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$ P3 u. A- b% HSometimes people come into your life
4 K* l% c& X& ?/ _4 J' r9 @you know right away that they were meant to be there,
8 D; k5 @+ T0 P( `7 ^/ _( g, wto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 _3 w# q4 u+ }' U
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be7 s2 z: s2 t* v2 J1 x
but when you lock eyes with them,+ O- ?' y/ B' D( _
you know at that very moment,5 @5 O3 \( o3 _9 b
5 U0 j' _# t4 l- g9 k; D% l8 ZThey will affect your life in some profound way& p; u3 L" X" v' w7 k" v
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
& z: K, _0 Y- E: SThey are there for the reason you need them to be., I% M2 V8 s4 A6 t9 j
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
1 ^7 R: x$ m% t( OSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.% F+ z/ R, J v: @
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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/ {( E3 W, G7 m! P, B& aWhat we must realize is that our need has been met," j( [3 {7 T# V6 |7 M
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
6 ?" a9 u$ z& \- h* N( ~( m4 u, nThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
5 T1 I$ _! t. v/ ~! yAnd now it is time for you to move on." I( C$ G1 ]( f' D% L1 {
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
% _6 k0 }% }& n* PBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.7 {6 ]" {2 n: |' t$ e- a b
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
. c1 d. I" W& d; G9 ]. AThey may teach you something you have never done.
& J4 _5 q$ S/ ~1 f0 QThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
( l4 {7 M7 o: LBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
9 Z( Z( N6 F/ v1 B) G! o! F3 aYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
1 e) j: Z- K, F) SPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.- ^% O5 l) O0 A7 p8 j3 W
Everything happens for a reason.4 }) @# r& _6 N+ ^$ Q, c* P# F
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ V; r+ Z! e3 g! ]0 [
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
1 I( Q. ~" E# [: C8 zand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,2 X' @# z0 \) z9 ~* \' A
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure," ]2 J6 _& \# j# }+ E0 A# P
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,& V' z4 d: l: L9 Q1 U' d
for they have helped you learn about trust+ x5 I! f) I. `$ [5 K* e, p$ W
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.6 w1 K% [5 v& w3 _
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 i6 J7 h/ @. y* J2 O: u
Try to love them back unconditionally,/ O: [/ {, l g3 B
not only because they love you, but because in a way,; v* V$ ]. k4 s% A
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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" B0 q7 E; V! l# u# wThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,4 f$ w( G' F8 O; a. l. h/ H
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.# h! y7 L1 Y+ D( Q8 t2 A# f4 Y+ p, V
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.# Y, B! |1 W* D# K4 e8 G
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,' Y! f: l4 Y+ d2 z) u, s
the warm memories and love for those we have lost j; W5 }* ]0 c" H/ |. v+ Q0 ?% L G
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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