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Sometimes people come into your life
. c, f+ s4 s* v5 _you know right away that they were meant to be there,) i+ S% A: a5 a) B
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,2 c; v2 {* E$ c, f- t2 ]! V: D. {
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be( H" H0 O/ M8 u7 |* i
but when you lock eyes with them,9 Y6 K+ q: I' H" y; v
you know at that very moment,8 X" b6 ~- x' _6 [, x
- i {: |5 }" }+ Z4 \* PThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!, _$ w4 ^: J( q7 g g
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
4 c! ~0 j( Q: N5 n2 Z! A7 jThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,! @# L6 P* |7 s1 i0 o4 u/ L; f* E' t
1 H7 h' c' A! r$ GThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.# a1 b5 t6 [: ^* _' i% u% ?+ R* Q- |/ h
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
4 |# j" e" A$ k cSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,/ y/ h3 c, l: G+ m7 K/ Z0 C
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, ]$ w# ]2 d2 T' }. l+ vThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
9 W4 W- l; S, Z! G* e% yAnd now it is time for you to move on.+ w6 s1 d' k' t/ E
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) r5 M' K9 z8 T$ H& {9 H/ ~Then people come into your life for a REASON
4 Q! Y0 d! g# `Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
5 B2 _" ~* w" L6 K2 _4 n! @- |: q5 YThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh./ m1 @$ |' H% j) Y8 |1 |: S6 o& L
They may teach you something you have never done.' I6 F- t) c P. j
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.& m9 y# L, K0 X e' L* d
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; s7 M- E! ^' _: W- D
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,( e+ G4 q' A$ Q' R7 C3 {3 A
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
# Q, z9 B" t/ GEverything happens for a reason.! r$ O Y* E& j. F6 ~0 [. J
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.- A, `, b) S5 I1 {: U6 K
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
1 |$ F5 P* T1 d% B I# v3 ]and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
7 k# Z) Y% e2 J m8 \You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
6 C0 G5 p D$ U) a, I, \" L7 GIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,) g" ~7 ]5 Y2 f8 _' i e
for they have helped you learn about trust
, T$ i) h$ ~2 U, H( C5 mand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
) \5 K* X: Z o& X# X; x# F: B5 |+ `) VIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,1 s+ ~, j( D8 y0 [$ C+ K0 M, Y
Try to love them back unconditionally,
x% ]# E& e0 e- z* I# l" Rnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
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" w! a; g3 \: MThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.0 U7 {: J) ]& n) y' m
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,3 G9 C8 l% i7 f t* n. d+ f
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."7 M0 h: r- \$ M+ n! Y/ s1 G
God's grace is as a healing hand.
) {2 @2 L( C9 n) s$ N* r5 \% m& uAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,: Y2 ^6 X9 A1 y. M$ ^0 S
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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