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; M6 `: O( \* I/ S% vSometimes people come into your life
- J K+ c6 u! W: {% fyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
; z2 n$ @8 X5 Q4 yto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
- V/ t3 Z. R; y n* l7 U* ]! s% b% \or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be5 `& q& m$ j4 ^8 w
but when you lock eyes with them,
2 P8 E1 n* h+ f S: Cyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way- Q$ j/ _4 M8 W# A# z
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
& A7 ?9 M1 |7 A3 j5 y1 j" B& t: EThey are there for the reason you need them to be.! u9 B# b I* n2 G1 V$ T
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
/ y# S5 _0 O, G2 c% S; USometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
/ m. S. Q) B0 R `) R1 `3 ?Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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* }3 E7 |! ~. fWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,6 d3 u+ w' q) s( O
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
+ k" L3 q2 C# \0 h0 {The prayer you sent up has been answered.
/ Y. l# z* H' g3 X" s! R! O" S& eAnd now it is time for you to move on.& _; r4 S/ W: b8 b5 v% o6 D
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% f% Z9 ^- s- E* @0 c( Y& zThen people come into your life for a REASON6 J, A8 P% @1 i
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 T5 J* x' R, z0 F" GThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.8 V( W! q! ^1 I9 E$ I; \
They may teach you something you have never done.# B' p( B# n# q
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
$ Z D& |! E9 _+ N) o6 h; K/ ~) wBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ ~- S# ^; B1 T. d6 f
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4 I; z6 |! u% o; t6 Q( K6 V% tLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; _/ h! t* h. \" F
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
0 y! F( F1 `1 Q5 B# e q. A0 x8 JPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- I" k# N8 ^; zEverything happens for a reason.$ G+ R" L' I/ |9 K8 O
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.; x2 M) b# |( }( z
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,3 N- N/ }3 `: P8 Y" ]
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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; B1 o5 i) V. T: mIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,: M# R" K$ L! w! Q1 F, _7 P
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,) l( p; j2 D m. y6 r) p+ w4 q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% F( N5 R' T7 s1 ^
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,8 b- p3 |0 h$ } ^0 K
Try to love them back unconditionally,
% Q: w- }% b! ?$ i5 s" A" dnot only because they love you, but because in a way,+ W* k$ T. C, S5 T* L
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.) y+ _5 q% _2 X; a) [+ E! X
" D, ~4 G( ?& R# C! mThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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. g8 O7 ?. [, E5 a) o! D/ {+ [and a time to every purpose under the sun.
' _. E5 s( g9 kA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,, i- m2 m! F2 R! v: k! s1 J7 a4 D) M; U
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
0 [8 e% t$ e* L- J( X- f, JGod's grace is as a healing hand.: D5 f, {, g, y1 M6 g1 G) B
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
' y# [: G# p) F5 }9 ]* C2 Athe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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