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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to; l6 ], Z: Q7 b5 u! D+ l! ^
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear. w: b' Q. A. t
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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. r$ C/ m& W$ L3 \! \8 S/ a1 cUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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say—listen for the name./ ~0 y, ^$ ]: @7 z2 ^ k
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.2 t# K5 a/ a! J4 b' T) T
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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