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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to, U4 a! D7 ~& w: r
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear/ p2 a( Q2 U* H" r: e
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what$ O. N" d6 n3 X( d3 O! M. _
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
9 T' B) U) k7 o+ zthink of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first: Y# W6 q; t ?
names:0 h' ^! |- Q1 C8 y6 ?9 m
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
* K; a. p" b7 L! r2) The second second: Don't think about what to( [' J+ m% ?$ {% e C: i
say—listen for the name.8 p* L5 T- G3 i' \6 z% M" Y- V
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.* h: y' P0 g% c( h
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know, {1 a; G5 z0 @- z; P& U/ l
with the same name.8 K& L3 D- p2 z/ d, Y/ Y
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the$ [9 K! p- u. F' i6 O& U
end of the conversation.
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& H. x0 y! g- {! X' p---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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