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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to% [* B, G/ v+ r& o, A8 Y
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
# a, D F8 V, f; V( zthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
+ _! W% l: S1 N+ M: I/ oyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will5 I' ?& A/ u8 P3 m% O5 q9 Z
think of you.- C0 S8 J) [3 ~! U" ^/ |
% _9 }' ~& [9 R1 aUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
4 V5 g5 I( v. U- H4 Inames:4 x6 r) h8 x+ V' o, `; `& i8 f" ^
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.. g% S1 } i& Q
2) The second second: Don't think about what to& u9 a' g3 O0 [% s, T3 C J
say—listen for the name.
+ H$ `# @9 Y" B+ q: p; B2 W t3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud., d1 x! \! J1 b- O! y' D T
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know u' R5 {" w* `$ A: G. K
with the same name.4 v4 X. T$ J. i {& {. T
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
7 a% D+ [" T }: a/ aend of the conversation.% a! G& F1 z2 l2 K( G- S
& z6 {8 A7 P+ G( l9 j% d---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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