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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to5 c8 i" w4 W+ A2 }' u1 n
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
3 }- W# w" J2 i athem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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& w- \; Z4 \1 v+ g2 x$ XUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
+ ?3 U5 d+ L! p' j2) The second second: Don't think about what to
: ^9 I8 |) X! F# d! S4 D: Ysay—listen for the name.! C m- u3 N7 D% j6 u5 Y, z# C
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud., R5 t. z0 W! v! M1 d; j: `" Y
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
4 x# i: Z+ v- T& U' _5 f+ D% i( S" Lwith the same name.* S" F d4 D! M6 n, s; Q/ x
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
" Y' ?! O0 ]& {6 q2 r0 Lend of the conversation.$ f: z/ B( [2 T- P! O
1 k; s: L" P0 `+ k; v: E' v---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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