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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to& E0 _$ H. J; {9 r, ~% b2 f
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
: k u$ B7 B: q6 L6 R x; [them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
5 ?( X: ?" H% x. Z9 L2 Ryou're going to say next or worrying about what others will
* H4 i/ f( R% I2 othink of you.2 l6 h; g% z: _6 j- \
, z. s# ]$ h v( |# [Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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' b/ \% Y* }/ a- Z! u t2 z1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.4 L6 X, m9 }3 h$ H; u1 w
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
r5 p7 m# y9 o0 E- t1 @, r* rsay—listen for the name." f. F6 f/ _; }" z) @, @& n# f: x
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
: f D" N4 R! B; d* b4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know* ]7 |; J3 U/ e, k8 O
with the same name.% j7 i& e" Y8 _8 V6 a
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the8 r. j9 C- v. p! A. `" l- J. c. ^9 s
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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