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2 t) }) \; I3 w' H5 ?Sometimes people come into your life
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to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,* [$ L0 V/ Z; y6 C2 q; I6 ?
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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7 C7 z- V$ i4 N, C1 c# \You never know who these people may be$ U6 W7 d" z: @5 p& Y. f# D2 p4 r
but when you lock eyes with them,0 M( W5 s% E2 ~$ ~# h0 M( ^
you know at that very moment,: g' O' B; }& M$ _ S
X d6 W9 D: S- o, b$ n3 f6 GThey will affect your life in some profound way6 L5 w+ _8 c+ [+ G& w
; k0 S# c; U/ lThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 T+ g& R' O0 l! w6 `5 t2 i+ I
They are there for the reason you need them to be.% n$ ^+ @" J0 m2 y
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,. r1 H0 j' G8 k1 w. K- D5 V
% Z) ^( k$ N. rThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
m2 Z2 y& [% K5 _+ b8 d8 f& r' BSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.! i* p! q( p& u2 ?4 A! r" l
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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( I. J# s" x7 q! l9 [What we must realize is that our need has been met,+ w* `2 @- A4 j( ^/ s
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.& W3 x: ]3 Q( N( F2 G4 K
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
6 {# o: K7 f( EAnd now it is time for you to move on.- M. s3 q" z6 P5 b
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Then people come into your life for a REASON) |% I% U' J5 D; M( N, h
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
( h, ^' Q7 B3 h ^3 LThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.. H% y# J6 F1 c* P$ e' W Y
They may teach you something you have never done.1 T! X8 z% F" M5 p; x( H6 \
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.7 d& v0 z% a* W* [2 Z3 z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦1 D1 l1 @* a+ k* J: i
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
9 B2 t& ^7 L+ }4 `% }7 A5 t; {Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
: z' V3 w! f `8 d/ C' @0 a( C5 D: OPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.5 b9 u: w4 f l9 X
Everything happens for a reason.# r' O0 {: f k* c9 n8 k
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.! b/ y7 b- V* m' L3 W- U0 J
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
9 o! u5 X. E; u( b, Xand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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9 R9 x+ a ^' e0 mIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
0 i$ K- W! H5 o' U% a$ HYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
+ z( {6 E; x2 ]If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. D: G& P0 ~6 C" Q7 Jfor they have helped you learn about trust
; Z' p/ a' i; h7 w4 [ Rand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.6 a, @) ~0 A! o; I0 v2 Y
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
7 [, O1 |6 o9 b8 uTry to love them back unconditionally,! Y2 ^) X8 @- w
not only because they love you, but because in a way,7 O+ d% o8 x2 n# i" D0 Z
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
- I& T& z# }4 |$ Z6 SA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
9 q; T4 J. Y# h1 Z/ h4 U( A6 Qand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."9 I& y' Y9 x5 O
God's grace is as a healing hand.) f7 Z, d$ S6 T
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,+ i1 u& N% I0 D$ n. c3 O4 X
the warm memories and love for those we have lost( g& ?6 z8 s" a, w/ o
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