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> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee H( | |& s/ p1 ~& F6 L6 v' h8 |
> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
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> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
& h5 }! s! G4 L> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
; A W' C* ?+ \2 F9 G! F> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
8 `/ u' h# Z7 i' M& B> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.8 j" x& ~$ Z1 ^ M
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/ `9 z* v2 p) C* T+ w3 N> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
D6 A% O4 [) @+ v: P4 W> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 6 m. {. d( f8 Y! V
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They
( H( a: @& ~8 T1 @- m> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
9 j0 _+ [+ e9 J( F+ H> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar + @% U( ~- S6 u
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes." [- m$ [+ a% N& ^1 [
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3 f) F3 Z1 M- N& I0 e, j" {# |> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
1 Y2 L3 s& p# R/ \* n: |, {4 t> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 5 y5 m. T9 g [7 O1 n
> space between the sand. The students laughed.1 i& e o/ n, Z% `, V: D8 W* Y4 l
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7 l5 n# ~: {" @8 ?> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to + }* t$ m! }0 @& \
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the % a3 T+ m9 O. k$ E7 k: Z% Z* J5 ^
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends ) i3 s8 | k/ `( s7 B) {7 z& d; N* p
> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they 7 q8 p" x* r; ^0 F2 j/ I$ L
> remained, your life would still be full.8 U' `6 l" ~3 m7 \: S0 w, o
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> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 5 D9 T: P7 j1 q
> your car.
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1 F) L4 o7 J+ N4 w9 y> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 0 G: d' P- f( d) ^/ V% E( ^
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the ; [* d- {2 d, U1 Z( d
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 3 f9 r2 u4 o* {5 ]# [
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are
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+ l) O$ t% H" i7 E> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
0 h/ R% `" D" P/ [> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
+ H6 f/ Q# u1 x. X> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to
1 p. g" h/ E$ j> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and
+ x+ f4 S1 d3 K' l> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that , Q& c7 p! i5 b/ f! ?1 v
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."% Z0 r5 f+ F2 C G3 O9 w* Z
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3 e. I1 b) s% [- p0 T" ~& l> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee - ^: {2 c# l: ?! R: Q
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, 5 X( I0 [6 {3 f( I e5 f9 c9 C$ ]
> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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