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Sometimes people come into your life
1 J* p/ W7 @4 |0 r6 R2 ayou know right away that they were meant to be there,
+ j8 V4 G: k5 V7 D( c* e. c" Lto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,2 \+ ~0 f( E7 G; z
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.9 K1 J p3 w e# X9 ~( m/ o
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You never know who these people may be7 c+ K" o! b( X6 ]6 h; b! d6 H
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way" t/ H9 A5 |+ i$ V' d
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
+ q, @+ M. L) oThey are there for the reason you need them to be.7 J" E a! \/ K6 }. O
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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5 F- J9 |' h$ y1 t& X- S# HThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 Z/ v- B* F( Z7 j d3 n* m
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" {& B# ?# T$ x1 ~) R/ USometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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# Z" C3 W# j8 E% V& PWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,) B! c: p1 `$ u, m8 E6 _" Q( c- c/ {
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
( @$ L, B2 h! B, NThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
8 p: M, N1 i9 q! W" z) G2 ^And now it is time for you to move on.9 y9 j6 D6 p7 g+ r" C8 ~ C9 Y
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Then people come into your life for a REASON5 {) E8 P' l8 R3 F! P
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.9 K+ j7 P; w+ J4 o5 g& ?1 B
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
3 F9 x' h- W5 `3 c2 [They may teach you something you have never done.; |$ f5 E8 N+ v* V& W) n5 t0 D8 G
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.6 z& {# R! y6 B8 H7 c/ J$ R* |
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦9 Q2 ]( h# H+ h3 A
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:- {; ?" A) k a/ ~
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,! J- A& F+ R3 [$ I) d0 Q
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.7 p* a5 m! O+ I9 n0 t6 V
Everything happens for a reason.
+ y2 U7 u9 ^2 u4 U3 x& M; u D# NNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
8 w1 k! C. S4 z. n. BIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,' G- R% f; K1 c" X$ ?9 B. C
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.2 t, L* t8 ~5 R' R+ R/ s, H
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$ o6 w) l8 ` c) `If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful," s3 [( I- ^8 d0 q
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,5 e5 t, l/ |! A; W
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,. v$ I, ?: z1 p2 i+ h& b! _
for they have helped you learn about trust4 @! L6 V7 W+ l- c; ?1 \8 w& r! a
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
0 ~, z/ Y/ Y+ e- i" V" FIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
: l( @0 M& d6 G5 H! I+ E; fTry to love them back unconditionally,
. ^1 q' W" j( q5 ]3 v3 q6 Onot only because they love you, but because in a way,
) {% U8 V2 h: g# W" ~5 U8 v, Uthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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. _7 n. U) ^, _3 F- e- b$ `1 r8 QThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,! w6 A! J, W& j: @
5 {. S* l' S2 C/ U5 [and a time to every purpose under the sun.: p# N& i# x5 w @
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ T) w" H% Z/ ~% T
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."$ m4 z5 G* D J" }+ r/ J
God's grace is as a healing hand.5 C1 I6 U! k" e3 O
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,# ~: _8 f' X$ Z" p1 B% r" B
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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