
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6 S' @( @% F: F* E6 W) i: w> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
4 f5 ?+ _* F% W1 G% ~; J- L( t/ E> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 1 O' x8 D7 a3 `1 t0 r$ i0 f, [
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
8 h& _: D+ u' R> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
1 l3 T8 p* {5 ^* [5 j> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar C$ ~, ~4 e1 p# S2 r# {7 \& ~
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and 2 q! E( @. ^8 K4 t
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
9 a, X W! ~ z8 \" v y5 D> space between the sand. The students laughed./ B8 i4 h# H9 {, f" X
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( [; e5 v( N' y$ P4 N. M> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
* [9 a+ b1 R4 T/ B> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the . S+ ]+ z$ p2 v. H" X$ h
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
1 F' F( T0 ?! J, Y# W" O> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 7 b- q$ g) H% s5 q# V6 `. L
> remained, your life would still be full.
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and ) a! g/ D5 Y0 O; T6 R( e
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into & ?1 Z- |" i- [
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the $ {" h O1 s3 D! i8 @) m$ I
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 2 d9 G% Q- ?: r, }3 M& c
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are , e. ~2 j+ |! o$ q# h6 o
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend * W }& P( a' L- R+ [- b2 E
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with " r6 ]- B4 R- R o0 D
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 6 }& A! K* V% {
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 0 ^, ^/ A4 n8 w7 {: S. {% L
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that 3 ?! y( _4 @- U6 @
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.", c$ O/ F0 \2 G1 Q# T( d$ s
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
0 M8 M+ A' ]1 w$ \4 u* x$ i8 X: }% x> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."# a7 ~: r3 f8 R% g" {2 Z0 g
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6 s! S& F4 I6 Y% n> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
/ T( p7 ]& G- e# w$ I \4 V0 S> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."3 _' J7 b: a. a8 P
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$ |* G* I6 ]6 S0 V8 Y4 t9 g> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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